more easie entrance, whereas if we seeme to come of purpose prepa∣red and armed, it will seeme more harsh to them whom wee admonish, and but cause them to prepare also to make resistance. Or when being sharpely taunted for their faults by their enemies, they are vexed and grie∣ued with their reproches, then may wee take fit occasion to giue them ad∣monition for them, that they may not be lyable to such disgraces; for this will seeme to spring out of loue, which seeketh their credit, and will mooue them to take it well, when as we of the poyson of other mens ray∣lings and reuilings, doe make an antidote by our friendly admonitions, to preserue them from taking any hurt from them for the time to come. Thirdly, we must be carefull in admonishing others, that we our selues be not guilty of the same faults which we taske in them, lest they pay vs in our owne coyne, mete vnto vs by the same measure, and bring vs vnder the same condemnation. Yea perhaps we may incurre thereby the suspi∣tion of hypocrites, who tell others of their sinnes to hide our owne, or like subtill theeues, raise a clamour against our neighbours, that wee may the better escape in the Hiew and Cry; or of disliking their person more then their sinne, seeing we nourish the like in our owne bosome. Or if Christian loue mooue vs to admonish them in this kinde, because such sinnes beare more sway in them then in vs, being committed by them wilfully and with settled resolution, by vs through frailty, infirmity, and at vnawares, seeing they defend them, and we bewaile them, they cherish and nourish them, we condemne and labour to mortifie them; we may, being our selues faulty in this case, admonish others: but then it is best to preuent their vp∣braiding by confessing our owne frailty, and by applying our admonition to our selues together with them, as thereby seeking our mutuall reforma∣tion. Fourthly, our admonitions must proceed from brotherly loue, the which being a grace hidden in our hearts, wee must make knowne by the fruits of it. To which end we must vse all lenity, meekenesse of spirit, com∣passion in the sense of the like infirmities in our selues, with milde and gentle speeches, shewing in our hatred of their sinne, the loue of their per∣son. And though the party may discerne them, yet if we would doe any good, we may not vse any insulting speeches, contumelious words, scoffes, scornes, or byting iests; and howsoeuer in some cases for lesser faults, or when we haue to deale with a froward nature, we may sweeten our admo∣nition, by speaking merrily, and in a pleasant manner, yet wee must take heed that we retaine our grauity, lest it bee turned into a iest, and so lose all its force and efficacy. But especially wee are to take heed that our ad∣monitions doe not appeare to haue risen out of selfe-loue, and respect to our owne particular, but out of our loue of them whom we admonish; for if this be but suspected, it will neuer take any place, because wee seeke not their good, but our owne. And secondly, that they proceed not from anger and choller, which will make it seeme a chiding and brawling, ra∣ther then an admonition; and an action of rauing, rather then of loue. In which respect, our admonitions will be the more powerfull, when as they haue no reference to our selues, either of profit or hurt, but rather such as by the faults which we reprooue, accrew vnto others. Againe, to shew our loue, we are with the notice which we take of their faults, to acknow∣ledge