CHAP. XXXIII. Of the Duties of Parents and Children.
I. Of the Caution that is to be used in Cojugal Co∣habitation. FOrasmuch as from the Individual Society, and Cohabitation of Man and Wife Children do proceed, and by means thereof the succession of Families, Kindred, Estates and Titles ar•• perpetu∣ated; it highly concerns Parents, that they be∣have themselves prudently in the Conjugal Union, lest by their intemperance their off-spring be vitia∣ted. For it was not without Reason, that some have been reproached with this stinging Taunt, Thy Father begot thee when he was drunk. For the Vices of the Parents, are frequently transferr'd to their Children; and the very temper of their Bodies, is a cause either of the commendable, or nerverse Manners of them.
II. The Duty of Mothers. The Duty of the Mother; is to take care that the Child in her Womb do not come to any hurt, and when Born, that she sollicitously cherish it, and suckle it her self, and that she do not put it out to a Nurse, without urgent necessity. As soon as it comes to the use of reason, she must also endeavour to form its tender and pliable Manners, according to the rules of Vertue and Piety, and to instil into it the first Principles of Religion.
III. The Office of Fathers. But because it imports little to have given Life to Children, and thereby to put them into a State, that is indifferent to either Vertue or Vice, except due Instruction be superadded, and the Hatred of the one, and Love of the other be inculcated into them; it is the Fathers Duty, to take care that they be timely taught, according to his Ability and Condition, and he must omit nothing, that may conduce to their advancement in Learning and Good Manners. If he be able, let him put them out to School, to the end that being out of their Mothers sight, and rid from her fondling of them, they may mind their Learning the better: But he must so resign the care of their Instruction to others, as not wholly to neglect it himself, but must have an Eye to the Progress they make, by prescribing what they ought to learn, and judg∣ing what may be omitted: Except he be assured of the Ability, Care and Prudence of the Ma∣sters, with whom he hath intrusted them.
IV. Parents are bound to main∣tain their Ch ildre. Another Duty of Parents is, that they take care of the Bodily Sustenance of their Children; and in case they want wherewith to maintain them, that then they take care to teach them such Arts, whereby they may be able to maintain themselves, without being burthensome to them. Neither must only Legitimate Children be maintained by Pa∣rents, but Natural also, that is, such as are Born without Wedlock. For according to the Law of Nature, they ought to be provided for by their Parents; and tho' they cannot be said to be Mem∣bers of the Commonwealth, yet they are like Warts and Corns, which tho' they be no parts of the Body, yet are fed from the substance of the Body to which they adhere. And therefore l. 3. de inof. Test. Bastards are allow'd an Action at Law, whereby they may oblige their Parents to give them a Maintenance, as well as if they were Le∣gitimate.
V. Parents must love their Chil∣dren ali••e. Parents likewise are obliged to bear an equal Love to all their Children, without putting any difference between them; for seeing they all of them stand in the same relation to their Parents, they ought also to be cherished with the same Love and Affection; neither is any difference to be made between them, as to their right of Inhe∣ritance, except the particular Prerogative of Pri∣mogeniture, and where the Laws of the Society, wherein they livedo require it. Wherefore the Civil Law gives the Children power of bringing an Action of an inofficious Testament against a Fa∣ther, who by his last Will bequeaths his Estate to others, passing by his Sons and lawful Heirs; and the Falcidian Law allows them the fourth part of the Estate to be equally shar'd amongst them. But yet it is lawful, and permitted to Pa∣rents to love them more, and bestow more upon them, in whom they discern more Obedience and Vertue; because this is no more than is due to their worth, they being no otherwise preferr'd