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10. Of Dis∣course and Compliance.
1. In Conversation, avoiding all appearance of levity, laughter, and secular Mirth, which contristates the Holy Spirit, and obstructs its Motions, excludes sober thoughts, suits ill with God's presence, and a constant habit of Prayer; which is built upon a false, and fleeting foundation, and savours of too much sensuality, and gives to our treacher∣ous nature a hurtful liberty that tends to several Exorbi∣tances, whereas in this world she should rather be always to some degree curbed and mortified: Remembring the wise-man's censure of it Eccl 2.2. I proved my heart with Mirth (saith he): And I said of Laughter it is mad, and of Mirth what doth it? And, our Lord's woe Luk. 6.25. See Eccl. 2.7. &c. to the 8. —Ecclesiasticus 21.20. But always retaining your self within a certain degree of Gravity, which is ready to nourish any good motions of the Spirit, or dictates of Reason (that are choaked by Mirth:) and carries with it some mortification of your sensitive faculties [Cor sapientium ubi tristitia est Eccl. 7.5.] and, if it were for nothing else, which is eligible for the sobering of your company by your good example; per tristitiam vultus corrigitur animus delinquentis Ib. v. 4. See 1. Tim. 3, 4.8.11. Tit. 2.2, 7. To this end not using too much fa∣miliarity and intimacy with any. Charitas habenda est