Sonnes greedy to inherit, spare me not dying, and whilst you
live relie for maintenance upon me, though dead not ashamed
to lead a life more lazy then death; you expect that my for∣tunes
should extend to others even after my decease, but your
own are not competent for your selves whilest you are yet a∣live.
Such rough speeches happily he will use to his Children,
taking the libery both of a Father and a Patriot. My fortunes in
the estimate of other men are mean, but in the effect nothing
inferior to the Rich. I will not leave my Children money,
but a more honorable heritage, discreet friends, whom as long
as they keep they can want as necessaries, and if they use them
ill, doubtlesse they would use their money worse.
But if to you, who know the negligence of friends, I seem to
give ill advice; I answer, that all men are not alike affected to
their friends, for some take care of them after they are dead,
and it is likely that ours are not of a neglectfull humour, but
pleas'd with the past advantage they have received by us, no
lesse then with the present of a short benefit, the requitall is
short; lasting benefits produce a return equall to their profit,
and I foresee that what is mine, will hereafter appear more
gracious to my friends, and therefore I exact no rewards of
them. I account nothing of equal value in exchange with Phi∣losophy
but friendship, nor like the Sophists have I any diffi∣dence
of those things that are mine, for being old they renew,
and in their decaying age flourish, which makes them more
acceptable to the Disciples, and their Father more esteemed;
Living he obtains honour, dead is thought worthy of memory,
and if he leave an Kinsman behind him, they will respect him
like his Nephewes and Brethren, and show him all kindnesse,
as being allied to him by more then a Naturall affinity; Neither
if they would, can they neglect him in misfortunes, no more then
we can slight them, who are near to us in blood; for affinity in
soul forceth them to relieve the Son of the dead as if he were
their own brother; when they call to mind his Father, whose
dishonour they account their own.
Now judge if I order my affairs ill, or take no care for my
Children, so as when I die they shall be destitue of necessaries,
who leave them not wealth but such Guardians as will have a
care of them and wealth No History makes mention of any
man that hath been made better by riches; A tried friend in this
is to be preferr'd before tried gold, that he is not beneficiall to
every one who desires him, but to those he lovse best. Nor doth
he supply onely the necessities of life, but is serviceable as well
to the soul of him that hath him, and is most conducing to vir∣tue,
without which nothing profieth; but we will consider
more exactly upon these things when we meet; thus much serve
as a cursory answer to your demand.