between those whom she will unite; the unity of hearts, is that which makes all things common, and the words Thine, and Mine, which sets division between Brethren, cannot do the like between Friends. Nature leaves us no choise, in her alliances, we are enga∣ged before we be capable of choise; and she oft-times makes us love a Monster, because he is our Brother; but friendship gives us a free∣dome of choise, she permits us to take the best, and we are onely to blame our own folly, if in the liberty she leaves us, we make choise of one for a friend, who deserves not our affection. Our Brethren are the workmanship of nature, she did not advise with us, when she gave them life; and not having the care of producing them, we delight not in preserving them. But our friends are the children of our will; we formed them, when we chose them; we think our selves concernedin their losse, because we have laboured in the ac∣quiring of them. And as Mothers expose themselves for their Chil∣dren, because they are their workmanship, so men expose them∣selves for their friends, because they are their Productions.
But not to spend more time in observing the advantages which friendship hath over and above nature; we must confesse, there is nothing in the world which ought not to give place to friendship: Law, which preserves Estates, which punisheth vice, defends ver∣tue, is not equall to her, neither for antiquity, nor power. Punish∣ments nor rewards were never ordained' till friendship began to coole; whil'st she continued in full vigour, the use of lawes was use∣lesse, and the Politiques do confesse, that States are better governed by good Intelligence amongst Subjects, than by Ordinances of Princes: the latter reforme onely the mouth, or the hand; impede onely bad actions, or insolent speeches: but the former reformes the heart, and gliding into the will, guides desires, and regulates thoughts. The Law ends differences, but friendship reconciles enemies; the law inhibits injuries, but friendship adviseth good offices. In fine, the law is requifite to the commencement or initiation of a good man, but friendship is required to his accomplishment; and by her advice renders him perfect.
She is also of use to all sorts of Conditions, and that man liues not, that needs not a friend. A friend is needfull to old men, to assist them, to young men, to guide them; to the mi∣serable, to comfort them, to the ignorant, to instruct them; and to