CHAP. V.
His Vertues and Apothegmes.
MENEDEMUS was of exceeding gravity, for which Crates deriding him, said,
Asclepiad the Phliasian, and the proud Eretrian, and Timon.
He supercilious bumbast speech begins. In this severity he was so awfull, that Eurylochus being invited by Antigonus, together with Clippides, a youth of Cyzicum, refused to go, fearing Mene∣demus should know it.
In reproof he was bitter and bold, of which Laertius instanceth his sayings to a young man over-confident, to Hierocles, &c. to an Adulterer boasting, &c. to a young man crying, &c.
Antigonus asking his advice, whether he should go to a luxu∣rious banquet; not speaking whether he should go or not, he bad him send them word, that he was a Kings son.
One who intruded himselfe upon him, and discoursed very absurdly, he asked, if he had a farm; he answered, many: Go then, saith he, and look after them, le••t in losing you rusticity you lose them also.
To one asking, whether a good Man may take a Wife, he said, Do you think I am good or not? The other assenting; But, I (saith he) have taken one.
Not able to limit the prodigality of one who invited him to supper, he silently reproved him, eating nothing but Olives.
This freedome brought him into danger when he was in Cy∣prus with Nicocreon, together with his friend Asclepiades; for, the King having invited him with the rest of the Philosophers to a Monthly feast, Menedemus said, this convention if it be good, ought to be every day; if otherwise, this day is too much: The Tyrant answered, that he had set apart that day to converse with Philosophers. Menedemus persisting in his assertion, demon∣strated from what he had said of the sacrifice, that Philosophers ought to be heard at all times. Whereupon if one of the Musi∣cians had not helped them to escape, they had been put to death, whence the Ship being endangered by a storm, Asclepiades said, that the humanity of the Musician preserved them, the rough∣nesse of Menedemus had undone them.