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VERS. 4, 5, 6. For God commanded, saying, Ho∣nour thy Father and Mother: [Verse. 4.5 6.] and he that curseth Father or Mother let him die the death. But ye say, whosoever shall say to his Father or his Mother; It is a gift by what∣soever thou mightest be profited by me. And honour not his Father or his Mother, he shall be free. Thus have yee made the Commandement of God of none effect by your Tradition.
[Sect. 1] §. 1. Honour thy Father and thy Mother.
[Quest. 1] Whether, is the Father or Mother more to be honoured and loved?
[Answ. 1] First, Children can never honour and love pa∣rents, (that is, either Father, or Mother) enough, because we are imperfect in our Obedience to every precept.
[Answ. 2] Secondly, I conceive that a vertous Father is more to be honoured and loved, then a vitious Mother, and contrarily, a vertuous Mother more then a vitious Father: because there is Tantundem & aliquid amplius, a naturall Relation to both, but a spirituall Relation onely to the vertuous and godly. We are commanded principally to love our heavenly Father best, and caeteris paribus, to love those best next him, that are neerest unto him in love, and most like unto him in purity.
[Answ. 3] Thirdly, if we speake properly, positively, and without any Relation to any thing, understand∣ing the Question thus. Whether the Father In quantum est pater, as hee is the Father, or the Mo∣ther, as she is the Mother, be more to be honou∣red and loved? then with the Schoolemen I an∣swer, that the Father is more to be loved and ho∣noured then the Mother: And the reason hereof is this, because when we love our Father and Mo∣ther, Qua tales, as they are our Father and Mother, then wee love them as certaine principles of our naturall beginning and being. Now the Father hath the more excellent cause of beginning then the Mother: because the Father is Principium per medum Agentis, Mater autem magis per modum Pati∣entis & materiae. And thus if wee looke upon Fa∣ther and Mother, Secundum rationem generationis, then we must confesse that the Father is the more Noble cause of the Child then the Mother is. If the learned Reader would see this prosecuted, let him read Thomas 2.2. q. 26. Art. 10. And Arist. ethe••. lib. 8. And Anton. part 4. tit. 6. Cap. 4. §. 8. And Aurtum opus pag. 60 b.
[Answ. 4] Fourthly, if we speake of that love and ho∣nour which is due unto parents, according to their love towards Children; then we answer that the Mother is more to be beloved then the Father, and that for these reasons, viz.
I. The Philosopher saith, because the Mother is more certaine that the Child is hers, then the Fa∣ther is that is his: he beleeves it is his Child, but she is sure that it is hers.
II. Because hence the Mother loves the Child better then the Father doth (Arist. lib 9. ethic.)
III. Because the Mother hath the greater part in the body of the Child, it having the body and matter from her, and but only the quickning ver∣tue from the Fatherh 1.1.
IV. Because the Mother is more afflicted for the death of the childe, than the Father is, and doth more lament the adversity thereof, than his Father doth. Solomon saith, Prov. 10. A wise Son rejoyceth his Father, but a foolish Son is a heavinesse to his Mother. From whence some say, that Fathers in regard of their naturall constitution of body, which naturally is hot and dry, do more re∣joyce when their children are promoted unto honour, than the Mothers do; but Mothers, in regard of their naturall constitution, which na∣turally is cold and moist, do more mourn and lament for the losses and crosses of their chil∣dren, than the Father doth. But I will neither trouble my self to prove this, nor perswade my Reader to beleeve it, but leave it to the Philoso∣phers and Schoolmen to be decided and dis∣cussed.
V. Because the mothers part is more labori∣ous, toilsome, and painfull, than the Fathers is: and that in these three regards; to wit,
First, Portando, it is painfull to the Mother to breed her childe, and to bear it so many moneths in her womb.
Secondly, Pariendo, the pain is most extreme when she brings it forth into the world.
Thirdly, Educando, her care, pains, and trou∣ble is great, in the nourishing nursing, and bring∣ing of it up: And thus the Mothers part is pain∣full, and heavie, even from the very conception of the childe. And therefore in these regards she is more to be loved and honoured than the Fa∣ther is.
Whether are parents or children more to be [Quest. 2] beloved? that is, whether ought a man to love his Father better than his childe, or his childe better than his Father?
First, Ex parte objecti, the Father is to be belo∣ved [Answ. 1] more than the childe: for that which hath the greater shew of good, is more to be beloved, because it most resembles God, the chiefest good: now children love their parents sub ratione princi∣pii, because they took their beginning and being from them, which hath the shew of a more emi∣nent good, and like unto God. And therefore in this regard, Parents are more to be lovedi 1.2.
Secondly, there is another degree of [Answ. 2] Love, that is, Ex parte ipsius diligentis, in regard of the party loving, and thus that is most to be loved, which is most neer; and in this respect children are more to be beloved than parents, as appears by a fourfold reason given by Thom. 2.2. qu. 26. Art. 9. and Egidius Romanus. lib. 2. de regimine principum. part. 2. cap. 4. And both of them have these reasons from Aristotle, lib. 8. Ethic.
I. Because parents love their children, as being parts of themselves, but parents are no parts of their children: that is, a childe is a part of the father (because he issued out of his loyns) but the father hath no part from the childe; and therfore a man hath a neer relation to his childe, than to his father. And therfore that love where∣with a father loves his childe, resembles that love wherewith a man loves himself.
II. Because parents are more certain of their children, than of their parents: a childe cannot know its parents, but by hear-say, and some cer∣tain signs of affection, education, and the like; but parents by and by have knowledge of their children: And therefore by how much the more