nobler thing then to be lov'd; since honor being more in the honorer then the honored, the honor receiv'd by the lov'd thing reflects upon him that loves; who for that reason being com∣mended by every one that esteems a good friend as a good trea∣sure, and not he that is lov'd, is also more excellent and hath more vertue, inasmuch as he hath more honor and praise which are the attendants of vertue. Moreover, the Lover acts freely, and therefore more to be valu'd then the lov'd person, who is forc'd to suffer himself to be lov'd. For though desire common∣ly follow Sensual Love, yet Love is not a desire, nor consequent∣ly a sign of Indigence; otherwise, it should cease with the desire, and expire after enjoyment; which is false: for Mothers love their dead Children, and even before they came into the world, not by a desire but by a motion of Nature, which causes us to love what appertains to us, and the more if it cost much pain; which is the reason why Mothers, who contribute more to the birth of their Children, and have better assurance that they are their own, love them also more tenderly then Fathers do.
The Third said, That to compare the lov'd person with the Lover, is to equal the Master with the Servant; for the amorous assuming to themselves the quality of Servants of the Ladies whom they call their Mistresses, manifest sufficiently thereby that they yield them the pre-eminence. And al∣though they be the most interessed in this cause; yet they will never have the vanity to prize themselves above what they love; which would be to condemn their own choice and their love of defect of judgment, which making them sigh after the enjoyment of the object they adore, argues their want and in∣digence, not to be supply'd by possession of the good they ex∣pect from it; which herein like the Intelligences which move without being mov'd themselves, excites passions and motions in the Lover's breast, it self oftentimes remaining immovable. And as he acts in a more noble way that moves without being mov'd, because he resembles the end, which is the noblest of all the Causes; so he that loves resembles Matter which Desires all Forms, expecting its perfection from them; and consequently is inferior to the person that is lov'd, as from whom he expects his felicity. Even in Mutual Love, he that begins is less per∣fect, as confessing by that address some inviting accomplish∣ments in the other, who finds not any obligation to love him again but the consideration of gratitude: For inferring the ad∣vantage of those that love from the nobleness of their subject, as in Gods love to his Creatures, and that of Parents to their Children; I answer, that 'tis rather an effect of passion then of true love.
The Fourth said, That Love is according to the variety of its Object, (Good), three-fold; considering either Profit, or Pleasure, or Vertue. In the two former, 'tis better to be lov'd then to love, but they are of no long duration; those friends