certainly tell what I do think of another, although I cannot tell what he doth think of me. So, though I cannot certainly, and infallibly tell whether ano∣ther loves me, yet I can certainly tell whether I love him or no; his love to me is in his heart, which I know not; my love to him is in my heart, which I know, and no creature else.
2. If I would indeed know if I love the brethren, let me examine how I do stand affected to them, in sympathizing with them when they be in misery, Heb. 13. 3. Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them, and them which suffer adversity, as being your selves also in the body.
3. When we are at distance from them, what de∣sires have we after them, Phil. 1. 8. God is my re∣cord, how greatly I long after y•••• all, in the bowels of Jesus Christ. Now why doth Paul call God to record? to prove the truth of his love to these Saints, but because this love in his heart, was known to none but to God and himself.
4. What delight do we take in their company; we are often in the company of those that we take no delight in: Now do we indeed delight in the society of the Saints: then we love them, Psalm 16. 3, &c.
In a word, such things as we love, we keep with care, possess with joy, and loose with grief: so much of the inward tryals of our love to the Saints.
Next of the external tryals of this love, by which we may know, that others do love us, and by which they may know that we love them.
But these evidences are not so infallible as the