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CHAP. VI. A Discourse of the happy State of Matrimony, as 'tis appointed by God; and the true Fe∣licity that redounds thereby to either Sex; and to what End it was Ordained.
WIthout doubt, the uniting of Hearts in holy Wedlock, is of all conditions the happiest; for then a Man has a second self to whom he can unravel his Thoughts, as well as a sweet Companion in his Labour; he has one in whose Breast, as in a safe Cabinet, he may repose his inmost Secrets, especially where Reciprocal Love, and inviolate Faith is center∣ed; for there no cares, fears, jealousies, mis∣trust or hatred, can ever interpose; for what Man, ever hated his own Flesh? And indeed a Wife is no less, if rightly considered; for as our grand Father Adam well observed, she is, or ought to be esteemed of every honest Man, Bone of his Bone, and Flesh of his Flesh, &c. Nor was it the least care of the Almighty, to ordain so near a Union, and that for two causes, the first for increase of Posterity, the second to bridle and bound Man's wandering Desires and Affections; nay, that they might be yet happier, when God had joined them together, he blessed them, as 'tis in the 2d. of Genesi••,