Advice to young gentlemen, in their several conditions of life· By way of address from a father to his children. By the Abbot Goussault, counseller in Parliament. With his sentiments and maxims upon what passes in civil society. Printed at Paris 1697, and translated into English.
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Advice to young gentlemen, in their several conditions of life· By way of address from a father to his children. By the Abbot Goussault, counseller in Parliament. With his sentiments and maxims upon what passes in civil society. Printed at Paris 1697, and translated into English.
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Goussault, Jacques.
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London :: printed for Tho. Leigh, at the Peacock against St. Dunstans Church in Fleet-street,
1698.
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CHAP. XXIV.
Advice upon the thoughts of Death.
I.
MY Dear Children, you will pass your life
without Trouble, if you be not afraid to
lose it; Death treading on our Heels continu∣ally,
and being almost always by our side, we
need not wonder, if they whose Consciences
accuse them do fear it; and if they have not
one moment of quiet, all other Objects pass a∣way,
but this stays with them and never quits
them.
II.
Do not seek for a Reason why so many die
without making their Wills, nor why they do
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not make them but at the last extremity? It
is because they cannot make it without speaking
of Death, which they fly and fear above all
things.
III.
There is no Person amongst us, to whom the
Life of Jared and Methusalem is not always
present; every one flatters himself with the
length of the Course they are to run; and con∣siders
himself always as if he had but just begun
it, and never as if he was going to end it.
IV.
Experience may well teach us, that more
then half of the World dies before Threescore,
and yet all run Counter to this Experience, and
look upon it as in Relation to others, and place
themselves in the number of those that must
have a pleasant and a happy Old Age.
V.
One dies in his Bed, as in the Field of Bat∣tel;
of a Fever, as with the Shot of a Musket,
and no Man is sure that he shall live longer than
another.
VI.
To the end that Death may not take from the
Goods that you possess, and all the Pleasures
you enjoy, deprive your self by little and little
of both the one and the other; and Death will
have little more to do when it can do no harm;
it will not come so soon for the most part, nor
when it cannot affright when it comes.
VII.
Death does not look hideous and terrible, but
when it is look'd upon as a Monster, an Ene∣my
to Nature; if you will often approach to
it in your Thoughts, and make it familiar to
you, you will afterward look upon it as a
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Friend that comes to assist you, and to carry
you from the miserable Condition you are in.
VIII.
Death is the Mistress of our Days, but not
of our Minds and Hearts; she can deprive us
of Life, but not against our Will, if we expect
it without Fear or Trouble.
IX.
Wherefore should you fear Death, since you
cannot grieve for Life after you have lost it,
because you are threatned with a Hundred sorts
of Deaths, must you fear them all; is it not
better quietly to expect one?
X.
If by fearing Death you could be assur'd to
avoid it; this Fear would be reasonable even in
the greatest Men; but being it cannot produce
this effect, it serves fo•• nothing but to make you
die a thousand times, though you can but die
once.
XI.
No Man is grieved that he did not live a hun∣dred
Years since; and why should any one
grieve that he should not live in Five Hundred
Years to come; you have no more right to the
future than you have to the past; you are be∣twixt
them both, hold your self in Peace, and
be content.
XII.
You will go out of the World as you came
into it, not knowing the Day; make good use
of this ignorance, this moment so terrible to
some is hid from you, perhaps for no other rea∣son,
but that you should think every Day the
last of your Life.
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XIII.
What matters it if you die Ten or Twelve
Years before it was expected; amongst an innu∣numerable
number of Men, can one know
that there are two or three fewer, or that Paris
is not so well peopl'd, or the State not so well
served.
XIV.
Life and Death are equally natural; you be∣gan
to live without Desire or Passion; and you
ought to die so. The World is a Theater on
which every one plays his part; it is for the
beauty of the Universe and his own Advan∣tage,
that every one acts his own in his time.
XV.
You ought to know how to die, whilst o∣thers
learn to live; there is only God that is E∣ternal;
your continual changes from nothing
to life, from health to sickness, and from Life
to Death, ought to give you a high Idea of the
grandeur of the infinitely perfect Being.
XVI.
It would surprize you if one of your Ser∣vants
should refuse to obey your Order in any
thing but what pleases him; it is equally won∣derful,
that God that has created us to live
and to die, and that we should obey him in
the one, and refuse it in the other.
XVII.
It is to cease to be a Man, to make himself
an Enemy to Death. Since you are born to die,
you are subject to Death as well as to Life, and
I can assure you are alive and dead at the same
time. You are alive, because you are not yet
dead; you are dead, because you were not a∣live
in Ages past, and you shall nor be alive in
those to come.
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XVIII.
If you make ill use of your Life, it is unpro∣fitable
to you, and when you lose it you lose
nothing, wherefore are you then afraid to lose
it; have not you more reason to hope it than
to fear it?
XIX.
You have been Heir to your Ancestors, is it
not reasonable that your Children should be
your Successors? your Life is limited to Fif∣teen
or Twenty Lustres, why should you de∣sire
to go beyond it? Have your Ancestors done
you the wrong to take your places, wherefore
would you fill the Places of your Descendants?
XX.
It is strange to fear an imperceptible moment
to the last breath we live; and so soon as we
are expired, it cannot be truly said that we
die, since we are no more. We do not find
this Death in one that is yet alive, nor do we
more find it in him who is nor more, because
he is past Death, and it has no more power of
him.
XXI.
A Dwarf is a Man as much as a Giant; and
he that lives but a short time is as much a Man
as Adam and Seth, who lived many Ages; the
great and the little in the Life of Man, is but
as one point in regard of Eternity; and the
World seems no more empty by his Death,
than the Sea appears dry by a drop of Water
taken from it.
XXII.
It would be terrible and frightful to us, if
Man could not die, since he would find his
Life a Fountain of inexhaustible Miseries.
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XXIII.
Thales the wise Graecian assures us, that it is
the same thing to live and to die; and one day
being asked why he did not die; he answer'd,
because if I should die, it would be asked why
I did not live?
XXIV.
I am not of that Philosophers Opinion; I do
acknowledge that Life is a Good that God has
given us to enjoy, and that Death is a punish∣ment
of sin, therefore I do not look upon them
as things indifferent; yet the difference that we
find between them, ought not to give us too
great a tie to the one, nor too great a fear for
the other. We are all Criminals, but we ought
not go cowardly to our Punishment; we
ought to be sorry that we have given cause for
our Condemnation, but we ought to suffer with
Submission, Courage, and Constancy.
XXV.
The first of our Days teaches us to live, but
the last does not teach us to die; learn this Les∣son
long before you make use of it, and the
sooner you do it the better.
XXVI.
In all Contracts of Marriage, there are Ar∣ticles
that concern the Death of both Husband
and Wife; and as soon as we make a strict
alliance with Reason, we ought to make Ar∣ticles
of Death between her and our selves;
this will make our Alliance more firm, more
Spiritual and more Christian.
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