CHAP. VI. Of giving, receiving, and promising.
IT is uncivil and unfitting for a man to oblige another to keep a promise disadvantagious to him; or one made in mirth, passion, hast, un∣advisedly, in civility, or compliment, or one obsolete; as also not to admit of a reasonable excuse for the failure of a promise.
It becometh every man to promise nothing but what he intends to perform: yet many, tho justly denied, are much displeased; for all men govern not themselves by reason. Insomuch that if a person desire to engage your indea∣vors in his business, if you shew him the diffi∣culties, tho you promise your assistance, he commonly takes it for a denial, or a sign that you intend not seriously to befriend him. For these and such like reasons, the fashion now-a∣daies is, to give good hopes to all suiters, and to promise very freely and largely. And they find thereby great advantage (as they think) for carrying on business. The performance is