Answ. First, if thou accountest it thy greatest felicity on earth, next to the [ I] enjoyment of Gods favour, to have delightful fellowship with the brethren, Psalm 16.3.
Secondly, if thou hast enflamed desires after their fellowship. [ II]
Thirdly, if thou canst cover a multitude of faults in them, 1 Pet. 4.8. [ III]
Fourthly, if thou canst be at pains for them: Love is laborious. [ IV]
Fifthly, if thou art speedy in doing them good, Prov. 3.28. [ V]
Sixthly, if thou lamentest thy absence from them as a bitter crosse. [ VI]
Seventhly, if thou doest daily and heartily pray for them, and give thanks [ VII] without ceasing.
••uest. What may nourish affections amongst Godly brethren?
Answ. First, remember often Gods love to thee in Christ, 1 Joh. 4.9, 10, 11. [ I] Eph. 5.1, 2.
Secondly, think much of Gods command for it, and his acceptation of it, Eph. [ II] 5.1, 2. 1 Pet. 1.22.
Thirdly, meditate often of our dwelling together in heaven, Jam. 2.5. 1 Pet. 4.8. [ III]
Fourthly, converse much together, have fellowship in Gospel duties. [ IV]
Fifthly, consider the promises made hereunto, Eph. 4.15, 16. 2 Pet. 1.9, 10, 11. [ V] Phil. 2.1.
Quest. With what kinde of love must we love the brethren?
Answ. First, it must be a natural love, even such an one as ariseth out of our [ I] dispositions, as we are made new creatures in Jesus Christ, 2 Cor. 8.8.
Secondly, it must be a sincere love, without dissimulation, Rom. 12.10. not in [ II] word, but in deed, 1 Joh. 3.18.
Thirdly, it must be a fervent love: they must be loved above all other people, [ III] 1 Pet. 4 8. 2 Pet. 1.7.
Fourthly, it must be a pure love, that comes from a pure heart, 1 Tim. 1.5. A [ IV] love in the spirit, Col. 1.8.
Fifthly, it must be a diligent love that will expresse it self upon all occasions: [ V] A labouring and working love, 1 Thes. 1.3. Heb. 6.10.
Sixthly, it must be a speedy love, Prov. 3.28. [ VI]
Seventhly, it must be an humble love, a love that would ever serve the bre∣thren, [ VII] Gal. 5.13. Eph. 1.15. and 4.2. Prov. 19.7.
Eighthly, it must be a constant love, Gal. 4.18. [ VIII]
Ninthly, it must be a growing love, Phil. 1.9. 1 Thes. 4.10. [ IX]
Quest. What rules are we to observe that brotherly love may continue amongst us?
Answ. First, some things are to be avoided: as [ I]
1. We must not fashion our selves according to this world, but avoid all need∣lesse conversation with wicked men, Rom. 12.1, 2.
2. We must take heed of, and avoid such as low discord, or cause divisions a∣mongst men: whether such as go about to seduce men into opinions, Rom. 16.19. Gal. 5.12. 2 Pet. 3.16. or such as make contention in practise.
3. Take heed of being insnared with vain-glorious desires after worldly great∣nesse, either in Church or Common-wealth, Mat. 23.8. Gal. 5. ult.
4. Take heed of conceitednesse, or willfulnesse in judgement: we must not be wise in our own eyes, but rather in lowlinesse of minde esteem other mens gifts, and judgements better then our own, Phil. 2.3. Rom. 12.10, 16. Prov. 12.15.
5. Take heed of worldlinesse, and self-love, and minding of our own things, and studying our own ends in conversing with others, 1 Cor. 13.5. Phil. 2.4.
6. Take heed of overmuch retirednesse, and neglecting comfortable fellow∣ship with our brethren, Heb. 10.25. Phil. 1.6. Psal. 133.1.
Secondly, some things are to be practised: as,
1. We must provoke one another to love, both by words, and actions which must be without flattery, and dissimulation, Heb. 10.24.