interwoven with theirs, this is the very thing that affects us so sensibly. And what is this but a spice of Envy, rather than true and generous Affection? For that very Death, or absence of our Friends, which we bewail under the specious Title of their Loss and Misfortune, is in reality their mighty Gain, and greatest Advantage. The true use and conse∣quence of Death is the putting a final and absolute Period to Men's Miseries, the placing them in a condition incapable of suffering. Had God in his Wisdom intended us a happier and more easie Being upon Earth, no doubt he would have contrived, that it should have lasted longer. But, as Matters now stand, and considering the Evils our Lives are beset with, it is a mercy he hath made them so short.
If then we would speak out, and confess the truth impar∣tially, this Affliction looks at home, and we lament the loss, because our own Affairs suffer in it. Now this at the first blush is evidently dishonourable and selfish; and we shall have much ado to justifie our being sorry, that those we pro∣fess so dearly to love are in ease and happiness. If we loved them, as our Saviour says, in the like case, we should much rather rejoyce; and if they loved us, it is but a decent gra∣titude to be content with some inconveniences, when the suf∣fering of these is softned by the consideration of their un∣speakable Advantage. For to be troubled at our own Loss may argue that we love our selves, but it can never prove, that we love our Friends.
But, after all, there is an excellent and never failing Re∣medy in store for our Affliction, which all the malice and power of Fate can never wrest out of our hands. And that is, a Reflection, that these Losses are not irreparable: For so long as we survive our Friends, so long we have oppor∣tunities of making new ones. Friendship is one of the great∣est Blessings humane Life can boast of; and there is this mighty advantage in it, which other happinesses cannot pre∣tend to, that it is one of the easiest to be attained. God makes Men, but Men make Friends: And they that do not want Virtue, need never want Friends; for this is the instru∣ment of acquiring them; and that which will always be serviceable in supplying the number of those that are taken from us. If then Fortune hath robbed us of this Treasure,