in promising, punctual in fulfilling. Let meekness and innocency,
affableness, yieldingness and courtesie, commend your conversati∣ons
to all men. Let none of your relations want that love and loy∣alty,
that reverence and duty, that tenderness, care and vigilanc••,
which their several places and capacities call for. This is through∣out
godliness. I charge you before the most high God, that none
of you be fourd a swearer, or a lyar, a lover of evil company, or
a scoffer, or malicious, or covetous, or a drunkard, or a glutton,
unrighteous in his dealing•• unclean in his living, or a quarreller, or
a thief, or a backbiter, or a railer: For I denounce unto you from
the living God, that destruction and damnation is the end of all
such, Prov. 13. 20. Iam 5. 12. Rev. 21. 8. 1. Cor. 6. 9, 10 Gal. 5. 19, 20, 21.
2. Family godliness. He that hath set up Christ in his heart,
will be sure to study to s••t him up in his house. Let every family
with you be a Christian Church; 1 C••r. 16 19. every house a
house of prayer; let every housholder say with I••shua, I and my
••••••se wi•••• serve the Lord; Josh. 24. 15. and resolve with David,
I will walk within my house with a perfect heart, Psal. 101. 2.
Let me press upon you a few duties. In general.
First, Let Religion be in ••••••r families, not as a matter by the
by (to be minded at leisure when the world will give you leave)
but the standing business of the house. Let them have your prayers
as duly as their meals. Is there any of your families, but have time
for their taking food? wretched man! canst thou find time to ••at
in, and not find time to pray in?
Secondly, Settle in upon your hearts, that your souls are bound
up in the souls of your family. They are committed unto you, and
(if they be lost through your neglect) will be required at your hands.
Sirs, if you do not, you shall know, that the charge of souls is a
heavy charge, and that the blood of souls is a heavy guilt. O man,
hast thou a charge of souls to answer for, and dost thou not yet be∣••tir
thy self for them, that their blood be not found in thy skirts?
wilt thou do no more for immortal souls than thou wilt do for thy
beasts that perish? what dost thou do for thy children, and ser∣vants?
thou providest meat and drink for them, agreeable to their
natures, and dost thou not the same for thy beasts? thou givest
them mediclnes, and cherishest them when they be sick, and dost
thou not as much for thy swine? More particularly.
1. Let the solemn reading of the word and singing of Psalms, be
your family exercises, Isa. 34. 16. Ioh. 5. 39. Psal. 118. 15. [See
Christ singing with his family, viz. his Disciples, Mat. 26. 30 Lu 9. 18.]
2. Let every person in your families be duly called to an account,
of their profiting by the word heard or read, as they be about do∣ing
your own business. This is a duty of consequence unspeakable,
and would be a means to bring those under your charge, to remem∣ber