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CHAP. III. Of the Educator.
1. THE Fathers greatest diligence is seen in chusing a good Governor, or Director of his Son. A good Educator therefore, whether one be to be chosen, or any one desires to ren∣der himself such, being instead of a Father to his charge, ought to be; First, religious, virtu∣ous, and grave, both himself and family; that he may give good example, and not need to fear that his Scholar resemble him. He must therefore be sure to live with greater severity then he exacts of his charge. Then also may he hope by his prayers to obtain a blessing upon his endeavours; and (performing his duty as in the sight of God) to give up his accounts cheer∣fully, and receive his reward from him.
2. PRUDENT, and discreet, as in all o∣ther things, so especially in observing the Childs disposition, and to know what it will produce. For many times the medicine is to be applied to the disease, not to the symptome. Not too se∣vere, nor too indulgent; not too austere, least he affright; nor too familiar least he become contem∣ptible to his charge. For young men understand not much the reason of his demeanor. He must praise without flattery, chide without con∣tumely, and correct without passion; be cheerful without levity, affable without fawning, grave without morosity, and merry without folly.