continual and at all hours. Those which the Bodie receives from the
Head can hardly suffer lesse interruption; those which the Moon ex∣pects
from the Sun can scarce be more necessary to her. And therefore
if good offices be the tyes of Hearts, and the chains of Souls; is it not
reasonable that Women should love more then they are beloved; and
be more strongly ••astned then they fasten; since in the Domestick So∣ciety
they servelesse then they are served; and are more obliged then
they oblige? Should they have lesse of good Nature then 〈◊〉〈◊〉,
which fastens it self inseparably to the Tree that supports it, and ne∣ver
leaves it either in Life or Death? Should they love lesse constantly
then the Female Palm, which never findes comfort, never receives
verdure, nor is ever capable of Renovation after the Death of her
Male to which she was allyed.
This Fidelity doth not only appertain to the dutie and gratitude
of Women: but it concerns their Honour and Glory: And whether
in their opinion there be something of Nature and Instinct therein;
whether there be not something of Tradition or Hear-say; they are all
perswaded that Constancy, next to Chastity, is the predominant Ver∣tue
and the essential quality of Vertuous Women. Men place not
therein their puncti••••o of Honour: there is no Title less alledged
among them, there is no quality more cheap, then that of a good
Husband: They scarce rank or hold it considerable in the Description
of a Gallant Man. And from hence it comes, that Constancie and Fi∣delity,
whereof I speak, being not controverted with Women, they
have ingrossed them both to themselves, and left to men in their room
Valour, Knowledge, Justice, and other Vertues, which as they concei∣ved,
suted better with the Dignity of their Sex.
Moreover, it is the chief Ambition of good Women to be beloved
by their Husbands entirely and with perseverance. This begets their
Peace and Content at home: this procures them a good Name, and a
good odour of Reputation abroad On the other side they know, and
Nature hath taught it them, that the Heart is the only Bait with which
another Heart may be taken: and that Love, to which wings are given,
is a Bird not to be caught, but by another Love. From whence it ariseth,
that to possess this so important Love, they make advances of it which
exhaust them, and whereof very often there remains only in them a
habit of loving solitarily, and an obstinate and customary Fidelity.
Besides, it is with the Heart of a Woman, as with Rivers which are
kept in, and shut up; and have but a little Descent by which they have
liberty to disburthen themselves. Conscience and Honour, Chastitie
and Fear, the Laws of God, and the Laws of the World are the ob∣stacles
which encompass it on every side: and it cannot dilate it self
without breaking them, not break them without extraordinary vio∣lence.
Likewise, when amidst so many obstacles, the discharge lies
open to it on the Husbands part, it pours it self forth on that side
with more impetiosity and restriction, then doth the Heart of a Man,