The second SECTION. That women are capable of good lights and solid instruments.
SInce I see my self obliged by my design to make a brief model of principal perfections, which may be desired for the complishment of an excel∣lent Ladie, and that this discourse cannot be through∣ly perfected without observing vicious qualities, which are blemishes opposite to the virtues we en∣deavour to establish; I will make use of the clew of some notable invention in so great a labyrinth of thoughts, the better to facilitate the way.
I remember to have heretofore read a very rare ma∣nuscript of Theodosius of Malta, a Greek Authour, touching the nuptials of Theophilus Emperour of Constantinople, and his wife Theodora, which will fur∣nish us with a singular enterance into that, which we now seek for; so that we adde the embelishment of so many Oracles of wisdom to the foundations, which this Historian hath layed.
He recounteth, that this Theophilus being on the point to dispose himself for marriage, the Empress his mother, named Euphrosina, who passionately desi∣red the contentment of her son in an affair of so great importance, dispatched her Embassadours through all the Provinces of the Empire, to draw to∣gether the most accomplished maidens which might be found in the whole circuit of his Kingdom. And for that purpose she shut up within the walls of Con∣stantinople, the rarest beauties of the whole world, as∣sembling a great number of Virgins into a chamber of his Palace, called for curiositie, The Pearl. The day being come, wherein the Emperour was to make choice of her to whom he would give his heart, with the Crown of the Empire, the Empress his mother spake to him in these terms:
MY LORD AND SON, Needs must I confess, that since the day nature bound me so streightly to your person, next after God, I neither have love, fear, care, hope, nor contentment, but for you. The day yieldeth up all my thoughts to you, and the night, which seemeth made to arrest the agitations of our spirit, never razeth the rememberance of you from my heart: I acknow∣ledge my self doubly obliged to procure with all my en∣deavours what ere concerneth your good, because I am your mother, and that I see you charged with an Em∣pire, which is no small burden to them who have the di∣scretion to understand what they undertake.
It seems to me since the death of the Emperour your father, my most honoured Lord, I have so many times newly been delivered of you, as I have seen thorny af∣fairs in the mannage of your State. And at this time, when I behold you upon terms to take a wife, and that I know by experience to meet with one who is accomplished with all perfections necessary for your State, is no less rare than the acquisition of a large Empire, the care I have ever used in all concerns your glory and content∣ment, is therefore now more sensible with me, than at any other time heretofore.
It is true, O most dear Son, that the praise-worthy in∣clinations which I have observed in your Mujestie, give me as much hope as may reasonably by conceived in the course of humane things: yet notwithstanding the acci∣dents we see to happen so contrary to their proceedings, do also entertain my mind in some uncertaintie.
That you may take some resolution upon this matter, behold in the Pearl of Constantinople, I have made choice of the most exquisite maidens of your Empire, to the end your Majestie may elect her, whom you shall judge most worthie of your chaste affections. I beseech God, who is Authour of Marriage, to direct your spirit in this choice, and dispose it to that which shall be to his greater glorie, wherein you shall ever find your con∣tentments.
When she had spoken this, she drew out of a box a golden apple, enameled with precious stones, which she had purposely caused to be made, that it might be presented to her, who should be chosen out for the bed of her son, and putting it into the Emperours hand:
Behold (saith he) the golden apple, which I leave to your discretion, to give it to the most absolute. You have the Commission of Paris in your hands, but you shall do well to dispose of it more discreetly than he.
The Emperour, after he had most affectionately given thanks to his mother for so many excellent prooss of her affection, asked of her by what note might one know a wife truly virtuous, and so accom∣plished as she wished.
Euphrosina replied: It is no sleight demand, O Em∣perour, nor can that so readily be resolved, yet by your good favour, I will roughly delineate this discourse with so much sinceritie, as not to attribute any thing to my sex, to the prejudice of truth.
There are three sorts of men, who cannot speak well of us: whereof the first are certain scoffers, who to put themselves into an humour, and to give scope to their wits, have no discourse more familiar in their mouthes, than the condemnation of women: and God forbid, these should be any other than Poets or Philosophers; for they frame discourses of our nature, and extravagances to no purpose.
I revenge my self commonly upon these kind of men by silence: for it is to cast water on coals, to hear them without reply, and to punish their tattle by contempt.
Others are men wounded in sport, and who have not well digested some disgraces they have received from women, to whom either vice, folly, or malice hath enga∣ged them more than was expedient for their quiet. These are, as if a dog hurt with a stone, should run up and down to bite all the stones he finds in his way, yea, those which are laid by work-men in the buildings of Churches and houses. They fall upon all women for having been deceived, as they say, by a woman, and cease not to scratch the wound, to renew the smart of it. But who sees not it is a meer passion, to blame the general for the deserts of particulars?
In the third rank, are certain melancholly furious creatures, or such as have something worse in them than furie, who have not so much proclaimed war against our sex, as denounced it against total nature, which cover∣eth us with its arms in this point, and confirmeth us in our right by their silence.
Some of these, who are strong in passion, and discover their revenge with pretext of learning, would perswade us, that the meanest spirit of all the men in the world, is more eminent than that of the most capable woman.
Verily, I will not raise my sex above the merit thereof, thinking we shall ever be high enough, if we abide in the rank which God hath given us.
But whether we consider reason, or whether we regard experience, they very pertinently make void this chy∣mera