CHAP. V.
1. REbuke not an Elder, but* 1.1 intreat him as a father, and the younger men as brethren;]
[Paraphrase] 1. Deal not rigidly with a Bishop of the Church, (see note on Act. 11. b.) have that respect to his office, that whenever there is need of thy exhortation, thou doe it as to a father of the Church, with all humble respect to him: And for any inferior officers in the Church, let thy rebukes and correptions be fraternal, and full of kindnesse and friendlinesse to them.
2. The elder women as mother, the younger as sisters, with all purity.]
[Paraphrase] 2. Behave thy self toward women, the antienter sort, or widows of the Church, with great respect, the younger with modesty and civility, abstaining from any behaviour toward them that may savour any thing of wantonnesse or turpitude.
3. Honour [note a] widows that are widows indeed.]
[Paraphrase] 3. Let those widows which have neither husbands nor children be respected and relieved (see note d.) by you, that is, by the Church out of thier stock which is intrusted to your disposing.
4. But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew peity† 1.2 at home, and to requite their parents; for that is good and acceptable be∣fore God.]
[Paraphrase] 4. But if any widow which is a Christian be not perfect∣ly destitute, but have children or grandchildren, let them relieve and take care for her, as a part of their family, v. 16. this being due by way of gratitude (see note on c. 3. f.) to the parents which have done so much for them, and so consequently that, which as God approves of, so he requires at their hands.
5. * 1.3 Now she that is a widow indeed, and† 1.4 desolate, trusteth in God, and con∣tinueth in supplications and prayers night and day.]
[Paraphrase] 5. But the widow that is truly so, and is fit to receive relief from the Church, is she that is wholly destitute, hath none of her children to relieve her, no body but God to hope in or rely on, and so continues hoping and praying at set constant times continually, without any other cares to distract, or busi∣nesse to employ her.
6. But she that liveth* 1.5 in pleasure, is dead while she liveth.]
[Paraphrase] 6. But she that abstaines from marrying, not in order to peity, but that she may live the more at her own disposal, she is not to be counted a widow or vitall member of the Church, but a kind of carcasse or piece of noisomnesse in it.
7. And these things give in charge, that they may be blamelesse.]
[Paraphrase] 7. Give these rules, that none but blamelesse persons may be taken in, and those that have need of it.
8. But if any [note b] provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse then an infidel.]
[Paraphrase] 8. But if any man or wo∣man doe not maintain those that belong to them, especially those of their family, (as their parents clearly are, having a right to live in their house, and a propriety tobe maintained by them (or that they take care for and relieve them) supposing they are able to doe it) that man or woman doth quite contrary to the commands of Christ, and indeed performs not that duty to parents that even infidels think themselves obliged to doe.
9. Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one‡ 1.6 man,]
[Paraphrase] 9. Let none be listed as a widow into the number of those that are to be maintained by the Church (see note on Tit. 2. a.) under the age of sixty, nor any that have parted with their husbands, and marryed again (see note on c. 3. b.)
10. * 1.7 Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the Saints feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.]
[Paraphrase] 10. And let them be such as have by their acts of duty and charity approved them∣selves to those among whom they have lived in all things of which their condition hath been capable; such are good carefull edu∣cation of their children, hospitality, friendlinesse and humility, and submission to the meanest offices for the relief of those that stand in need, care for all that are in any distresse, and in brief seeking occasions for all works of charity, and not onely em∣bracing them when they have been offered.
11. But the younger widows refuse, for when they* 1.8 have begun to [note c] wax wanton against Christ they will marry;]
[Paraphrase] 11. But receive not into the Church-offices those wi∣dows that are under that age, for there will be danger of such, that they will be weary of their employment in the Church, of living in that pious strict condition, ver. 6. and then they will relieve themselves by marrying;
12. Having condemnation, because they have† 1.9 cast off their first faith:]
[Paraphrase] 12. Which is a great and a punishable crime in them, viz. that of violating their promise made unto the Church (a kind of conjugal tie) that they would attend it alone, and not forsake it, which when they doe, and return again to the world, what is it but a giving the Church a bill of divorce, and marrying another husband?
13. And withall* 1.10 they learn to be idle, wandring about from house to house; and not onely idle, but tatlers also and busie-bodies, speaking things which they ought not.]
[Paraphrase] 13. And such young wi∣dows being unfit for such a recesse and vacancy, have no∣thing to doe with their time, but spend it in going abou•• from house to house, in asking questions; and not onely so, but fall into tatling and loose discourse, into censuring and medling with other folks matters, entertaining themselves and others with unseemly discourse, either calumniating or talking wantonly.
14. I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give no occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.]
[Paraphrase] 14. My direction therefore is, that the younger women, widows or others, that have not attained to this gravity of mind and command over themselves, doe in that case betake them∣selves to a married life, and serve God in that, bearing and bringing up children (see note on c. 2. d.) guiding domestick affairs, that so they may not doe any thing which may give advantage to those that are willing to take it, to accuse or find fault, or bring reproach upon such loose professors, and the Church for their sakes.
15. For some are already turned aside after Satan.]
[Paraphrase] 15. For some such you know there are which have forsaken the Christian path, and betaken themselves to the Gnosticks, bitter enemies to Christians, and these would be glad to have somewhat to say against you.