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LETTER XVIII.
To Dgnet Oglou.
THOU wilt wonder when I tell thee, I am melancholy for want of Solitude▪ That which administers Occasion of Sadness to others, is the onely Cure of my Grief. Yet, this will not seem a Paradox, when thou con∣siderest, that Conversation is the Air of the Soul, and that he who values the Health and Ease of his Mind, ought to chuse such an Ele∣ment for it to breathe in, as is pure and serene, which is very Difficult to find in any Society. This is the Reason, that I never think my self more alone, than when I am confin'd to some Kind of Company.
Thou hast observed, that most Men will engross all the Talk to themselves; this is ve∣ry Irksom. Yet, I should not grudge them the Monopoly, were their Discourse pertinent and agreeable; but, to be forc'd to hearken to all their empty Tattle of Hawks and Hounds, Garbs and Fashions, with an endless Jargon of Things less to the Purpose than the former, which will keep their Tongues employ'd some∣times two or three Hours together; renders their Converse more troublesome, than that of the Spark, who pick'd up Horace in the Streets of Rome.
Others are of a quite contrary Humour; and, thou mayst as soon get a Word from