accomplish them, all Opportunities are improv'd, and there needs no more after seeing and liking one another.
I was some days ago at the Marchioness D' Alcannizas, she's one of the greatest and most vertuous Ladies of the Court; dis∣coursing of these things, she very freely said to us, I must needs confess, that if a Cavallero should be convenienly alone with me half an hour, and did not ask me all that a Man could ask, I should resent it so briskly, that I would stab him if I could. And would you grant him all the Favours he might ask you, interrupted the Mar∣chioness De Liche, who is young and handsome? That does not follow, replied my Lady D' Alcannizas, on the contrary, I have reason to believe, that I should grant him nothing at all; but then I could not reproach him with any thing, whereas if he made no attempt upon me, I should conclude he despised me. There are few, I believe, but what are of the same opinion in this matter.
There's one thing I find very odd, and not to look well, me∣thinks in a Catholick Kingdom, and that is, The tollerating of Men, that keep Mistresses so openly, without the least disguise; it is very true that they are forbid by the Laws, but they value not the Laws, and only obey their own Inclinations, and yet no body offers to call them to account, or to reprove them in the least. These Mistresses are called Amancebades; though a Man is mar∣ried, yet he must have one of these Creatures, and often the na∣tural Children are brought up with the legitimate in the sight of the poor Wife, who patiently bears all this without so much as speaking a word. It is very seldom one hears of any Differences between Husband and Wife, and yet seldomer, that they separate as in France. Of an infinite number of Persons that I know here, I have only seen the Princess Della Rocea, that does not live with her Husband, but in a Convent, the Courts of Justice are not much troubled here with domestick Quarrels.
It seems extraordinary to me that a Lady who loves, and is be∣lov'd by a Cavallero, is not jealous of his Amancebada; she looks upon her as a second Wife, and believes she cannot stand in com∣petition with her; so that a Man has his Wife, his Amancebade, and his Mistress, this last is generally a Person of Quality; 'tis she that is visited in the Night, and for whom they venture their Lives.
It happens sometimes that a Lady cover'd with her great plain Mantle or Vail, and not shewing any more of her Face than half an Eye, and being ordinarily drest, because she would not be known, and having no mind to take a Chair, walks afoot to the place of Rendezvous; either her being little us'd to walk, or ve∣ry often, her manner and way distinguishes her: a Cavallero fol∣lows, and begins to talk to her, uneasie to have such a Compani∣on