CHAP. VII.
1. NOw concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.]
[Paraphrase] 1. Now in answer to that particular in your letter, which (on occasion of the Gnostick doctrine of marriage being from the devill, &c.) seems with some reason to preferre single life before marriage, I thus far acknowledge, that, for them that can live chaste and pure without marrying, it is better or more com∣mendable that they doe so.
2. † 1.1 Neverthelesse, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.]
[Paraphrase] 2. But for the avoiding of all kindes of uncleannesse or pollution, it is generally most safe and fit, that men and women should betake themselves to the conjugall state.
3. Let the husband render unto the wife* 1.2 [note a] [due benevolence,] and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
[Paraphrase] 3. All acts of conjugal love,
4. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5. Defraud you not one the other, except it be [† 1.3 with consent for a time, that ye may* 1.4 give your selves to fasting and prayer, and come together again, that Sa∣tan tempt you not† 1.5 [note b] for your incontinency.]
[Paraphrase] 5. By mutuall consent for some time, particularly, that ye may have a vacancy for duties of devotion, fasting, &c. wherein it was usual to abstain from those things which are lawfully enjoyed at other times (see note on Mat. 6. h.) which being past, ye may then take care to prevent those dangers that may attend long abstinencies, for want of strength to resist those temptations that Satan may take advantage to present to you, or cast in your way.
6. But I speak this† 1.6 by [note c] permission, and not of commandment.]
[Paraphrase] 6. What I thus say, v. 2, 3, 4, 5. I say onely by way of counsel, what appears to me to be best for men, generally speaking, all being not able to con∣tain, but herein I am farre from laying any precept on any to marry.
7. For I would that all men were even as I my self: but every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.]
[Paraphrase] 7. For I would rather desire or advise all men to continue unmarried as I doe; but that will not, I suppose, be best for every one, because every one is not fitly qualified with the gift of continence, to undertake that more honorable pitch, and such a man may have some other speciall excellence, whereby to glorifie God.
8. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.]
[Paraphrase] 8. It is more worthy their designe and endeavour, either to live unmarried, or when the wife is dead, to abstain from second marriages, for which ye have me for your example.
9. But if they* 1.7 cannot contain, let them marry; for it is better to marry then † 1.8 to burn.]
[Paraphrase] 9. But if they have not that experience of their own strength and ability to abstain, and preserve chastity, which may encourage them to this, let them marry in God's name: It is infinitely better to doe so, and preserve conjugall chastity, then by rejecting the use of that remedy to be enflamed with burn∣ing vehement desires, perhaps to break out into unnaturall practices (see Rom. 1. 27. Jude 11.)
10. And unto the married* 1.9 I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife † 1.10 depart from her husband:]
[Paraphrase] 10. But to them that are married, 'tis not my caution or commandement, but Christ's, that the woman be not separated from her husband.
11. But and if she* 1.11 depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.]
[Paraphrase] 11. Or, if upon just cause, that is, in case of for∣nication, she be put away from her husband, let her either remain single, or use means to gain the pardon and affection of her husband again; and for the husband, let not him in any case, but that wherein Christ allowes it, the case of fornication, put away his wife.
12. † 1.12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord, If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her a∣way.]
[Paraphrase] 12. But in answer to the other parts of your letter, ver. 1, 6, 8, 10. or, For other