own sex; he is therefore zealous to maintain that superiority, and jealous of every attack made upon it; but he is at the same time endowed with a sen|timental tenderness for the other sex, and a strong inclination to promote their happiness; which with regard to them, may be called his weak side, and which women of sense easily discover, and as easily take the advantage of. This being the state of things between the two sexes, nothing seems more plain, than that though men govern by law, women may almost always govern by the arts of gentleness and soft persuasion.
The empire of woman (says a French author) is an empire of sweetness, ad••ress, and complaisance; her commands are caresses; her menaces are tears:
and
••e may add, that the power of such commands and of such menaces is like that of faith, which
〈◊〉〈◊〉 remove mountains: it is a power which has nature on its side; the principle by her implanted within us, pleads in favour of the sex, and more than half performs the task of making us obey all the commands they lay upon us,
••hen they are laid with gentleness of
••anners▪ and an
••n|sinuating behavi
••ur. But though men of sensibility and good nature m
••y infallibly be governed by soft|ness and addres
••,
••her
•• are
••ther
•• cast in a rougher mould, whose he
••••ts are strangers to the sinc
•• sensa|tions, and whose st
••bborn feelings bend
〈◊〉〈◊〉 even to prayers and intrea
••ies. Women jo
••ned to
〈…〉〈…〉 sit down in silence▪ and deplo
•••• ••heir mi
••fortune; a misfortune which is beyond their
••••••wer to remedy; for we have but too good
••eason to affirm, that the temper, upon which gentle
•••••• and go
••d-nature are lost, can never be me
••••ied by ill-nature. Men of sense will often, for th
•• sake
〈◊〉〈◊〉 peace, submit to be ill-treated by a woman; me
•• destitute
••f sense, will retort that treatment with double violence.