no other subjection of the wife to the husband, but the endeavouring of the wife in all mutuall love to be led and governed by the husband her head.
This branch of the censure therefore, doth stand with as great opposition to the state of perfection as the former; which doth manifestly appear by the twofold inseparable union of man and wife in the state of perfection, which was both naturall and spirituall; the strictest union that can be conceived by man. The naturall union is set down by Moses in these words, They shall be both one flesh: For the woman was made of the rib of the man, which is the most solid and condensate sensitive part of man, as he is sensitive; for the matter of the bone is of the blood of man: And therefore when Eve was first brought before Adam, Adam (out of the perfection of his naturall under∣stand) affirmed that Eve was flesh of his flesh, and bone of his bone. And therefore called her Mannes, according to the originall, affirming her to be man essentially, adding only the distinction of the sex of man. In which sense, the Apostle doth call the woman mans own flesh. So that if man love his own flesh naturally, he must love his wife as himself, Ephes. 5.29. The second union of man and wife in the state of perfection, was spirituall; for both were equally created in the lively Image of God, in the indivisible uni∣on of mutuall spirituall love to righteousnesse, far surmounting the most strict union under the heavens.
By this twofold inseparable union of man and wife in the state of per∣fection, by matrimoniall union; the union was inseparable: And there∣fore our Saviour speaking of Moses bill of divorcement, Mat. 19.8. told the Jews that Moses did permit that bill for the hardnesse of their heart; and that it was not so from the beginning: For, they were created male and fe∣male, whereby the one did strive to overcome the other by the mutuall offi∣ces of love. And this was the greatest subjection of the wise to the husband in the state of perfection, which was in this twofold union of mutuall love. And therefore it is said, Let no man separate whom God hath joyned together, to wit, in marriage. This inseparable union of man and wife in the state of per∣fection, as it was without any essentiall or spirituall reall difference; so it was equall, without all imperious authority, either of naturall or spirituall subjection; neither was it possible to be otherwise: for the naturall and spi∣rituall love of both, being inseparably and indivisibly one, as the love of the head to the body, and of the body to the head: Man the head could no other∣wise command his body, his wife, but by a sweet pleasing regiment of love, directing his body, as head, in all naturall and spirituall love. And there∣fore woman was made neither of the lowest or highest part of man, but of the rib, equall in situation with the region of the heart. Though this cen∣sure