[unspec 1] IN Regard the Persons under this Condition may be con∣sidered in different Respects, according to that Mixture of Equality and Inequality, which I have observed to be in their Circumstances, it must needs follow, that the Du∣ties peculiar to such a State, are of Two Sorts; Some common to both, and Others appropriated to each of the Parties. Now, of those that are reciprocal, the Obligation is entirely the same; and the Consciences of both are e∣qually violated by the Breach of them; though, accord∣ing to the Customs of the World, the Penalty, and Re∣proach, and Inconvenience fall more Heavy on one side, than they do on the other. By these reciprocal Duties, I understand, an Entire Affection, steady Loyalty, uncor∣rupted Fidelity, and unreserved Communication of all things whatsoever; so that Neither of them have any thing they can call their own, exclusive to the Right and Claim of the Other. To these we may add a prudent, and pro∣vident Care, and the Exercise of a just Authority over their Family, a diligent Inspection into their Manners, and consulting the Advantage of all that belong to them.* 1.1 Of this Subject we have spoken more at large in the first First Part of this Treatise.
[unspec 2] The Other sort are Duties Peculiar to each of the Parties; and These differ, * 1.2 according to the Terms of that une∣qual Relation, in which they stand. For, those of the Hus∣band, considered as Superiour, are. 1. Instructing his Wife, conferring with, and directing her in every Particular, that may any way contribute to their Honour and Advantage; taking Care, that she may be Ignorant in no Part of the Duty expected from her Character, nor defective in any useful and necessary Accomplishments, which she is capable of attaining to; and all this to be done not in a Rough and Magisterial Way; but with all possible Gentleness and