The remedies to cure the passion of anger.
That we may settle this passion of anger; First, we are to consider the persons of these whom we have offen∣ded: we must give place to wrath, and not intempestivè incendium extinguere, not to quench the fire unseasona∣bly, for then we rather increase the anger, when we goe about in time of griefe to pacifie them. So Iacob gave place to the anger of his brother Esau for a while, by the counsell of Rebecca. Seneca saith, Primam iram non audebimus oratione mulcere, surda est & timens, dabimus illi spacium, remedia in remissionibus morborum prosunt: that is, We goe not about to pacifie anger in the heate of it, wee give it leasure first to settle, wee cure not feavers in their height, but when they begin to remit.
Secondly, when others have offended us; that wee may quench our anger: First, Bee angry but sinne not, Ephes. 4.25. Anger and sinne are not two twins, yet they are very like other; as flattery is very like to friendship, and can be very hardly distinguished from it; for men oftentimes thinke themselves to bee angry for Gods cause, when as it is their owne particular that mooves them. The disciples called for fire from heaven upon the Samaritans, Luk. 9.54. one would have thought this to have beene holy anger and zeale that moved them for Gods glory, when as it was their own particular which moved them: so when the high Priest rent his cloathes Mat. 26.65. We must learne then to distinguish these two, else our anger will be but sinfull anger.