§. 23.
9. Of Com∣pany and se∣cular Con∣verse.
1. Not seeking acquaintance, no way necessary to us; nou∣rishing idleness, and the neglect of our Vocation; (a temp∣tation to make visits, and go much abroad; an occasion of entertainments, vain expence, and intemperance; and, as many times an effect, so a cause, of ambition, and desire to be known;) whereby we subject our selves to new obliga∣tions, and laws, I mean, of secular Civilities, pretended to belong to the duty of friendship: not well consistent with those laws of God, to which we owe an indispensable ob∣servance. Ungrateful Friendship that to please a less Friend offends a greater!
2. Abstaining from much conversation, and frequenting of company. Cavete ab hominibus for you will get no good by them. Matt. 10.17. And, Totus mundus positus in ma∣ligno 1. Jo. 5.19. Of the Contagion of which the Philo∣sopher Seneca observed; Nunquam mores, quos extuli, re∣fero; aliquid ex eo quod composui, turbatur. Ambitiosior redeo, luxuriosior &c. For it being certain, that the most of men (and consequently of company) are unwise, are