thinges, hee sheweth in generall, that although they which are maried cannot escape free, but that they must needes bee giuen ouer to many cares and carkings, and be snarled in many & sundrie incommodities, yet notwithstanding he beareth with them, and that of especial fauour, and that this he doth in the fauour of marriage. Therefore let the faithful comfort themselues, seeing that GOD hath pytie on them, and that although marriage bringeth with it such a [ 10] nūber of troubles, wherby men seeme as it were to be held bound in this world, yet notwtstanding God for all this, doth not cast them off. And why? Because he hath ordayned mariage, and knowing ye troubles it hath, he voutsafeth to vse a remedie by forbearing and pardoning many faults which are in it.
But herewithall let vs also note, that this may not serue to rock vs asleepe, let not married folkes, vnder colour that God dealeth so gent∣ly [ 20] and pitifully with them, behaue themselues so loosely as if all thinges were permitted them: but let them haue the wit to say: Go to: Had wee neuer so small a care which might withhold vs from comming vnto God; yet should wee be to blame. But we see many ouer froward, we see in others much impatiencie, and many other thinges: againe we see much vanitie committed; insomuch that some man louing his wife too wel, will exceede measure therein, & lykewise in his [ 30] children, so vnrulie alwayes are our passions. If there be in vs but one smal vice, wee are already culpable before God: and if there be an infinite number, behold wee are then plunged as it were into a bottomlesse pit. And shall we then vnder ye couert & cloke of mariage, setle our selues in our dregs, & flatter our selues in our wicked doings? What reasō were in yt? Nay rather let men quic∣ken vp themselues, and know yt the goodnesse of God serueth not to lead & allure them vnto wic∣kednes: [ 40] but contrariwise to make them to feele their faultes, & hauing felt them to returne vnto God, and to pray him yt he wil more & more cut off ye superfluities which are in our affections. Ye see thē what we haue to beare in minde concer∣ning this place, namely yt the faithful haue wher∣with to comfort thēselues, seeing ye God beareth with thē as long as they liue in this world, and yt albeit they cannot bee as angels to walke in all heauenly perfectnesse: they are not for all yt re∣iected [ 50] of God. For in the fauour of marriage which he hath ordayned, he vseth patience and gentlenesse in bearing wt them. But on ye contra∣ry side also, seeing the infections wherwt they are on all sides enclosed, they must not onely con∣demne thēselues, but sigh continually, & endeuor to correct thēselues, & to approch more nearer & nearer vnto God, & to vnfold themselues out of ye temptations, which are a let & hinderance vnto them. Ye see then what ye doctrine is which wee [ 60] haue to gather from this lawe. Now it is certaine yt God meant in this place to shew as in a looking glasse, ye marriage, although it be in it selfe hono∣rable, bringeth many incommodities with it, in∣somuch yt a man is made more vnapt to apply himselfe freely vnto yt which he ought, than he would be if he were not maried. Not yt this pro∣ceedeth frō ye nature of mariage: for if our father Adam had remained in ye integritie & perfectnes wherein he was first created, doubtlesse marri∣age, lyke as God gaue it for an ayde, had bin a perfect & angelical life. But because we are cor∣rupted, & because we haue so many vices in vs as is pitie to behold, we turne yt which was good, in∣to euill: & that which God had ordayned for our glorie, wee turne oftentimes to our reproch and shame. That is ye roote then, from whence all ye incommodities which are in marriage proceede. Aud therefore to ye intent wee accuse not God, who is the author thereof, and lay all ye fault vp∣pon him; let vs know that whatsoeuer a man may complayne of in marriage, is as it were acciden∣tall, yt is to say, proceedeth from elsewhere, than from marriage it selfe, to wit, from ye corruption of sinne. Neuerthelesse we may see (as I haue al∣ready told you) and we may in this place behold as if ye thing were paynted forth before our eyes, yt if a man enter into marriage he entāgleth him selfe in many thinges, which shall stay him from doing of his duetie. And yt is the cause why Saint Paul also sayd, That if a man and woman could liue without it (considering how short a time wee haue, at such time as our Lorde oppresseth his Church with so many afflictions, that we see no∣thing but miseries in the world) it were good to runne with all ye hast we might here below, & not bee stayed or hindered by any meanes whatsoe∣uer from finishing our course. So then when wee enter into marriage, let vs know yt we are straight way so snarled, yt wee cannot make such quicke speede as we should, to discharge our duetie: and let this cause vs to cal on God so much the more, and to desire him to be mercifull vnto vs, and not to impute vnto vs any of all those offences which we dayly commit.
Moreouer let vs enter also into this generall confession, that seeing we are so sinful as to marre euery thing that is good, we ought to detest the sinne which dwelleth in vs, or rather which ray∣neth in vs, vntill our Lord haue transformed vs. For if we bee left in our first nature, what shall we be? Not only we shal be cleane cōtrary vnto ye wil of God and his righteousnes; but also whatsoe∣uer is in it selfe good, holy, and honorable, and which God had ordayned for our welfare, wee can not but turne and conuert it vnto our harme and hinderaunce. Whereof wee haue a notable example in this place.
But we are yet farther admonished, yt although through the corruptiō of sinne, we alter yt which God had ordayned for our welfare, and turne it to euil, yet we may not for all ye forsake and take our leaue of the good ordinances and decrees of God. And not to seeke any farther, let vs take marriage for an example in this case. We see (as I haue already told you) how many troubles and incommodities it hath, and that not a lonely in respect of the body, so that when a man is mar∣ryed hee hath many hinderances which turne him now to one thing, and then to an other, so as he is faine to carke and care how to nourishe his children, and to watch for his profite when