with my compassion . I will speake in Hirons words, they are to this purpose.
There is a wedding in that house to day, and there they are merry;
with them I should rejoyce: In the other house there is a
funerall, a beloved yoke-fellow, or a deare childe is carrying forth to buriall, there are sad hearts we are sure, I should weep with them: for this is to be
like minded, to be
companions with others, as members of the same body. I must think again; I know not how soone their case may be mine:
Mirth and
sorrow have their turns, and I know not how soone, they may exchange with me. As I shall let my heart loose in the one, the lesse command I shall have over it in the other: As my sensuall content∣ment shall dilate and expand my heart; so will sorrow compresse and shrink it up: If my heart be as light as a fea∣ther in the one, it may be as heavy as a stone in the other; it was
Nabals case. Let me ever finde out something even in the midst of my mirth, Christian-like to
leaven it; so I may more likely finde something in my sorrow to sweeten that also.
The maine and principall lesson is, That we sawce our earthly joyes with godly sorrow; so should all our worldly sorrow be mixed with spirituall joy. We must not let earth∣ly contentments take up all the roome in the heart; for then sorrow, when it comes, will look for the like freedome, commanding there, and stopping up the least cranny for comfort to enter in at.
So much to temper and moderate our mindes in the sud∣den flushes of joy.
There is a more constant running out of our affections, in a more constant tenour of earthly things, which some at sometimes may finde; if so, and our affections are enlarged beyond their bounds, such like sad and sober thoughts as these may call them in, if they take place.
Is my estate prosperous? And do I over greedily seeke, or highly esteeme, or intemperately joy in the comforts, which prosperitie affords? Let me think now, that the wicked have these things too, and more abundantly, and