say, men seem to be studying an exchange for mans first decep∣tion; by shutting the eyes of women towards the discernment of the evils of this life; and consequently to punish them by their over-loving it? For now adayes few converse with youth∣ful and handsom•• persons, but to entertain them with shews and triumphs of their own beauties: being led so far from the thought of their own frailtie, that commonly, they hear of no∣thing, but what themselves are idly said to consume and destroy; not a word of their own true perishing and consumption. It would be thought a rude, if not an unreasonable advice, to tell them, that when they look upon their most partial glasses, ev'n then they see but a deaths-head; and yet this is a verier truth then those reflections which the flatteries of the world make them; for that will one day be true, and every day advances that truth; whereas the other fain'd immortal ascriptions ne∣ver were true, and are every day going farther off from the ap∣parences of it. But alas, for the most part, this frail sex in the world, is so inconsidering of truth, that while they have beams of praises and fl••tteries in their faces, they imagine not they m••ke any shadow behind them: when the truth is, all the while they live in the belief of these vain adulations, they are sitting in darkness, and the shadow of death.
The familiarity with truth, is certainly, the only means for a safe and friendly acquaintance with death. Hence it is that they who seldom hear of him, but in some such fiction, as they cannot credit, ev'n while they are fancied by it (as in all those frivolous attributions to themselves of the power of life and death,) such cannot be much wondred at, for remaining in an inconsideration, and incogitancie of their own dissolution. For by the means of those amusements, women may be said, too frequently, held inchanted by their own charms; since ev'n their advantages of nature, perverted by flatteries, dazel and blind them, in the understanding their own nature. This befals them, when beautie (the fadingness whereof is the greatest de∣t••ctor and impeacher of our frailtie) proves an insurer of the lastingness of this life: and when this light becomes darkness, how