The Family Grave-Yard [pp. 371-372]

The Ladies' repository: a monthly periodical, devoted to literature, arts, and religion. / Volume 8, Issue 12

THE FAMILY GRAVE-YARD. grasp of a moral hyena. Miserable victim of decep tion! She had repelled the application of honest in dustry, purity of love, and moral integrity. These lacked the embellishments of popular refinement, and the tinsel of artificial acquirements, and she shuddered at the idea of wedding such apparent de ficiencies. But the splendor of wealth, the magnifi cence of name, and the potency of smiling, mechan ical politeness, won her trembling hand-grasping a pure and unsuspecting heart, the token of her sin cere but misplaced love. In short, she wedded the mockery of grand appearances; and where is she now? See that wretched haunt of poverty and woe! But visit the inside scene. See, gaunt and care-worn, that wreck of former beauty and innocence! This is she, who chose wealth before merit, beauty before piety, and outside accomplishments before honesthearted industry. She now feels the consequences of her unwise choice. Youthful sister, pledge not thy heart and hand to shadows, but hold them sacred to the claims of real merit. Miss M was a beautiful girl of sixteen. She had a brilliant and laughing eye. Her beautiful face smiled daily in the bright sunshine of innocence and health. Her elastic walk indicated the activity of her mind and the vigor of her body. She measured out to herself a long span of pleasurable and fashionable life, and only thought of death as the welcome visitant of old age, coming on a friendly errand to release her from the worn-out scenes and insipid pleasures of a tiresome and gloomy decrepitulde. She danced gayly along the mirthful path of popular life, thoughtless of God, of holiness, of heaven, and of eternity. Her parents, dotingly fond of their picture of beauty and health, put far away the day of evil. Little did they think that those sparkling eyes, so laughing and sweet, were but streaming out the expiring flame of life-that those cheeks of rosy hue exhibited the luxuriant blossoms of an early death, and that that elastic step was the premonitory vigor of unseen, approaching decay. Yet so it was. The greedy consumption worm lay coiled at the root of that flourishing plant. It silently performed its death-dealing work. Every one was shocked at her unexpected fall. They were deceived by appearances. Thus, amidst the gayeties of innocent yet irreligious youth, living chiefly in the alluring prospective, she suddenly fell, an unprepared victim to insidious disease. She was not ready, because she was deceived by appearances. Thoughtless reader! be not deceived by the empty show of terrestrial shadows, but seek, in pure religion, the unfailing substance of life and true happiness. Observing a young gentleman of fine appearance, and smiling innocence, as we walked up street, in a certain city, I said to my friend, "That's a noble-looking young man; I have no doubt he is intelligent and pious, and an example worthy the imitation of all his associates." My friend, struck with the unexpected observation, looked at me in surprise, and replied, "I am sorry to say, sir, that truth compels me to break the spell of deception from your mind. Judging from appearances, you are greatly deceived. I regret to say it, but that same young man is a slave to his passions, a plague-spot in society, and on the rapid way to some dreadful end." Musing awhile, I thought how true that real worth and merit dwell not in the folds of gaudy apparel, stately carriage, or beauty of face; and how true, likewise, that vice and pollution often assume these deceptious appearances to conceal their repulsive deformity. Often, by this means, poisoned by the contaminations of popular sin, and by the unsuspected insinuations of bad example, are the unwary led far astray from the path of innocence and virtue. Certainly these influences would not be so overwhelmingly destructive, were there not a serious wrong in the community relative to the standard of character. Concealed by imposing externals, crime is often palliated, and corruption excused; while splendid deeds and heavenly virtue are passed unnoticed and unrewarded, because unaccompanied by the showy imagery of popular accomplishments. "Away, then, with all but moral in the name, And let what then remains constitute the man." THE FAMILY GRAVE-YARD. > B~~~~~~Y AIOBXRTA. THE sun, in all his glory, has sunk beneath the western horizon, and gentle twilight, to me the sweetest hour of the day, finds me lonely and quietly seated ill the family grave-yard. Here lie the bodies of a fond father, two affectionate brothers, and a nephew. Of my eldest brother, I can say nothing from personal knowledge, as he died when I was but a child. My father, my fond father, he whose voice had so often fallen, in sweet accents, on my ear, whose smiles had often cheered me, and whose arms had often embraced me, was the next to be laid within these pales. He lived to be an old man; yes, the winds of seventy-four winters had blown over him. For several years previous to his last affliction, he was partially blind and deaf. This he bore without a murmur. During his last hours, for the space of three days, he was deprived of the power of speech, and of hearing, and seeing. O, what affliction! Doubtless this was for the accomplishment of some wise purpose, which will be unknown to us until the day when all hidden mysteries shall be revealed. It surely would have been one of the greatest comforts at that time just to have heard from his lips one word; but it was all the "Lord's doings." He was mercifully spared to see his children fully grown, and all in pursuit of that rest which he is now sweetly enjoying. This was, 371


THE FAMILY GRAVE-YARD. grasp of a moral hyena. Miserable victim of decep tion! She had repelled the application of honest in dustry, purity of love, and moral integrity. These lacked the embellishments of popular refinement, and the tinsel of artificial acquirements, and she shuddered at the idea of wedding such apparent de ficiencies. But the splendor of wealth, the magnifi cence of name, and the potency of smiling, mechan ical politeness, won her trembling hand-grasping a pure and unsuspecting heart, the token of her sin cere but misplaced love. In short, she wedded the mockery of grand appearances; and where is she now? See that wretched haunt of poverty and woe! But visit the inside scene. See, gaunt and care-worn, that wreck of former beauty and innocence! This is she, who chose wealth before merit, beauty before piety, and outside accomplishments before honesthearted industry. She now feels the consequences of her unwise choice. Youthful sister, pledge not thy heart and hand to shadows, but hold them sacred to the claims of real merit. Miss M was a beautiful girl of sixteen. She had a brilliant and laughing eye. Her beautiful face smiled daily in the bright sunshine of innocence and health. Her elastic walk indicated the activity of her mind and the vigor of her body. She measured out to herself a long span of pleasurable and fashionable life, and only thought of death as the welcome visitant of old age, coming on a friendly errand to release her from the worn-out scenes and insipid pleasures of a tiresome and gloomy decrepitulde. She danced gayly along the mirthful path of popular life, thoughtless of God, of holiness, of heaven, and of eternity. Her parents, dotingly fond of their picture of beauty and health, put far away the day of evil. Little did they think that those sparkling eyes, so laughing and sweet, were but streaming out the expiring flame of life-that those cheeks of rosy hue exhibited the luxuriant blossoms of an early death, and that that elastic step was the premonitory vigor of unseen, approaching decay. Yet so it was. The greedy consumption worm lay coiled at the root of that flourishing plant. It silently performed its death-dealing work. Every one was shocked at her unexpected fall. They were deceived by appearances. Thus, amidst the gayeties of innocent yet irreligious youth, living chiefly in the alluring prospective, she suddenly fell, an unprepared victim to insidious disease. She was not ready, because she was deceived by appearances. Thoughtless reader! be not deceived by the empty show of terrestrial shadows, but seek, in pure religion, the unfailing substance of life and true happiness. Observing a young gentleman of fine appearance, and smiling innocence, as we walked up street, in a certain city, I said to my friend, "That's a noble-looking young man; I have no doubt he is intelligent and pious, and an example worthy the imitation of all his associates." My friend, struck with the unexpected observation, looked at me in surprise, and replied, "I am sorry to say, sir, that truth compels me to break the spell of deception from your mind. Judging from appearances, you are greatly deceived. I regret to say it, but that same young man is a slave to his passions, a plague-spot in society, and on the rapid way to some dreadful end." Musing awhile, I thought how true that real worth and merit dwell not in the folds of gaudy apparel, stately carriage, or beauty of face; and how true, likewise, that vice and pollution often assume these deceptious appearances to conceal their repulsive deformity. Often, by this means, poisoned by the contaminations of popular sin, and by the unsuspected insinuations of bad example, are the unwary led far astray from the path of innocence and virtue. Certainly these influences would not be so overwhelmingly destructive, were there not a serious wrong in the community relative to the standard of character. Concealed by imposing externals, crime is often palliated, and corruption excused; while splendid deeds and heavenly virtue are passed unnoticed and unrewarded, because unaccompanied by the showy imagery of popular accomplishments. "Away, then, with all but moral in the name, And let what then remains constitute the man." THE FAMILY GRAVE-YARD. > B~~~~~~Y AIOBXRTA. THE sun, in all his glory, has sunk beneath the western horizon, and gentle twilight, to me the sweetest hour of the day, finds me lonely and quietly seated ill the family grave-yard. Here lie the bodies of a fond father, two affectionate brothers, and a nephew. Of my eldest brother, I can say nothing from personal knowledge, as he died when I was but a child. My father, my fond father, he whose voice had so often fallen, in sweet accents, on my ear, whose smiles had often cheered me, and whose arms had often embraced me, was the next to be laid within these pales. He lived to be an old man; yes, the winds of seventy-four winters had blown over him. For several years previous to his last affliction, he was partially blind and deaf. This he bore without a murmur. During his last hours, for the space of three days, he was deprived of the power of speech, and of hearing, and seeing. O, what affliction! Doubtless this was for the accomplishment of some wise purpose, which will be unknown to us until the day when all hidden mysteries shall be revealed. It surely would have been one of the greatest comforts at that time just to have heard from his lips one word; but it was all the "Lord's doings." He was mercifully spared to see his children fully grown, and all in pursuit of that rest which he is now sweetly enjoying. This was, 371

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