The Great advocate and oratour for women, or, The Arraignment, tryall and conviction of all such wicked husbands (or monsters) who held it lawfull to beate their wives or to demeane themselves severely and tyrannically towards them where their crafty pleas are fully heard and their objections plainly answered and confuted ...
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The Great advocate and oratour for women, or, The Arraignment, tryall and conviction of all such wicked husbands (or monsters) who held it lawfull to beate their wives or to demeane themselves severely and tyrannically towards them where their crafty pleas are fully heard and their objections plainly answered and confuted ...
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Wife abuse -- England -- Early works to 1800.
Women's rights -- England -- Early works to 1800.
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To all married Women whose
••usbands rule over them with
rigour and severity; (And
likewise a word to all
such irrationall
husbands)
Ladies and Gentlewomen.
THE wiseman tells us that
a word spoken 〈…〉〈…〉
like apples of Go••••••〈◊〉〈◊〉
pictures of Silver;〈…〉〈…〉
to your selves to judg how oppo••••••••••ely this Treatise comes unto your
hands, whose tendernicks are galled
by your wearysome uneasy yoakes.
•• hope these few sheets may some
what revive your drooping Spirits,
••t beeing no small comfort when you
have a friend at hand, whose tender
compassion towards your tender Sex
makes him deplore your sad case and
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Plead your cause with such affection,
as if it were his own.
Me thinks I see how strangely your
(heart-breaking) husbands, are
hurried by the violent Whirlewind
of unbridled Passion: me thinks
I hear their loud murmurings their
angry voice, together with the eccho∣ing
sound of servile blowes, wound∣ing
my sorrwfull eares more then
the dreadfull noyse of the disquieted
seas, more dangerouse then their
forming rage, more amazing the••Aetna's wrath whose wide throat
••••••gorgeth smoaks, flames, and
••under at one breath: methinks 〈◊〉〈◊〉
see their shadow swiftly drawing
on you, like the black terrifying
Hierricane, that makes the tende••
Reedes (whose nature yeelds to every
gentle gale) lie prostrate, croud••
together and whisper in trembling
feare. I am sensible how thei••
austere demeanure and tyrannica••
behaviour have plunged diverse 〈◊〉〈◊〉
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you into a deep and dangerous Gulph
of sorrow, and disparation, who not
finding peace and content at home,
are in an exorbitant manner seeking it
else where; and like persons (disarmed
of sence and reason by this Paroxisme
of feare) are Acting directly contrary
to your own genuine and inclinations
&c. Now alltho I dare not justifie
such enormities of yours, (but as a
faithfull frind exhort your speedy
Repentance, and Amendment,) yet
I lay the guilt (tho not sufficient to
excuse your fact.) in a more peculier
manner to your husbands Charge,
and (as the wicked Instrumentall
cause of sins in you) I Summon
him (without a deeper Repentance)
to prepare to Answer before the Great
Tribunall judg, both for himselfe
and you.
Others there are (more virtuosly
inclined) who are desponding in
solitary corners, and whose best reme∣dy
is to seek out some melancholy cave
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or desart place, that may entertain••
their pensive minds, whilest their
distracted thoughts are feeding o••
soliscitude, and care; who instead o••
teaching their eyes to weepe, are
endeavouring how to wiipe off their
Christall teares (as pure and cleare as
is their Innocency) without the dis∣covery
of their grief. On whose pale
ey•• lids sits a sad messinger of wo,
more unwell come then the harbinger
of death it selfe.
For such, this book was chiefly
designed, and to every such despond∣ing
wife, I now address my self,
advising you to trie (once more) what
influence the violent cords of your
laborious Love may have upon your
misguided husband; Take him by the
hand, and fall about his neck with
sweet embraces hold him fast, and
compell him (alltho against his will)
by all the retorick you have, and
by all the charming Eloquence of
your loyall and constant Love, &c.
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••f this prevaile not with him, then con∣••ure
him by all thats dearest unto
••imselfe, that he would please to
••ondescend to walk along with you
••nto this Temple of Eroto (or the
Muse of Love) which is erected for
your sakes alone. Perhaps it may
proeve (and who knowes but it may?
O would to God it might,) such as
was the Temple of the Goddesse Viri
placa in Rome of whome Livie writes,
that whatever man and wife came to
sacrifice Therein, alltho never so
much at strife and variance before,
yet they allways returned home again
in Love and unity.
And that I may help one lift
forward I desire now to speak a word
or two to your contentious husbands,
whose words are fire brands, arrowes,
and death, (or that which is much
worse) my advise to such shall be
no other then th••t wise mans councell.
Prov. 25: 8. 9. Go not forth hastily
to strive least thou know not what to doe
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in the end thereof, when thy neighbour
hath put thee to shame: debate thy
cause: By long forbearing is a Prince
perswaded, and a soft tongue breaketh
bone it self. Suppose thy wife to be
(what thou wouldst have all men
think she is) willfull froward and
perverse; consider whither thou hath
not made her so? doth her affections
fit loose to thee, examine well the
grounds, debate the matter with thy
selfe; Go nots forth hastily to trive
with any person: no not thy adversa∣ry,
much less with thy friend and least
of all with her who lieth in thy bo∣some,
and should be dearest to thy
heart, nay who should be as deare
unto thee as thy Life, for as much as
she is thy very selfe. If a King (with
whom is commanding Majesty and
power,) will be perswaded by a wise
deportement, how much more then
will thy lowing wife, whose tender
Sex doth naturally dispose her to such
sweetnesse, softnesse, Gentlenesse
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such melting and relenting teares such
heart winning demeanure, &c. that
the mollifying hand of Love may
mould her into any stamp that vertue
formes; and who recoyles at nothing
more then raggid usage, because it
is so directly contrary to her soule
whose essence is compacted of
ardent Love, stronger then death it
selfe, and which many waters cannot
quench.
From this time forward therefore
goe thy wayes, and reconcile thy selfe
to thy offended selfe, then let hand
joyn in hand, & haste, both of you
to pay your Sacrifices to this Temple
of unfeigned Love, that when you
returne from thence, Heart may then
joyn in Heart, and both of you may
be willing to live no longer, then you
live united in One soule; which will
redound to both your peace and
tranquillity heer on earth, and your
future happinesse in the world to co∣me,
and crowne your names
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to there present, honour, and my
cordiall wishess with that palme of
victorious and triumphant Successe,
which is the earnest desire of
your assured Friend.
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