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A QUESTION deeply concerning Married persons, and such as intend to Marry, propounded, and resolved ac∣cording to the Scriptures.
Whether any Woman (Widow or Maid) intending to Marry, may before her Marriage reserve any of her Goods in her own power, to be disposed by her after she shall be Married without her Husbands direction or consent?
The resolution is Negative for the Reasons following.
1. THis removeth the meerstones of Gods Ordinance, who hatha 1.1 set the Husband to be the head of the Wife as Christ is the head of the Church, and the Wives to be subject in every thing to their own Husbands as the Church is unto Christ. And if it be a cursed act to removeb 1.2 our neighbours Landmark, how much morec 1.3 cursed (by desert) is that deceiver who will offer this to the Lord of Hosts, thed 1.4 most high God, the possessor of Heaven and earth, whose Name is dreadfull among the heathen? Therefore in detestation of all such presumptions every vertuous woman should say withe 1.5 Jacob, My soul enter not into such secrets, for they are cursed.
2. As the Wife even in the state of innocency owed subjection to her Husband, be∣causef 1.6 Adam was first formed, then Eve; andg 1.7 the man is not of the woman, but the woman of the man; neither was theh 1.8 man created for the woman, but the woman for the man: so after the fall, this subjection, which before sin entred wasi 1.9 delightfull andk 1.10 not grievous, was then imposed as al 1.11 penalty of her transgression,m 1.12 curbing and keep∣ing under her desires. Now if it were a matter of n 1.13 death not to submit the neck to Nebuchadnezzars yoke when the Lord imposed it, and he that would rebell-like break that yoke, shouldo 1.14 make to himself yokes of iron instead of yokes of wood: shall any womanp 1.15 in the pride and stoutnesse of her heart slip her neck out of Gods yoke,q 1.16 and refuse to receive correction; thinking to reverse the Lords decree, like those rebels of old, whor 1.17 said The bricks are fallen down, but we will build with hewen stones? What thoughs 1.18 Hananiah and other Prophets taught rebellion against the Lord, and the t 1.19 peo∣ple loved to have it so; was not the Lords soulu 1.20 avenged on such rebels, and the* 1.21 punish∣ment of the Prophet even as the punishment of those that sought unto him? And doth not the Lord call in the* 1.22 waves of the sea to testifie against all such sottish rebellion?
Wherefore seeing the Lord isx 1.23 so excellent in power and judgement, that none y 1.24 hath been fierce against him and hath prospered: and seeing he is soz 1.25 jealous of the glory of his holinesse and justice, that he hath nota 1.26 pardoned the faults of his own faithfull ser∣vants without heavy judgements, as fines set on their heads to theb 1.27 terror of the ungodly: should not all Wives beware thatc 1.28 they choose not iniquity rather then affliction, and d 1.29 remove the bound like the Princes of Judah, least God pour out his wrath like water, and make to them yokes of iron instead of yokes of wood?
The religious Wife therefore for her own safety as well as for Gods Honour, muste 1.30 submit her self to her own Husband, and be subject to him in every thing; bearing this yoke of the Lord not only patiently without grudging because it isf 1.31 her own punish∣ment, that is, of her owng 1.32 procuring; but willingly without shrinking from it, because it is theh 1.33 Lords judgement and a cognizance of his holinesse and justice, and the inha∣bitants of the world shall learn righteousnesse by it.