The golde[n] boke of christen matrimonye moost necessary [and] profitable for all the[m], that entend to liue quietly and godlye in the Christen state of holy wedlock newly set forthe in English by Theodore Basille.

The christen state

¶ The begynnynge & fyrste originall of holy wedlocke, whan, wher, how, and by whome it was ordined and instituted. ¶ The fyrst Chapter.

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WHā our Lord Iesus Christ in the r•…•…r. of Mathewe, was spoken to in •…•…ertayne poyntes concernynge wedlocke, he hadde a respecte behynde hym in to the olde Testament, & gaue answere

oute of Moses, that he sayd, howe that wedlocke at the beginynge was ordyned of God himselfe. For as muche therfore as I nowe also am myn ded to speake of the begynnynge and fyrst origi∣nall of holy wedlocke, I •…•…owe no better, thā in lyke manner to stablysh the same out of y^e ryght excellēt Prophet of God Moses, who writeth & testifieth in the secōd Chapter of his fyrst boke, y^t God made the mā Adā altogyther perfect, set h•…•… in the Paradise or garden of pleasure, and after ward sayd immediately: It is not good that mā should be alone. I wyll make hym a fellowe hel∣per to stand nexte by hym. For whan the Lorde * 1.1 had shapen man oute of the earth, he brought vn to hym all maner of beastes, that he myght giue euery one his right name, howe it should be cal∣led, & that he might looke vpon thē. But among thē al found he none apte to be ioyned vnto him selfe, none that he could set his harte vpon, none lyke hym selfe, none that he myghte dwell by as by an helper and conforter. And vpon this sayd God: It is not good, that man should be alone. And therfore determined he withe hym selfe, to make an helpe and conforte vnto man. In the whiche processe we perceaue alreadye, where ho∣ly * 1.2 wedlocke was instituted, namely in the Pa∣radise and garden of pleasure: yea and whan it was ordined, euen in the begynnyng of y^e world

before the fall of mā in all prosperite. Of whom also it was instituted euen of no Aungel or mā but of God hymselfe, doubtles to mannes great conforte and healpe. For in as much as god him selfe sayth: It is not good for man to be alone: It followeth, that it is good for man to haue his owne lawfull mate. As for that cu•…•…l which some tyme is sene and sound among maried parsons, it commeth not chefely of holy wedlocke, but of the misusyng therof, and because men do not as God commaundeth and as they shulde do.

Nowe wyll we farther consyther, howe God dyd institute holy wedlocke, & he hymselfe made a companion for man, and brought him a wife. It followe the thus in Moses: Then the Lorde God cast a slomber on Adā, and he slepte. And * 1.3 he toke out one of his rybbes, and in stede therof hefylle•…•… vp the place wyth flesh: And thus oydde God make the woman, out of the rybbe that he had taken from Adam. Of this maner dyd god make for man a companion, lyke vnto hymselfe, and mete for hym. Here nowe ought we to consi der the occasion, why GOD made the woman out of the slepynge man, and not whyle he was awake. Of the rybbe, & not as well of the earthe, as he had made the man to fore. For all this ser ueth to the declaracion of our purpose.

Fyrst in the slepe of Adam, dyd he set forthe y^•

death of Christ, out of the which (vnto the same Lorde Christ) there is prepared a pure and holy spouse in the Fountayne of water thorowe the worde, as Paule sayth to the Ephesians y^• fyfte Chapter Of suche health and grace of GOD should marryed folkes also haue vnderstādynge and knowledge. Moreouer his mynde is to sig∣nifye vnto vs that in takyng holy wedlocke in hand, all tētacions should slepe. The ordinaūce regard, and feare of God, ought to ioyne them togither, that are disposed to marry. The wo∣man was taken from and out of the syde of mā and not from the earthe, least ony man shoulde thyncke that he had gotten his wyfe oute of the myer: but to considre, that the wife is y^e husbon∣des flesh and bone, and therfore to loue her. yet was she not made of the head. For the husbond is the head and master of the wyfe. Nether was she made of the feete (as thoughe thou mighteste spurne her away frō the, & nothyng regard her) but euen out of thy syde, as one that is set next vnto man, to be his helpe & companion. And as the bone of the flesh is strong, so ought the hus∣band to be the strengthe, healpe & conforte of the wyfe. Therfore was she also taken and created oute of the ryb or bone, and not out of the fleshe.

But in the circumstaūce that followeth, shal euery thing be more playne afterward. For now

it followeth howe God gaue the woman vnto man, and how that he receaued and toke her.

God brought the woman vnto Adam, and as it is euident in the fyrst Chapter) he blyssed them and sayde vnto them, growe and multiplye, and * 1.4 fyll the earth. Out of the which wordes we may perceaue clerely, that God was the fyrst causer of wedlocke, and fyrst dyd knyt them togyther, & blyssed them. Nowe as soone as the womā was brought vnto Adam, & gyuen vnto him, he sayd immediately: this is once bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. Afore dyd Adam beholde & con∣sidre all beastes and lyuynge creatures here vpō earth, and gaue euery one his peculiare name ac cordyng to his kynde, but among all thynges ly∣uynge he found none, to whome he myght beare an harte and mynde, namely to dwell by it, to loue it, and of it to procreate one lyke vnto him selfe. And therfore is it reason, that wythe fyre they be punyshed vnto death, which agaynst all kynde and nature of man, haue to do with bea∣stes, and not only with women.

As soone now as the woman was set before Adā, he knowledged immmediatly, that she was * 1.5 for his purpose, that he lyked her well, & that he could fynde in his harte to loue her, as one that was of his owne kynde, of his owne bloud, flesh of his fleshe, and bone of his bone. For thoughe

he slepte, and the woman was created out of his rybbe, yet sawe he well that she was lyke hym & suche one as he hytherto had not found amonge all other lyuynge creatures. God also had plāted thē the kynde, the loue, the harte, the inclinacion & naturall affeccion that it besemeth the one to haue towarde the other. Lyke as Adā nowe had •…•…yuen all other beastes theyr names according to the fyrst originall & operacion of theyr kynd, so gyueth he nowe a name also vnto the wyfe, & calleth her Ischa, that is to say, of man, because she was taken out of the man.

Thē foloweth it farther in Moses. For this cause shall a mā leaue his father and mother, & cleaue vnto his wyfe, & they two shalbe into one flesh. These wordes doth Adam (or t•…•…s Moses) * 1.6 speake yet out of the mouth of God, & therby de clarethe the dewty knot and couenaūt of maried folkes, namely that the hyghest loue, bonde and vnite among them, should be this, that no man separate them asunder, but only deathe. This de clareth he with two speciall poyntes. Fyrst, the•…•… is no mā (nexte vnto God) derer vnto vs by all reason, thē is our father and mother. But whā they wyll make discorde betwene maried folkes, God commaūdeth a man in that behalfe to for∣sake father & mother, & to kepe hym to his wyfe. The loue therfore in mariage ought to be nexte

vnto God) aboue all loues. The seconde: They two, saythe he, shall be into one fleshe, that is to saye, one body. Nowe lyke as the greatest loue, the moost excellent and vnpayneful seruyce, di∣ligence and earnest labour, is in the partes of a mās body, one doyng for another, one louynge, defendyng, helpyng & forbearynge another, suffe rynge, also lyke ioye & lyke payne one with ano∣ther. Euen so ought it to be betwene man & wo man in wedlocke. And lyke as the partes of a mans body seperate not thē selues one frō ano∣ther afore death, euē so must wedlocke be a knot vnlooseable. And lyke as the partes of a mans body, whan they are sundred one from another conceaue an exceadynge great anguysh, dolour and payne, euen so ought it to he an exceadynge grefe for marryed folkes to be seperated.

And thus Moses, ouer & besydes that he de∣clareth y^e fyrst originall of holy wedlocke, layeth also the foundacion of lawes matrimonyal, out of the which all other statutes are taken. After the fall of Adā & Eue, there was nothyng added further vnto wedlocke, neyther altered in those thynges that were ordyned, sauyng that, by rea∣son of the faull and synne, there was sorow and payne layd vpon thē both, and vpon vs all. For vnto man it was sayd: In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat thy bread. &c. And vnto the womā

sayde God: I wyll surelye encreace thy sorowe whan thou art with chylde, & wythe payne shal•…•… thou be delyuered, and to y^e husbande shalt thou haue respecte, and vpon his pleasure depende. Neuertheles thorowe thy vnfayned fayth in Ie∣sus Chryst, all these & other grefes are minished in them that beleue, and therby vnperfectenesse is helped, in so muche that they come to a verye prosperous olde age many tymes.

Thus much thought I to shew out of Moses that excellēt seruaūte of God, whā, where, how, of whom, & partly for what intent, holy wedlock was instituted namely, how that God himselfe in Paradyse, at y^• begynnyng of the world (euē in the tyme of mās innocēcy & prosperite) ordey∣ned thus for the welth of mā, that one mā & one womā ioyned togither shulde be one bodye, one to loue the other aboue al thinges next vnto god the one to be coupled to the other without sepa∣racion, one to helpe & socour y^• other, and in the f•…•…are of God to bring vp theyr childrē, And this is in a maner the whole summe of the one parte of this boke.

The seconde Chapter.

What wedlocke is.

FOr vpon the sayde foundacyon will I laye 〈◊〉〈◊〉 set forth all my worke folowynge. And fyrst wyll I shewe what wedlocke is. Thā whan I haue descrybed the same, I shall open &

declare the articles therof particularly.

That we call wedlock, is in the Germaynes * 1.7 tonge called Ee, which as it is a very old word, so is it somtyme taken for a law or statute, som tyme for a bonde or couenaūte. Thus is the old testamente called the law or the olde couenaunt, the new Testament, the newe law or y^e newe co uenaunt: because that ther in consisteth not one lye the lawe that god gaue to the olde and newe people, but also the couenaunte whiche he made with them bothe. The latinistes cal it Coniugi urn, a ioyninge or yokinge together, like as whā two oren are coupled vnder one yoke, they beare or drawe together like burthen and wayghte.

Therfore is wedlocke a couenaunte, a cou∣plinge * 1.8 or yokynge together. Nowe yf wedlocke be not the couplynge or yokynge together of one thing, thē must it be excepted, from other knyt∣tinges, and we must geue vnto it the owne na∣ture & propertie pertayninge to it selfe. Namclye that it is a ryghte knotte vnto god acceptable ayokinge together of one manne and one womā withe the good cōsente of them bothe. Here vnto also must we adde, why & wherfore they shoulde and must be yoked together. Euen to the intent that they maye lyue honestlye and frendlye the one with the other, that they maye auoyde vn∣clennesse, that they maye brynge vp children in

the feare of god, that the one maye helpe and cō∣forte the tother.

Out of thys maye we comprehende a shorte * 1.9 descryption of wedlocke, and saye. Wedlocke is a lawefull knotte and vnto God an acceptable yokynge together of one man and one woman with the good consent of them both, to the intēte that they two maye dwell together in frende∣shyppe & honestye, one helping and confortynge the tother, eschuynge vnclennesse, & bryngynge vp chyldren in the feare of god Or els set it after this maner folowyng: Wedlocke is the yokynge together of one man & one woman, whome god hath coupled accordynge to his worde, with the consente of thē both, from thence forthe to dwell together, and to spend theyre lyfe in the equall pertakynge of all suche thinges as god sendeth, to the intent that they maye bring forth childrē in the feare of hym, that they maye auoyde whor dome, and that (accordynge to Gods good plea∣sure (the one maye helpe and conforte the other,

¶ The thyrd Chapter.

¶ The declaracion of wedloke thus described.

NOwe wyll we playnely open euery par∣cel of the sayd descripcion from article to article, & (w^t testimony of the scriptures) proue and establysh the same, where nede is.

Fyrst that wedlocke is the couplyng togithe•…•… * 1.10 of one man and one woman, not of one man & m•…•… women, or of one woman and mo men, the Lorde himselfe affyrmeth it Math. xix. and so is it wtytten also in the seconde of Genesis. Nowe where as some of the holy fathers had more wy∣ues than one, those were but the Actes of certen priuate men, and not such general examples, as are thorowly to be followed.

Agayne, the priuate dede of some, or of many men, make no common lawe. The Lorde in the fore rehearsed place of Mathewe, dyd alleadge & renew y^• olde law of mariage agayne. Therfore he that nowe wyll bryng in the multitude of wi ues, shall follow more the rule of Mahumet, th•…•… of Christ.

Moreouer by yokynge, ioynyng, or couplyng do I vnderstande not only an outwarde dwel∣lynge togyther, but also an vniforme agremen•…•… of mynd, & a comon participacion of bodye and goodes, for asmuch as the Lord sayth playnely: And they two, shall be into one flesh, that is, one body. But of this we shall speake further after∣ward, whā we come to treat of the consentyng.

Furthermore, wedlocke must not onely be a couplyng togyther, but it must also be such a cou plynge togither as commeth of God, and is not contrary to hys worde and wyll. For where as

certayne men do alleadge out of the holy gospell (what God hath cowpled togyther, let not man separate) & conclude theron, that whan two par∣sonnes come once togyther, & the one hath taken the other, it must nedes be fast, & no man maye breake y^e band. Such mē haue not so good respect to the wordes of the Lorde, as they shoulde. For the Lord sayd not▪ what so euer is coupled togy∣ther, ought not or maye not be separated. But thus he sayd: What God hath coupled togither * 1.11 let not man separate. Therfore must it be con∣sidered not only whether two parsons come to∣gyther, but muche rather whether it be done w^t God or no. That thyng is wyth God, which is not done agaynst his commaundemēt & worde.

There be many whome God coupled not to gyther, but carnal lust, mony, good, flattery, drō kennes, a fleshely arme and frendeshyppe, where God is not thought vpon, & therfore synne they the more agaynst hym. It is wrytten in y^• syxte Chapter of Genesis: The sonnes of God sawe the doughters of men, that they were fayre, and toke vnto them wyues such as lyked thē. Wher∣by euery man maye perceaue, that ther was loue & lust, a consent & couplyng togyther, but ther∣fore plesed it not God. The same maner of •…•…oo ynge dothe the Lorde recyte also in the. xxiiii. of Mathew, and sayth: As they were in the dayes

afore the floude, they dyd eate, they dyd dryncke, they marryed & were maryed, euē vntyl the day that Nohe entered into the Arke, & they regarded it not, tyll the floud came and toke them all a∣waye. Thus also shall the cōmyng of the sonne of man be.

There is no man nowe so dull, as to thyncke that it is synne to marry. Therfore was not that reprehended as thoughe it were a synfull & vnright thyng to marry, but because they came 〈◊〉〈◊〉 togyther after the worde of the Lorde, yea rather they followed theyr owne tētacions as I sayde afore. Wherfore Esdras dyd separate di∣uers mariages, yea euē of those that bore a good affecciō y^• one to the other, & were coupled togy∣ther. * 1.12 For it was not God, but theyr owne tenta cions that ioyned thē. Esdras y^e. x. chap. The yo kyng thā of maryed folkes togyther must be fra med ryght accordyng to the word & wyll of god.

¶ The fourth Chapter.

The ryght couplyng togyther of Christen folkes in mariage.

CErtayne poyntes now shall I set forth, to the whiche those faythefull Christen men must haue respecte, y^t entende to take holy wedlocke vpō thē, accordyng to y^e wyll & plesure of god. Fyrst though mariage also concerne the soule and inwarde man, yet pertayneth it lyke∣wyse

to the outwarde thynges, that are subdued * 1.13 to the hygher powers. For where as faythful ru lers haue ordeyned, good apte, and conuenient statutes and ciuile lawes, suche ought no reaso∣nable Christen man to resist, but muche rather is he bounde to obey them, lyke as the holy Apo∣stle Peter hath wrytten and taught. i. Petre. ii. Be ye subiecte (•…•…ayth he) to all ciuile ordinaun∣ces of men for the Lordes sake. The hygher pow ers haue authorite to make Ciuile lawes in out warde thynges. And who so withstondeth such, bothe wythstonde the ordinaunce of God, and therfore shall God ponysh hym, as Paule testi∣fyeth. Roma. xiii.

Secondely, the Lorde saythe. Deutero. vii. * 1.14 youre doughters shall ye not gyue to theyr son∣nes (meanyng the vnfaythfull & Infidelles) and theyr doughters shall ye not take for youre son∣nes. Therfore in goynge about mariage, a chri∣sten man must fyrst looke that in handfastynge hymselfe to a woman he make no diuorce of the true fayth, or brynge it into parell. For it follo∣weth in the lawe. For they shall make your son∣nes to fall away from me, and to serue strating Goddes. And then shall the indignacion of the Lorde waxe whotte ouer you, and destroye you shortely. Neuerthelesse yf there be no daunger of faulyng awaye from Goddes trueth, or of hur

tyng the same, then (concernyng mariage) it ma keth no matter though the partie dwell amonge Infidelles, or come of vnfaythefull fathers and mothers, For Booz, whiche was grandefather to Iesse Dauids father, married a Cananite of Ierico euen •…•…uth, whom the Euangelist recy∣teth in the Genelogy of Christ Iesu mat. i. For she was right faythfull, & abhorred al ydolatry.

Elles yf there be parell presente, that the one shalbe caryed away vnto errour, then hath not onely the lawe in the olde Testamente spoken there agaynst, but Paule also commaundeth in the second to the Corinthians the sixte chapter, sayeng: Beare not a straūg yoke with infidels. For what felowshyp hathe righteousnes wythe vnryghteousnes? What company hathe lyghte with darkenesse? What concorde hathe Christe wyth Belial? Or what parte hathe the beleuer with an Infidell? How agreeth the Temple of God wyth Idolles: Ye are the Temple of y^e ly∣uyng God. &c.

Mariage is a cōmon participacion of mynde body, & goodes. Now sayth Paule: What vnyte can a faythfull beleuer haue wyth and infydeler. The vnbeleuer cleueth to vnrighteousnesse, to darkenesse, to ypocrysye, to erroure, euen vnto the deuell and to ydolatry. Agayne: the faith∣full beleuer despyseth, abhorreth & condemnethe

all such thinges, loueth righteousnes, the trueth of the Gospel, the lyght, euen the Lord, and hath God lyuyng in hym. How wyll these two now drawe one yoke, whiche are of suche a contrary mynde? To drawe one yoke, is a maner of spe∣kyng and is as muche to say, as to haue fellow shyp, and to yoke thē selues togither in wedlock To beare a strasig yoke, is it to take an vnfaith * 1.15 ful mate, or one to gyue ouer himselfe vnto such thynges, as maye alienate hys mynde frō God & his trueth. And verely what womā so euer ta∣keth an vnbeleuyng mā, must drawe after hym in vnbeleue, yea & do, se, & heare that whiche is cleane contrary vnto fayth, and hurteful to her soule. The chyldren also shalbe brought vp in in fidelite. And thoughe it come not to passe whyle the parentes be alyue, yet happeneth it after the death of the faythfull? Whyle such yoked folkes also are alyue, there is no tranquilite: & finally the beleuer must be in continuall discorde wyth the vnbeleuer, or els must he graunt vnto her & so do agaynst God, agaynst his own soule, and agaynst his conscience. Therfore must we take good aduisement afore hand, leest we yoke oure selues, our frēdes or our chyldren with vnfayth ful people, to the great hurt of our selues & ours

Thou wylt say: For asmuch now as I haue * 1.16 an infidell to my mate. I perceaue that ther can

be no mariage betwene hym and me, therfore wyll I departe from hym. To this doth Paul * 1.17 aunswere the. i. Cor. vii. yf a brother (that is to saye a Christē man) haue an vnbeleuyng wyfe & she be content to dwell wyth hym, let hym not departe from her. And yf an womā haue an vn beleuyng husbonde, & he consent to dwell wythe her, let her not departe from hym. For the vnbe leuyng husbonde is sanctifyed by the wyfe, and the vnbeleuynge wyfe is sanctifyed by the hus∣band. Els were your chyldren vnclene, but now are they holy. But and yf the beleuyng departe, lette hym departe. A brother or a sister is not in subieccion to suche. But in peace hath God cal led vs. &c. We must therfore put a difference be∣twene it that is done already, and it that is yet to do. A wedlocke is it (no doubte) that after the common custome and law is openly and iuste∣ly celebrated, of euery man estemed for wedlock. But yf in the same there be any erroure or ble∣mysh, that errour should not be defended or bro ught into other mariages. Neyther oughte men therfore immediately to conclude & saye: Myne vnsemely mariage is therfore no mariage at al.

Wherfore, whyle the matter is not yet past, euery man ought to beware, that he nether hys be snared in daunger. We can note well the ble∣myshes of the body, much more ought we to con

sidre the blemyshes of the soule. We should take ensample by Salomon, seyng it is manifest, vn to what poynte the vnbeleuing women brought hym, although he was the wysest amonge men vpon earth. But whan the matter is done alre∣dy, let euery mās mynd be to kepe that thyng y^• God hath called hym vnto, and do that mooste conuenient is, makynge faythfull prayer vnto God, and followynge the counsayle of the holye Apostle Peter, whiche (i. Pet. iii.) he gaue to the women that haue vnbeleuyng husbōdes, sayēg: Let the wyues be in subieccion to theyr husbon∣des, that euen they which beleue not the worde, maye without the worde be wonne by the good conuersacion of the wyues, whan they se youre chaste lyuyng in the feare of God.

It plesed not Paul, that in wedlocke al hope should be sodenly cast of for vnbeleues sake, and vyolence ministred to seperacion. For in y^e fore recyted place to the Corinthians he sayth after this manner. For what knowest thou woman, whyther thou shalte saue the man or no? Or y^u manne, whether thou shalte wynne the woman or no?

Wherfore he that is snared in such a case, let him call vpō God, and lyue in his fear, in fayth fulnes, in pacience, in long sufferynge, in discre∣cion soberly and in vnfayned loue. Yet let euery

Christen mā take hede, that for his wyues sake •…•…e consent to none ydolatry, neyther defyle him selfe withe the workes of vnbelefe. Lette euery man remember the wordes of the Lorde: Who so loueth father or mother, wyfe or childrē, sister or brother, londe or substaunce, more then me, is not worthy of me. But let hym alway cry vpō God for succoure, counsayle, conforte and helpe. So shall he faythefully not onely shewe hys lo∣uynge kyndenes, but also fynde remedy, and de∣clare hys healpe.

¶ The fyfth Chapter.

To a ryght mariage, must chyldrē also haue the consent of theyr parentes.

MOreouer lyke as God & faythe shoulde not be denyed or forsakē wythe y^e mari∣age, euē so they whiche are nexte to god (as father & mother ought not to be neglected & * 1.18 despysed. For though God sayd: A mā shall for∣sake father & mother, & kepe him to his wyfe, yet those his wordes in y^e same place, are cōcerninge mariage y^t is made alredy (what duty they y^e are maried owe y^e one to y^e other) & are not touching the contractyng of wedlocke, that chyldren may mary, without the respecte, knowledge or cōsent of theyr parētes, vnder whose authorite & iuris∣diccion they be. And I wonder what the papisti call bokes & learned men dyd meane, whan they

taught that the consent only of both the parties doth fastē the matter, & coupleth thē togither in mariage: The cōsent of y^e parētes also, say they is good with all, but whan they two haue cōsen ted, and one hath taken the other, y^e knot can not be vnknyt, neyther maye the parentes seperate thē from a sunder Wher as lawes both natural (diuine specially) and ciuile, require the parētes consent to the chyldrens mariage: In so much y^t they iudge the promyse to be of no value, which is made without the knowledge of the parentes yea & that also in those chyldrē, which as yet are not come to theyr yeares, & are yet vnder the tui cion of theyr elders. Forin as much as the chyl∣drē are not yet come to perfecte discreciō they cā not cōtracte mariage which requireth vnderstā dyng, yea they can nether coūsayle nor helpe thē selues. So y^• in this behalfe y^• cōsent of theyr pa∣rentes is not only necessary but also good & pro fitable for thē, As for preuy cōtractes which are not made according to the lawes, they haue euer bene reiected, neyther were they acceptable to a∣ny * 1.19 man, saue vnto suche as were ignoraunt and wycked. For why: for the moost parte they are made of some fond affecciō, yea knauery, falshod & disceate is commōly the doer, to persuade, & by wordes to take yong folkes in the snare. Many priuy cōtractes are brought to passe w^t flattery,

wyth dronckennes, wyth rewardes & promises, wherby young ignoraunt people are vtterly be∣gyled & destroyed. To gyue liberte & licēce vnto suche, is euen as muche as to gyue a mad mā a swerd, & a knyfe to a yong chyld, yea a very slaū * 1.20 dering is it & a dishonouryng of mariage. Diso bediēce of chyldrē also toward theyr parentes & tutours, hath euer bene reprehended among all naciōs. God cōmasideth and sayth: Thou shalte honour thy father & thy mother. Nowe doth the * 1.21 obediēce or disobediēce of y^e chyldrē at no time de clare it selfe more than in contractynge of wed∣locke. Greater honour canst thou not shew vn∣to thy parentes, than whan thou followest thē herein: neyther greater dishonoure than whan thou herein resistest them. Esau displeased hys parētes very sore, in takyng his wyfe w^tout their cōsent. Iacob followed theyr mynd & was cōmē∣ded. This commaundement also of honouryng our parētes, dyd our Lord Christright faythful ly, cōmit vnto vs. Math. xv. In the. vii. of Deu. doth God gyue this charge vnto his people say enge: You shal not marry your sonnes & dough ters to the vnbeleuers. By the whyche wordes we maye well vnderstande, that the authorite of marryeng yonge folkes, lyeth in the parentes & not in them selues, Wherfore Abraham before the lawe charged his seruaunt Elieser, that con∣cernynge

the contractynge of mariage betwene Isaac & Rebecca he shulde do his message wythe Bathuell and not specially wythe Rebecca her selfe. The seruaunt also dyd hys eacande to the parentes and not to the daughter, althoughe he founde her alone wythoute by the well syde (and had tyme, place and occasion sufficient so to do. This lawe dyd Sampson obserue. Iudicū. xiiii. For though he had found & spyed a damsell that * 1.22 pleased hym, yet he toke her not, but fyrst shewed hys parentes, brought them wyth hym vnto her & toke her wyth the knoweledge and consent of hys father and mother.

In the seconde boke of Moses, the. xxii. Chap * 1.23 ter doth God commaund thus. If a man begyle a mayd that is not detrouthed, and lye with her he shall endote her, and take her to hys wyfe. If her father refuse to gyue her vnto hym, he shall paye mony accordynge to the dowry of virgins. Here dothe GOD gyue the father authorite to take hys doughter from the man, to whome she is promysed els by the lawe. Therfore maye the parentes drawe the chyldren agayne to theyr iu risdiccion. For this is a singuler great thynge, that the father hathe authorite, to take his for∣ced doughter from the man, and to wythdrawe her from hym, to whome she was promysed by the lawe. In the fourth boke of Moses the thyr∣ty

Chapter it is wrytten thus: If a damsel vow * 1.24 a vowe vnto the Lorde, & bynde her selfe beynge in her fathers house and vnmaryed: yf her fa∣ther heare her vowe and bond whiche she hathe made vpon her soule, and hold his peace therto, then all her vow and bond which she hath made vpon her soule, shall stand in effecte. But and yf her father forbyd her the same day that he hea reth it, thā none of her vowes nor bōdes whiche she hath made vpon her soule shalbe of •…•…alue. &c. Although nowe in these sayde wordes of God, there is no marryage but vowes expressed and named, yet is it an euident testimonye, that no chyld which is not y•…•…t come to hys yeares, and is yet vnder the tuicion of his parentes, hathe aucthorite to vowe, bynde, or alter it selfe wyth∣out theyr consent, yea yf any suche vowe or alte racion do chaunce, that then the parentes haue a•…•…thorite by the lawe of GOD, to lette and hynder the same. For in as muche as. God per∣mytteth to vnbynde it, and wyll not that it shal be of any effecte, whiche wythout consent of the parentes is promised to hym selfe, no doubte, he wyll not that it shall stande immutable whiche in disobedience is wylfully done without the pa tentes consent.

The holy Apostle Paule in the fyrste Chap, of y^e fyrst Epist. to Timo. amonge many other

greuous synnes, rekenethe also the stealynge a∣way * 1.25 of men, whiche is a shamefull vyce, whan mens children, seruauntes or suche other folkes as belong vnto them, are caried awaye or enty∣sed frō them, Whan a wicked, sotel & shamelesse woman, entyceth an ygnoraunte yonge mā frō his father, which with great expenses trauayle & laboure hath brought him vp, whan she blyn∣deth him with loue, and at the laste gettethe him awaye vnder the title of mariage: Or whan a wanton and fayre tongued fellowe entycethe a damesell from hyr mother, and than (vnder the tytle of mariage) conueyeth her awaye, what is it els but menne stealyng:

Thus I trust it is manifest out of gods word and the lawe, that to the laweful mariage of the children, the consente of the parentes also is ne∣cessary, and that the chyldren oughte not to cast theyr parentes a syde: & yf they do, that then the parētes maye refuse and dysanull the chyldrens promyse.

The eyuyle and Imperyall lawe requyrethe also the consent of the parentes, as it is many∣feste * 1.26 libro Pandeet. xxiii. Iustinian the Empe∣rour Instit libro. i. tit. xi. wryteth after this ma∣ner, lawfullye & ordinatelye do they cōtract ma∣riage one with another, whiche come together after the cōmaundementes: & lawes yonge men

whan they are olde ynough to take wyues, and yonge wemen whan they are of conuentent age to take husbōdes: but so that they haue the cōsēt of theyr parētes, vnder whose auctorite they be. That this shalbe so, wyllethe and chargethe the lawe eyuyle & naturale in so much that the fa∣thers cōmaundement must go before: These be Iustinians wordes, which are so manifeste and euydēt, that they nede no further declaracyon.

Upon this do some men thinke, that theyr ma riage is no mariage, & that the one of thē shulde nowe be separated frō the other seyng it is so lōg sens they were cōtract agaynst the wyll of theyr parentes. But such personnes ought to considre that theyr parentes dyd not put the frō a sunder & therfore is theyr wedlocke now a lawfull wed locke, inasmuch also as in processe of tyme theyr parentes were reconcyled. And thoughe it were not so, yet openly accordynge to the custome of the comen lawes were they permitted to mary, & were solemply receaued in to wedlock, lyuynge honestely together, haue had chyldren, exercysed all dewties of mariage. Therfore ought they by reason to cōtinew styll in theyr matrymony & 〈◊〉〈◊〉 al poyntes to applye thē selues to y^e feare of god

Some turne thē selues another waye & sayes Thorowe such lawes are the poore snared, that they can neuer come to anye riche mariage, for

the rytch wyll not geue theyr chylorē to the poore Wherby it may easely be perceaued, where the shoo wringethe them, that resiste thys aunciente good and reasonable lawe. Theyr harpynge is * 1.27 vpon theyr halfepeny, theyr mynd is to be riche with mariage: neyther are the satisfyed to haue takē awaye the chylde agaynste the fathers and mothers will, but agaynst theyr myndes wolde they haue the good also. These take not the child because of mariage, but for the goodes sake.

Thus doth iniquite discloose it selfe, that a man maye well perceaue, what it is that some menne seake in mariage. A reasonable manne whe∣ther he be rytche or poore wyll allwaye haue re∣specte vnto the feare of god, to honestye, to faith fulnesse, to laboure and vertue, and not to the * 1.28 bagge of moneye. Themistocles desyred rather to haue a wyfe, discrete and a prudent personne then one that was rytche. But who so hathe more respecte to worldly substaunce, thē to ho∣nestye and knowlege, is a shamefull personne: lyke as he also that hyghly estemeth suche a mās * 1.29 frendshyppe, and desyreth it for moneyes sake.

Nowe be as be maye: Who soeuer is greued with this lawe towchynge the consent of the pa rētes, let him laye awaye hys gredye desyre, hys bragging and his fond affeccyon, and lette hym haue respect vnto god and vnto equytye. Lette hym cōsidre well the worde of the Lorde. What

thou wylte not haue done vnto thy selfe, that do not thou to other. So shall the law be more light vnto hym, and the more easy to beare.

¶ The syxte Chapter.

The parētes ought not to constrayne theyr chyldren to matrimony, nether to marry thē afore thyr tyme.

IN this poynte also ought not the parētes to take to much vpō thē selues because of theyr authoritie, neyther to abuse it, or to compell theyr chylde, eyther because of fylthy aduaun∣tage or lothesomnes in takyng payne) to let him go, & haue no respecte vnto hym. For an vngod∣ly and vnhappy thyng is it in the cause of mary age to cōpell a yonge mā agenst his wyl, to take suche one as he hath no harte vnto. For in mari age ought to be the full consent of both parties, w^t the consent of theyr parentes. Lykewyse also * 1.30 whā a son or doughter are come to theyr yeares & ful discresion, but are of theyr parētes in y^e me ane season not looked vnto, & so afterward with a good aduise & deliberaciō do honestly mary to gyther. Then ought the father well to considre, that thorow hys owne wrongful & vnrighteous demeanour, he hath lost his authorite as towe∣chyng hyndryng & breakyng of that mariage.

For seyng that the parentes do not looke to the chyldren, nor make such prouision for thē as pa∣rentes

& tutours ought to do (& therfore are be∣come nothyng lesse thē the parētes) why would they thē require of chyldrē such obediēce, by the whiche the chyldren myght fall and peryshe in y^• daunger & snare of the dyuel: In suche causes ve rely is not a Christen man subiecte nor bonde, in as muche as all the lawes of God do extende & serue for the honeste, welfare, and preseruaciō of man, and not for his destruccion. It hath oft tymes bene founde in dede, that suche mariages •…•…ontracted euen agaynst the wylles of suche vn faythfull and couetous parentes, haue ben pro∣sperous, holy, and acceptable vnto God. Not w^t∣standyng my purpose is, nother to cōmende the foolyshe affeccions, nether the wicked & wanton behauoure of certayne yonge wylfull personnes that feare not God. In summa, the measures ought here to be a lyke longe: euen thus, lyke as the chyldren must haue respecte to theyr parētes & not wylfully despyse them or cast them of: So shulde not the parentes wythout ony petie com pell theyr chyldren to mariage afore theyr tyme neyther wyckedly neglecte them, nor leaue them vnprouided for in dewe season. Good lawes, iust rulers, the feare of God and discreciō, shall moderate this matter well ynough. Hereof also shall we treate more largely, in the Chapter of the consentynge.

Furthermore the age or yeares of the chyldrē * 1.31 must well be considered of the parentes. For an vnnaturall and vnhonest thynge is it, to mary younge folkes, whiche yet haue not attayned to theyr lawful and iust yeares. Many great sicke nesses do spring therof. Yōge mothers also haue no iust strength, nether to norysh nor to bryng forth frute. And sometyme hathe it chaūsed that they haue dyed of theyr impotent chylde. Lyke∣wyse the chyldren whiche were borne of chyldrē became sycke and feble: It shall also not be come ly for Christen menne, to haue lesse discresion herein, then the Hethen, whyche haue had great respecte to the age and yeares. For Plato, Ari∣stotle and Heseodus appoynte the age of seuen∣tene yeares to yonge women. Some there were that to yonge menne haue appoynted the age of nynetene or twentye yeares: for in those yeares be the powers somewhāt strengthened, and de∣creace not then thorowe maryage, as they do in weake folkes. But herein maye euery manne be∣haue hymselfe after the best & moost honest ma∣ner, accordyng as the kynde, complexion & cause requireth.

¶ The seuenth Chapter.

¶ Of the iust cōsent of both parties into ma riage, and howe that maryage oughte to be free and vncompelled.

TO the sayd poyntes also must euery Chri sten man (whan he contracteth mariage) haue good respecte, namely y^• his wedlock be accordyng to the common lawes that it hyn∣dre not y^e true beleue that it be done w^t the know ledge of his parentes, or of them vnder whose iu risdicciō he is, and that he marry not in the for∣bydden degrees of consangu inite or affinite. Be sydes all this, and specially is required the free harty cōsent of bothe the parties, as it is recited in the discripcion. Wedlocke must be coupled to gither with the good consent of both the parson∣nes. Concernyng the same good consent, wyll I nowe gyue this shorte instruccion.

This consent, is that ouergyuyng & graunt * 1.32 of thy harte, whan vnto thy chosen spouse thou promisest and gyuest thy selfe ouer in wedlocke and in the hyghest loue & felawshyp that maye be vnder God. In the loue and consentynge of harlots there is also an earnest fauoure of y^• one loue towarde the other, but that is carnall and wycked, therfore doth the dyuell knyt that who∣rishe and vnthrifty knot. The consentyng into mariage spryngeth out of gods ordinaunce and leaneth vnto honeste. For an ordinate and pure loue is it that she beareth towarde her chosen, by hym her desyre to remayne withe mynde bodye and good (accordynge to the worde of the Lorde)

to serue hym, to shewe her trouth plyghte vnto hym, to suffer well and woo wyth hy•…•… yke as it followeth also in the descripcion. That vnto theyr ende they dwell styll togyther, and spende theyr lyfe in the equall partakynge of all suche thynges as God sendethe. Therfore is it God hymselfe that knytteth the knotte of mariage. And whorysshe, carnall, and affe•…•…tionate wyll, spryngeth of vicious lust and vanite, & hath not respecte to the glory and ordinaūce of God, but vnto bewty or to other lyke transitory thynges. And as soone as the same faylethe, or yf he once myslyke her or se a fayrer, than fayleth the wyll and mariage also. But the wyll of lawfull ma∣riage (as I sayd afore) consydreth the ordinaunce of God, regardeth honestye, and continuethe in loue, euen in aduersite as well as in prosperite. Herein also diffreth the consentyng in mariage from naturall inclinacion. A naturall thyng is it that two parsons which are of lyke kynd and complexion, of lyke nature and dispocisiō, of lyke maner and occupyenge, shoulde beare more wyll the one toward the other, than they do that haue no mutuall fellowshyp herein. Yet is not thys wyl comparable to consentyng into mariage.

Notwythstondyng suche proporcion in kynd helpeth muche (no doubte) to a more stedfast vnt te & cōsentyng togytherin holy wedlocke, & then

fore it is very good for the same. And to be short a matrimoniall consent is the same herte, dispo∣sicion & loue, that Adam bore toward his Eua. He behelde all other creatures, and nōe lyked hi. But as soneas Eua was set before him, he sayd This same is once bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh, that is, she hath my hart, my mynd and my bloud. &c. as it is sayd in the fyrst chap∣ter. For her sake thought he that a man shoulde forsake father and mother and kepe hym onelye vnto her He knowledged that she was one body wyth hys, then must it follow also, that she had lyke mynd hart & wyll. For neuer one body hath * 1.33 two cōtrary wylles, but one body hath one wyl. And of God hymselfe is the same wyll planted and mygtely conceaued in man, for it exerciseth it selfe strongly, & preaseth after his lyke. Ther∣fore was it ryght spoken of thē of the olde tyme howe that maryage is prepared of God for all men. Herof cōmeth it that many straunge mari * 1.34 ages are brought to passe not inordinately tho∣row the workyng of god. But are takē in hand and do not prospere, for God hathe not so ordi∣ned it. In the. vii. Chapter of Toby doth the aū∣gell saye, y^• Sara the doughter of Raguel should haue Tobias, bycause she was appoynted hym of GOD, and therfore dyed the seuen men to * 1.35 whome she was promised one after another.

In the. xxiiii. of Genesis, Whan the father and mother of Rebecca perceauedde the wonderfull * 1.36 worke of God thorowe the message of Eliezer, they sayde: This cōmeth of the Lorde, therfore we can saye nothyng agaynst the, neyther euell nor, good: there is Rebecca before the, take her, & go thy waye wyth her. &c.

Whereoute it is easye to vnderstonde, that mariage ought to come of a free herte, and ney∣ther to be constrayned and compelled of the pa∣rentes, nor of other menne. For in as much as wedlocke requireth both the parties good cōsent which no man can gyue, but only God, the pa∣rentes * 1.37 maye not compell the chylde, but haue re specte to gods ordinance, & to the ryght ordinate consente of the parties, and considre whether it be or no. Bathuel and Labin had respecte to the ordinaunce of God, and whan they saw y^e same power before theyr eyes, yet sent they for theyr doughter Rebecca, to knowe her wyll also. And whan she of her owne free mynde hadde sayde yea, than was she fyrst sente awaye vnto Isaac her spouse. Thus haue we before our eyes ma∣ny ensamples, wherby we may learne what mi sery & wretchednes foloweth oute of an vnwyl∣lynge and compelled mariage. And therfore it were a great deale better for rulers, to loke fyrst that no manne shoulde compell his chylde, then

that they them selues afterward (when the mat ter is almoost past remedy, & hurte foloweth vp on hurt, shuld haue ynough to do wyth lytle pro fyt, and yet wyth much disquietnes.

Here muste the chyldren looke also, that they * 1.38 fall not immediately to discord for this matter, and violentlye despisynge theyr parentes (make has•…•… to theyr owne great hurte, & persuade them selues to be endewed wyth a wyll from GOD, which of God is not planted in them, but com∣meth of theyr owne inordinate affeccion. For it happeneth oft tymes, that a chylde taketh suche a fashyon in hande as ought not to be, and dis∣pleaseth GOD, and namely he goeth about to haue suche a parson as is not for hys honestye. As whan a yonge woman wyll neades haue a ryottous, wylfull whorehunter and wayster, or suche one as is forsworne and hath begyled ma∣ny other. Or as whan a yonge man wyll nedes haue a vayne, wanton, fylthy, &c. (Herein to pre uent the harme that myght come therof) the pa∣rentes oughte to make obieccion, & to dispoynte them of theyr purpose. Yet should they not ther fore compell theyr chyldren into other mariages to the whiche they beare no harte nor wyll, but discretely enforme them, gyuynge them good in struccion, to gette that frowardnes from them but godlye to deale wythe them for theyr owne

wealth and honeste.

It chauncethe sometyme that the parē•…•…es thē * 1.39 selues deale not well, neyther seake honesty and equite, but only theyr owne inordinate affecciō and wyckednesse, where as sometyme the chyl∣dren are more reasonable, and make obiecciō to theyr parentes, comely and with good manner. It fortuneth also many tymes that the parētes stycke styll to theyr owne frowardenes, to theyr f•…•…lthy desyre of lucre and wyckednesse, and go about to delyuer theyr chyldren forth in the bar gayue. The chyldren therfore sometyme (for as * 1.40 much as they are come past theyr year•…•…s) beyng constrayned by suche violence, do aduisedly and in honeste prouide for thē selues. In suche a case verely ought not the hyer powers to suffer that such vnreasonable parentes as feare not God, should haue theyr wylles.

For lyke as the inordinate affeccion of the chyldren is not to be permitted, whan they wyll nedes haue suche parsonnes as be to theyr owne destruccion: So can no equite alowe you, O pa∣rentes, * 1.41 that for your couetous lucre sake, do set youre owne fleshe and bloud to morgage. youre opinion is (happely) to make sure prouision for them, but seyng youre enterprise commethe not of God, neyther leaneth vnto honeste, therfore do ye but sell them away. Let euery mā therfore

haue respecte to God, to honeste and to the right consent so shall God suffer no man to miscary.

¶ The eyght Chapter.

The occasiōs of wedlocke, why & wherfore it shulde be contracted.

ANd to y^e intēt that the sayd consent maye yet the better be consydred, I wyll yet fur thermore (by the worde of God) declare, the occasions of maryage, why and wherfore it was ordined, & to what purpose it shulde be con tracted, that euery manne maye vnderstonde to what thynge he consenteth, whan he graunteth vnto mariage.

The causes of mariage are orderly sette and * 1.42 expressed one aft•…•… •…•…other in the descripcion therof, in the secon•…•… Chapter: Fyrst of all, they that are faythefull, do marry, to the intent that they maye brynge forth and haue chyldren togy ther. This cause is expressed and grounded in the wordes of God followynge: And god made * 1.43 man vnto hys owne ymage, in the ymage of god made he hym, man and woman created he them And God blyssed thē, & sayd vnto them: Growe and multiply, and fyll the earth. They therfore that are beleuers, do marry to the intent y^• they maye haue chyldren. They knowe well also that to be frutefull or barren / cometh of God. Ther fore do they•…•… knoweledge that they haue not the

chyldren of them selues, but of God. And this * 1.44 cause is no small nor lyght thynge. For to haue chyldren is the greatest treasure. For in the chyl dren do the parentes lyue (in a maner) euē after theyr deathe. And yf they be well and luckely brought vp, god is honoured by them, the publi∣que weale is auaunced, yea all men (theyr paren tes also fare the better for them. They are theyr parentes conforte nexte vnto God, theyr ioye staffe, and vpholdyng of theyr age.

The vnbeleuer regardeth not this cause, but * 1.45 feareth he shall haue to many chyldren, putteth not his trust in God, wyll not giue hymselfe to laboure, and therfore lacketh he the honour and good, y^e groweth out of thi•…•…te vnto the fayth full, whose harte & lust, is set with hys mariage to please God, and to plante & brynge forth pro∣fitable frute vnto men, yet happenethe it many tymes, that euen they whiche feare God, are dis apoynted of thys frute, and that verely because that they (not without the ordinaunce of God) shulde haue no chyldren togyther whiche thynge the faythfull also doth paciently take at y^e hande of God gyuynge hym thankes for that in trou∣blouse tyme of famyn, battayle, persecuciō & pe∣stilence theyr crosse is so muche more thesyer to cary, aswell as he (to whō God gyueth chyldrē) doth ernestly thāke hym for makyng hym frute

full. Of all this haue we a notable ensample in the thre holy Patriarches, Abraham, Isaac & Ia cob, whiche is more manifest vnto euery man, than that we nede to speke further therof. Ther fore thoughe thys cause fayle, so that God wyll gyue the no chyldren, yet is thy mariage righte in the syghte of God. For there be other causes also, for the whiche wedlocke was ordeyned, and for the whiche it is contracted.

And namely it is contracted lykewyse of the faythfull, to the entente that they maye auoyde * 1.46 whoredome and all maner of vnclennes. Thys cause also doth Paule laye before the Corinthi∣ans in the fyrst Epistle the. vii Chapter & sayth It is a quiet and commodious state for a man, not to towche a woman. But to auoyd whore∣dome, let euery man haue a wyfe of hys owne, & euery woman her owne husband. He sayth it is a quiet state of lyuyng for a man not to touche or lye w^t a woman: yea if God haue graunted hym & gyuen him the gyfte, that he may wel and without burnyng, lyue chaste & vnmaryed. But if a man or woman maye not so do. God hathe gyuen thē the medicine of maryage, & wyll not esteme the worcke therof, as synne, whoredome, vnchastite or vnclennesse. For he sayth playnely let euery mā haue his owne wife, & euery womā her owne husbond. To be theyr propre owne or * 1.47

peculiar maketh y^e mariage. As for harlottes & vnthriftes, they are not perculiar propre or own one to another, but borowed & lent for a tyme.

It foloweth yet more playnely in Paul, how * 1.48 that he not onely vouch saueth the worke of wed locke to them that be maried, but commaundeth also (yee and taketh away the priuate power of either of them both therin) & sayeth clearly, that nether of them maye denye vnto the other the dewe worke of matrymonye. Let the husbande, (sayth he) geue vnto the wife dewe beneuolence. Likewise the wife vnto the husband. And this with comelye wordes expresseth he the actuall * 1.49 worke of mariage which certayne of the Corin∣thians, of a speciall chosen holynesse & falfe fay∣ned clenlynesse, had vtterlye denyed vnto theyr maried spouses, thinkyng therby to be very holy clene and spirituall. But Paul cōmaundeth thē to mary the one to geue dewe beniuolence vnto the other no doubt for the auoydyng of whordōe & eschuīg of vnclēnesse. For it foloweth in Paul immediatly after: The wyfe hath not power of hir awne bodye, but the husbande: Lykewyse the husband hath not power of hys awne body, but the wife. Wherby he forbyddethe, that nether of thē shall denye his body vnto the tother. For * 1.50 they two, sayth the Lorde also, are one bodye.

Hereof doubtlesse dyd the holy & godly lerned

bysshoppe take the same whyche he spake in the great coūsaile at Nicea, where as he sayde, that * 1.51 it is dennesse also, a man to lye wyth his owne maried wife. For Paule in the same chapter speakyng of wydowes & wydowers saiethe that it is good yf they so remayne, but immediatelye addeth he therto, sayenge: Neuerthelesse, yf they can not absteine, let them mary. For better it is to marye thē to burne. And within a litle after he sayth moreouer: But and yf thou take a wife thou synnest not. Beholde, what could be more clerely spokē: To mary (sayth the Apostle) is no synne, then must it folow also that the worckes of mariage are not synne, not of thē selues but because of the mariage selfe & gods ordinaunce.

And that more is then all that we haue yet * 1.52 spoken of, it foloweth farther in Paul: And yf a virgyn mary he or she synneth not. For euery man knoweth well, howe holye and excellente a thing virginite is, & yet sayth Pauel, that a vir gyn sineth not yf he or she lose theyr virginite in mariage. Thē must it folow, that god rekeneth not the worke of mariage for synne & vnclennes But synne and wicked vnclennesse is it to com mytte whoredome. Fylthye & abhominable is it * 1.53 to force or begyle a virgin. For Paul sayth fur∣thermore in the. xiii. to the Heb. Mariage is to be had in reuerence & honour amonge all mē) &

the bed of them that are maried, is vndefyled. As for harlottes & aduoutrers, God will iudge thē. How much more wil he iudge them that ra∣uyssh virgyns? Iob saieth in the. xxxi. Chapter I made a couenaunte with myne eyes, that I wolde not loke vpon a virgyn. For howe heuye is the punishement of god frō aboue? And what inheritaunce and rewarde geueth the almygh∣tye from an hy? Destroyeth he not such vnchris tes? and casteth he not out thē that medle withe such wickedn•…•…sse. &c.

The wise man Salomon sayeth Prouer. v. Beglad with thy maryed wife, whom thou hast taken in thy youth, & loue her as a deare chosen hynde. Let hyr brestes satisfye the at all tymes, and reioyse styll in her loue. For why shuldeste thou come nye an harlot (my sonne) and haunt the bosome of a straunge woman? In the which wordes, Salomō like as Paule also cōmendeth and prayseth the loue and worke of mariage as clenlynesse, but draweth men from whoredom as from it that is nothing but fylthy. Therfore (doutelesse) mariage was instituted to auoyde whoredome and vnclennesse and the worcke of mariage is rekened of God for no synne. All which thinges I haue the more largelye spoken of, & proued and confirmed the same with holye scripture: And though I dyd not gladlye take in

hand to wryte of this matter yet haue I done all this to helpe many suared cōsciences, whiche without occasiōthorow the ignoraunce of gods leaue and lawe do piteouslye trouble and vexe themselues here in. I hope therfore noman wyll mysconster me, seynge I haue spoken nothynge but that which Paul dyd wryte afore.

And in all this matter is it well to be considred * 1.54 that like as shamefastneste, comlynesse and tēpe raūe is good in euery thynge, so is it good here also and exceadyng necessary. Wedlock is hono rable and holy, therfore must not we as shame lesse parsonnes cast awaye good maners, & be∣come lyke vnresonable beastes God hath geuen and ordened mariage to be a remedy and medicy ne vnto our feble and weake flesh, to swage y^e dis quietnesse therof, & to the intent that we should be cleane and vndefiled in spirite & in body. But yf we rage therwith, & be shameles in our wor∣des and dedes, then our mistē peraunce & excesse maye make it euell whiche is good, and defyle it that is cleane. Paule also is content, that as cō∣cernyng the bed, maried folkes vpon a due occa∣sion, may ly the one from the other. But so, y^t it * 1.55 be w^t the good consent of them bothe, And y^t not alwaye or longe, but only for a tyme, leest the di uell be busy, & tempte them with whoredome or vnclennes, or deceaue them wyth aduoutry.

The thyrd cause is this: Euē to the entent y^• * 1.56 the one maye be an helpe & conforte to the other accordyng to the wyll of God, auoydyng solita∣rinesse. Whiche the Lorde expressed wythe these wordes. It is not good for manne to be alone, I wyll make hym an helper to be nexte vnto him. And wythin a whyle after, he saythe moreouer. They bothe shall be one fleshe, or one body. So that lyke as in the partes of a mans body there is a mutuall healpe or participacion of the one toward the other. Euen so ought it to be also a∣monge marryed folkes. The one ought to be an eye, eare, mouth, hand and foote to the other▪ In trouble, the one must be the cōforte of the other. In aduersite must the one be the oth•…•…rs refres∣shyng, yea & in all theyr lyfe must the one be the helpe & socour of the other. And these are the cau ses why wedlocke was ordeyned, and wherfore they that are faythefull beleuers do m•…•…rry, and y^e occasions whervpō y^e rōsent bothe leaue & rest.

The nynth Chapter.

The ende fruyte and commendacion of holy wedlocke. Howe blyssed, honourable & good a thyng it is.

BY this now is it easy to vnderstond what is y^e ende, vertue & frute of wedlocke, & how holy, profitable & good a thyng it is. This is y^e ende of mariage whervpon it leaneth. Not

to be aloue, but to haue a cōpanion in this lyfe, that wyll helpe to beare wealth & woo, euen such one as thou canst fynde in thyne harte to loue, and of whome thou arte loued agayne, that by the same thou mayst fynde a medicine and swa∣gynge of the weakenes of thy vnquiet flesh, and so voyde whoredome and all fylthy lyuynge, to brynge vp chyldren vnto the prayse of God, and to the publique wealthe, profyt and conforte of thy selfe, and other thy neyghbours. &c.

Wherfore the vertue, operacion, effecte, and * 1.57 frute now of mariage, is to confort, mayntayne helpe, counsayle, to clense, to further vnto good mann•…•…rs, honeste and shamefastnes, to expel vn •…•…lennes, to auaunce the honoure of God & the publique weale, and to sette vp many suche ver∣tues moo.

Hereof commeth it that wedlocke is a great * 1.58 worke and holy ordinaunce of God, whiche defy leth or vnhaloweth no mā, saue hym that taketh it vpon hym w^t an vncleane harte. Whome (to saye trueth (not the mariage, but his owne wic∣kednes defyleth. For it is alwaye holy & right in it selfe, & all such as receaue it wyth true hertes, doth it allowe & bryng to honour. It hath euer also bene of an excellent estimacion & had a glo∣rious name of all prudent people, in so muche that Paul durst boldely saye: Wedlocke is hono

rable among all men, or in all the worthe.

For wedlocke dyd God institute by himselfe▪ & not by his Angels or holy mē, as he dyd oth•…•…r good statutes & ordinaunces, yea euen at the be gynnynge toke he it in hande in Paradise that * 1.59 garden of pleasure, no doubte, for the commodite & not for the grefe of man. Wythoute Paradise were all other ordinaunces made, but euen in Paradise was wedlocke ordeyned. And yf all ordinaunces haue theyr propre commēdacion & honour of theyr fyrste begynner of the antiqui∣te, of the place where they were ma•…•…e, or of y^• pro fytte that they bryng. Then verely is wedlocke moost worthy of prayse & honour, as a thyng in stituted of God hym selfe, euen in Paradyse, at the begynnyng of the worlde, for the wra•…•…th and commodite of man.

Therfore in mariage lyued the holyest, the moost vertuous, y^e wysest & moost noble mē vpō erth: yee the holy ghost is not ashamed, euen in the fyrst boke of the byble, very playnely to ta•…•…ke & wryte nothyng els for the moost parte, then of mariages, chylbren, or byrthes, and suche other * 1.60 poyntes of housholdyng in wedlocke. Adā was a marryed man, so was Enoche, Nohe, Abrahā, Lothe, Isaac, Iacob, Iosaphat, Iob, Moses, Aa∣ron: And so were other Regentes, Iudges, Pre∣stes and Kynges, Iosue, Gedeon, Phinees, Sa∣muel,

Dauid, Ezechias, Iostas, Os•…•…as, Isaias, and other Prophetes •…•…o. Dauid commendeth the state of mariage as a singulare blyssynge of God, whiche he sendeth to them that loue him, & whō he loueth, & sayth. Psal. cxxvii. Blessed are they all that feare the Lorde, & that walke in his wayes: for thou shalte lyue wyth the thyng that thou hast gottē thorowthe labour of thyn owne handes. O how blyssed & happy arte thou? Thy wyfe is as a frutefull vine that standeth by thy house syde: Thy chyldren round about thy table are euē lyke Olyue trees newly planted. Lo thus shall he be blissed y^• feareth the Lorde. &c. and this is the cause that the wiues of the olde testamēt, toke it for a great dishonour & plage, whan one of thē was at any tyme barren or vnfrutefull.

In the new Testamēt it was y^• good plesure of our Lorde Iesus, to be borne in mariage, For * 1.61 the virgyn Mary was marryed vnto Ioseph of the house of Dauid, yet cōceaued she of the holye * 1.62 ghost, & brought forth her chylde beyng a virgyn her selfe, & remaynyng a virgin. The fyrst mi∣racle that oure Lorde Christ dydde. The same wrought he at a weddynge, & namely suche a mi racle as is able to gyue cōsolacion in maryage, * 1.63 that euen in thynges pertaynyng to this tempo rall lyfe) God wyll not leaue them vnprouided for, that mary in the feare of hym & in the fayth

of his euerlasting worde: yee that he both can 〈◊〉〈◊〉 * 1.64 will turne the vnsauery water of all trouble, in to theswete wyne of gracious comforte. The holy apostles & preachers of Iesus Christ had wifes, as Paul the Apostle. Phil. iiii, reporteth of him selfe as Peter and the other Apostles. 〈◊〉〈◊〉. Corin. ix. and as Luke. reporteth of holy. Phi∣lippe, Act. xxi. And Eusebius. Eccles. Histo Lib. iii. cap. •…•…xx. Paul calleth theyr doctrine that in∣hthite & forbyd mariage, the doctryne of the de∣uell, and saieth. i. Tim iiii. Thesprete speaketh euidently, that in the later tymes some shall de∣parte from the faith, and shall geue hede •…•…o di∣sceatfull spretes & to deuelish doctrines: thorow them that are lyers in ypocrisie, and haue theyr conscyences marcked with an whot yerne, for∣bidding to mary. &c. Therfore foloweth it that the doctryne which doth set forth and knowlege wedloke to be holy, honorable, profitable, ne∣cessary and good, is gods doctrine, euen true and good, holy, and vndefyled.

The. x. Capter.

¶ How shamefull, vycious and abhomina∣ble, the synne of whordome i•…•….

ANd to the entent that the praise honour goodnesse & cōmēdacion of holy wedlock may the more clearly appeare, I will now set whordome ryght ouer agaynste it on the other

fyde, and declare how shamefull, vycious, & ab∣hominable it is before god & all honestye: That youth may loue the honoure of god, and auoyde dishonesty: & y^• euery one may eschewe vycious whordome, and betake hym to holy wedlocke.

Paul the chosen man of god writeth thus to the Corinthiās: Flye from whor•…•…ome. All the * 1.65 synnes that a man doth, are without his bodye but who so committeth whordome, synnethe a∣gaynst his owne body. And immediately afore the sayd wordes, he expressethe the vnderstōding of this sētence, & sayeth. Know ye not that your bodies are the membres of Christ? Shall I than take Christes membres, & make them the mem∣bres of an harlot? God forbyd. Paul then whā he spake those wordes (All the synnes that a mā dothe, et c.) had repsecte vnto wedlocke. For lyke as wedlok maketh of two personnes or bodies, one personne and one bodye. Euen so lykewyse * 1.66 the spirituall mariage, namely the receauynge of gods grace, in that we are baptysed īto christ and become Christen maketh one body betwene Christ and vs beleuers, so that we be called and are in dede Christes membres. Nowe lyke as he y^• is maried (yf he take another besyde his wife dothe synne agaynste his owne body: Euen so lykewise doth that Christen mā synne agaynste his owne body, yf he commytte whordome. For

he dishonoureth the grace of Christ, & defylethe the holy couenaunt made betwene: Christ and him. For it foloweth in Paule: Knowe ye not, that he which ioyneth himself to an harlot, is be come oue body For they two sayth the lord shall be one flesh, or one bodye. But who so cleuethe vnto the lorde, is one spyrite. Neuertheles tho∣row whordome is the sprete banished and exclu∣ded. For thy sprete, herte and mynd that ought to •…•…leue vnto y^• lord, is ioyned to y^e harlot, withe whom thou art one and incorporated Therfore they that cōmytte whordome, do synne agaynst the couenaunt and spirituall mariage, where with we must be ioyned vnto Christ.

Furthermore it foloweth in Paul: Or know * 1.67 ye not, that your bodyes shuld be the tēple of the holy goost, which is in you whō ye haue of god, & y^• ye are not in your awne power? For ye are dearly bought. Wherof it foloweth constantly that they which commytte whordome, do disho∣noure and waist away theyr owne bodyes. For they geue ouer theyr mēbres, yee theyr hert and mynd vnto whordome: And yet Christ for his * 1.68 honoure & our clenlynesse dyd bye the san•…•…e, and that not with mony, but with his owne bloud. It foloweth also, that they which are geuen vn∣to whordome, be vnder the great plage of god. For Paul saith here, that Christē mens bodies

are the tēple of god the holy goost. Thus saleth * 1.69 he. i. Cori. iii. yf any mā defyle the tēple of god, him shall god destroye. Is it not an horryble de∣fylynge of gods tēple, to set that vycious harlo•…•… Wenus, euē in the place where god shuld reigne with his sprete, & to be ioyned & do seruice vnto her with body & soule? Let them come forth now * 1.70 that wyll alwaye excuse syngle fornicacion, as though it were not synne (or at the leest not so greate syn) one syngle person to abuse another. Paul the Apostle of Christ saieth, that whor∣dome deuydeth vs from God, breaketh the coue∣n•…•…unt which we haue wyth God, spoyleth and robbeth god of that which is his, mysordreth the m•…•…s of god, maket of christes mēbres y^e mem b•…•… of an haclotte, defyleth and vnhaloweth the tēple of god, thē therfore that wyll folow whor∣dom•…•…, shal god destroye. Yf all this be to be este∣med but a small thinge, then do I confesse, that whoredome and fornicacion is euen as lytle a synne, as vy•…•…ious vayne people do make it.

It is more then ones also, that Paul him selfe * 1.71 shutteth whormongers out of heauen, who so beleueth not my wordes, let him reade. Rom. i. i. Co•…•…. v. and. vi, Gala. v. Ephe. v. i. Tess. iiii. To the Hebrues he saieth planely, that as for whoremongers & aduoutrers, God wyll iudge them. What can be more sayde? Yf thou not

wythstondyng all this, wylt yet say, that whor∣dome or fornicacion is no synne, then cryeth the holy Prophet Esaye that horrible woo vpō the and sayth, Esaye. capit. Woo vnto you that call euel, good. Or do ye not knowe, that euen nowe in this tyme, God doth sore punysh whordome as a great vice: Paule sayth. i. Corin. x. Lette vs not cōmitte whoredome, as some of them of olde dyd, & were destroyed in one daye a great nōbre. It is euident what slaunder & dishonour, Sam∣son brought vnto hym selfe, specially to the glory & name of God among Gods enemies & hys, & among all the children of Israel w^t his bolde and vicious whoredome, & howe shamefull an ende he made by the means of the same harlot.

In the fyfth of the Prouerbes of Salomon saye after this maner: The lyppes of an harlot * 1.72 are as aswete droppynge hony combe, and her throte is softer then oyle: but her end is bitterer then death, & as sharpe as a two edged swearde. Her feete lead vnto deathe, & her pathe drawethe vnto hell. Therfore se that thou go not in vnto her, nether draw nygh to the dores of her house, lest straungers haue thy substaunce, and left the cruell gette thyne encreace. Wythe fewe wordes both Salomon describe the shorte and swete dis∣ceatfulnesse of whoredome, which yet leaueth be hynd it a perpetuall vytternes, and brefely he she

weth, howe that whoredome destroyeth in soule, in honoure, in body and in good. As for ensam∣ples, we nede not to sette forthe any there are to many before oure eyes, the more pitie. The sto∣ries * 1.73 do testify, that the Frenche pockes came of an harlot into the worlde thorowe whoredome. Howe many a man hath consumed all his sub∣staunce & goodes wyth harlottes, and at the last hath ben hanged, drowned or headed? &c.

Yet go the shamelesse harlots forth styll into * 1.74 theyr owne perdicion, vice & abhominaciō, yea & vnder take to blaspheme wedlocke, & somwhat to excuse theyr owne mischefe. Therfore talke they of muche trouble that is in wedlocke. And as for theyr whorysh lyfe, it is nothyng elles but open vyce & abhominacion before God and all honest people. Fylthy is fylthynes styll, althoughe the fylthy swyne delyte therin, They speke much of euyll wyues, which whan some men had taken, they coulde not be ryd of them wythe any fayre means. And yet can they not leaue theyr vayne crafty & vnfaythfull harlottes, of whō they thē selues are mocked, and scorned to the vttermost yea & are fayne to suffer more of suche vicious & fylthy bodyes, than any man doth of his honest wyfe. They speake much lykewyse of bryngyng vp of chyldrē which are borne in wedlocke. And yet they them selues in whoredome are fayne to

brynge vp the bastardes that they haue gotten, lyke as afore tyme they were wont to bylde mā∣met houses & felde Chapelles, wythe collections and gatherynges of euery man.

They speake of muche trauayle and careful∣nes, * 1.75 howe the housholde must be brought vp and prouided for in wedlocke. And yet the dotynge fooles them selues are fayne to nomysshe those shamefull harlottes wythe muche greater care, and yet be afrayed, that whan they haue done theyr best, the gredy sacke wyll not be fylled, and that the fylthy strompette wyll yet brynge forth a greater rekenynge vpon thy trencher, and all to get the bagge of money into her owne hādes. Moreouer among whores is waystyng and ex∣penses * 1.76 moost regarded, nether art thou welcome but thy money. No more money, no more loue. I must haue the money & purse, sayth the harlot take thou thy cloke and thy baggage. Lette ano∣ther come that hathe more money, for he hathe bene in the bath, and is dispatched. Thus maye he byte hys lyppes and cratch his pate, and take that for his farewel that he getteth of hisharlot.

They complayne moreouer of the cryeng of the chyldren in the nyghtes, and how that mari ed folkes can not stepe, but must watche by the means therof. And yet the dotynge fooles them selues go all the nyght long vp and downe tho∣row

the stretes, & kepe the dyuels watche, wythe paynefulnes, frost and vnrest. Let no reasona∣ble manne therfore be snared styll in whordome by such harlottes, to the slaunder & dishonoure of holy wedlocke. Whoredome (no doubte) ha•…•…he muche more disquietnes, anguyshe and trouble, then hath the holy state of maryage. The payne also that is in marryage, is godly and honest. God gyuethe suche pacience, strength and good wyll vnto the faythfull, that they canne easely a∣waye wythe all manner of con•…•…gale cares. As for harlottes, they are the dyuelles martyrs, and haue alwaye dishonour and shame.

Where as certayne men saye: if whoredome * 1.77 be so great a synne before God, & bryng so much vice and mischiefe wyth it, why do some hyghe rulers and prelates of the world thē mayntayne open stewes: To that I answere: Many thyn∣ges are suffered, that ought not so to be, and yet for suffryng therof are the suffrers neuer the bet ter. But let those prelates & regētes of the world make aunswere vnto God for theyr owne acte. God hathe commaunded the and vs all: Thou shalte not commit whoredome. Let euery Chri∣sten man followe him, what so euer other folkes suffer or do. The holy Apostie Paul sayth: Let neyther whoredome nor any vnclennesse be once named among you, as it becommeth Sayntes.

Ephe. v. Chap. Now yf amonge Christen folke as an holy people that is clensed thorowe the bloud of Christ there may no whordome be na med, much lesse no doubte ought vycious ste∣wes to be set vp and openly mainteyned, for a playne shame is it and a manifest confusion. Let them therfore that maynteyne such shame∣full houses, looke well to themselues, how and what answere they will geue vnto God for this their acte.

They that saye they are suffred for auoyding of greater incōuenience, let them considre whe∣ther, they meane to put awaye a worse thinge with an euell, be a meane that is comely and pleasing vnto god? or whether God hath at any tyme commaunded or geuen lycence, to suffre and maynteyne open and shameles whordome, that virgins maye be the lesse forced & defloured or that yet worse thinges be not commytted of wilfull persones? Paulsaieth. Thou ought st∣not to do euil, that therof might come good ex∣cept thou wilt be dampned iustely. Roma iii We fynde daylye by experience, that the same way helpeth not, & that there are whore houses and in the meane season the worse thinge, not eschued, And therfore euell with euell, and vyce with vyce do runne together, so that abomina∣cion and myschefe preuayleth. Wherfore let

euery reasonable Christen man ceasse now from vyce, braule who so list: yf thou wilt do that god cōmaundeth the, & the thing wherof thou mayst haur worshippe & welfare in the sight of God & honest people, then medle not with harlottes, •…•…ether come at the stewes. Mayntayne thē not and vse them not. But to auoyde whoredome, let euery man haue hys owne wyfe and euery woman hir owne husband.

Yee but it is not mete for euery man to mary Many poore mariages make many beggers. * 1.78 Ther is no man compelled to mary, nether yet afore the tyme, nor whan thou hast not a conue nient cause therto. Onely yf it be not mete for the to be vertuous, it shall be no vyceous thinge to mary. Now yf thou thinkest it wyll not fra∣me with the to mary, then leaue thine whordo∣me * 1.79 also. And then we are agreed. For goddes sake man, kepe thy selfe honeste, sober, pure and cleane, vntyll the tyme that it be mete and expe∣dient for the to mary. Thou wilt say: Halas we are but flesh and bloud. Iaūswere: were not our fore fathers flesh & bloud also? dyd they therfore continue stil in child hode? Or haūted they har∣lotrye in the meane time? Beholde the example of Isaac, Iacob, Ioseph and other excellent men, which maried not tyll they were of a good & per fecte age, and yet neuertheles spent theyr youth

vertuously in clenlynesse of lyfe. Therfore shulde oure youth feare God lyke wise as they dyd, haue Gods commaundement before theyr eyes, call vpon God for grace, auoyde ydlenesse & all that maye prouoke to an vnclenly lyuyng: but contrary wise, geue them selues •…•…o labour, and resyst manfully in tētacion. But nowe we fynd it other wise, for oure youth hath lytle re∣specte vnto god & his cōmauudementes, calleth not vpon God, goeth vp and downe ydle, haun∣teth euell company & dronkennesse, Hereof com∣meth it now that they can not refrayne, & they thinke that they must nedes folowe harlottes still, or els haue wiues, & yet can they nether la∣boure •…•…er get theyr lyuing. And thus came they to naught: therfore is it theyr owne vnthristy∣nesse and not holy wedlok that destroyeth the•…•…▪

Doth not the hauntyng of harlots make beg∣gers also? Whence come then suche swarmes of * 1.80 beggers & wretched pockye people: Euē of whor dome get they that mischefe for the most parte. And this doth no mā esteme ner considre. But whā a good vertuous yong man which is come to his age, doth honestly mary, then is the walet brought before him, to feare him, or els to with holde other mē frō holy wedloke, and to make thē cōtynue still in whordome. This •…•…ā the sotil de∣uell * 1.81 do. The rych, faithful & almighty God dyd

neuer fayle any mā, that seketh him in trewe ve * 1.82 leffe, that laboureth faith fully, and that is ver∣tuous and honest, Let nomā therfore besnared styl in synne. To be shorte, whordome with dra weth & separateth the mynd frō god, maketh vs to breake our couenaūte, dishonoureth the gra∣ce of God & mēbres of Christ, robbeth God of that which is his, vnhaloweth the tēple of god, & plucketh vs vtterly with sprete & flesh into the myre & into all fylthynesse, maketh vs of men, beastes defyleth body and soule, taketh frō vs all oure substaunce, honestie and good, shameth de stroyeth and caryeth to bell wyth wrechidnesse, misery & sorow. Contrary wise: wedlok delyue∣reth * 1.83 vs ones from all suche inconuenience. And therfore is it a myserable thynge, that all thys wyll not be consydred, and that yet also there be olde men, whiche esteme whordome to be no synne, and talke so lightly and wantonlye ther of before yong people, that youth beynge prouo∣ked for warde in their wicked purpose, are now the more hard harted and obstinate therin

Deare children, harken ye rather vnto Paul the electe seruaunt of god wiche speaketh out of * 1.84 the holy goost these wordes: Be ye sure, that no whormonger or vncleane personne hath in heri taunce in the kyngdome of Christ and of god. Be not disceaued wyth vayne wordes. For be∣cause

of such thynges commeth the wrath of god vpon the chyldren of vnbelefe. Marke this well, and remēber it. God wyll not regarde the wan∣ton and vile communicacion of such, so lyght as they make it. Wherfore yf ye wyl escape y^e wrath of God, then kepe your selues from whordome, and marry at your iust age.

¶ The. xi. Chapter.

How shamefull & wycked a thyng aduoutry is, and howe it hath of olde tyme bene puny∣shed hytherto.

ANd lyke as whordome hath euer ben takē for an abhominacion, among all honest people in y^e whole worlde, euē so haue they estemed aduoutry to be a thing much more sha∣mefull & vtterly to be abhorred: in so much that all vertuous rulers, yea & that euen among the Hethē haue punyshed it wyth y^e payne of death. * 1.85

Whā Abraham came wyth Sarai hys wyfe into Egypte, and the Egyptians thoughte that she had bene Abrahams sister, they toke her and brought her to the Courte vnto kyng Pharao. But the Lord punyshed Pharao & all his house wythe great plages, bycause of Sarai, and yet committed he no hurt with her, and that he dyd was done of ignoraunce. For whan he vnder∣stode that she was Abrahams wyfe, he sent for hym, and sayd? Why hast thou dealt thus with

me. Wherfore toldest thou not me, that she * 1.86 was thy wife? Why saydest thou vnto me, that she was thy syster? There hast thou thy wyfe, take her, & go thy waye. And seyng it is thus it maye well be considred, y^e God is much more dis pleased w^t thē that wyllyngly cōmit aduoutry.

In the twentyest Chapter it is written that * 1.87 at Gerar, Abimelech y^e kyng of the Philistines toke Abrahās wyfe, as Pharao had done before, and it appeared vnto the kyng in a dreame, and was sayde vnto hym: Beholde, thou arte but a dead man, because of the woman, whome thou haste taken, for she is another mans wyfe. And yet hadde Abimelech committed no actuall ded•…•… wythe her, no more thē Pharao had done afore. Therfore sayde God also afterwarde: yf thou doest not delyuer her agayne vuto Abraham, be sure, that thou shalte dye the death, and so shall all that thyne is. Dyd not God wyth these wor∣des declare manifestly, what sentence and iudge ment he hath gyuē vpō aduouterers? Wherfore Iosephe, whan he was prouoked of hys Lordes wyffe to accōplysh her wyll, sayd: My Lord hath cōmitted all thynges vnto me, sauyng the only, for thou arte hys maryed wyfe. Howe shoulde I then do so great hurte, and synne agenst God? Genesis. xxxix.

Iob saythe in the. xxxi. Chapter: yf my harte

hathe lusted after my neyghbours wyfe, or yf I haue layed wayte at his dores, than let my wife be another mans harlotte, and let other men lye wyth her. Herewyth doth Iob knowledge it to be reason, that he be measured wyth suche measure as he hath gyuen vnto other men. If he had bro∣ken his wedlocke, whyche thyng yet he dyd not, syth the punyshmēt of aduoutry is a meate that euery man can not chewe, let euery man consy∣dre by hym selfe, howe lothe another ma•…•… wolde be therof: & let hī not touch another mās wyfe, so shall his also not be medled wyth all. It follo∣weth in Iob: For this is a wyckednesse & synne that belongeth to the Iudge, yea a fyre it is that consumethe all togyther, and plucketh vppe all a mās substaunce by the rootes. With the whiche wordes Iob dothe knowledge, that aduoutrye is suche a vice and wickednesse, as partaynethe to the Iudge, that is to saye, oughte by ryght to be greuously punyshed of th•…•…m whiche be in autho rite (if they were not aduouterers thē selues) for it is a fyre that cōsinneth altogyther, both body honeste, and good: mynde, harte & welfare. And all this was exercysed & practised, afore the lawe was gyuen to the people of Israel by Moses.

And in the law doth God appoynt a certē pu * 1.88 nyshmēt for aduoutry amōg other trāsgressiōs •…•…nd sayth. Leui. xx. Who so cōmitteth aduoutry

with any mans wyfe, shall dye the death both y^• manne and the woman, because he hathe broken wedlocke with his neyghbours wyfe. And Deut xxii. is the same lawe recited agen, & confirmed.

Nether was aduoutry so sore punished amōg * 1.89 the people of Israel onely, but also the Heithen vsed mortall executious therof. Thys wyll I nowe declare oute of the histories & credible wri ters. Whā any of the Lepre•…•…ās were taken in ad uoutry, they were bounden, & caryed thre dayes thorowe the cite, & afterwarde (as longe as they lyued) were they despised, & with shame & cōfusi∣on, reputed as parsonnes desolate of all honeste. Among the Lo•…•…rēsiaus dyd Zalēcius forbyd ad * 1.90 uoutry vnder a great punyshment. The trans∣gressours caused he to haue both ther eies thrust oute. And whan his owne sonne was taken in aduoutrye, he badde them put oute hys one eye as Iudges & the tother dyd he hymselfe put oute as a father. In the dayes of our forefathers, the noble Germaynes (afore they came to Christen * 1.91 faythe the punyshmente of a woman that brake wedlocke, stode in the power and aucthorite of her husband. And at the lest he myght strype her oute of her clothes, thrust h•…•…r out of his house, & beat her openly with roddes in the Citie or tow ne, euen before her frendes. &c. as Cornelius Tacitus makethe mencion, who also wrytethe

these wordes: Among thē ther was none y^• laugh ed at y^e mysdede: & to defyle or be defyled, was na med among thē to be asmuch, as not to do accor ding to y^• course, maner & custome of the world.

Marke now well in how much better case they stode, then we, whiche laughe at all synne & vyce: yee all abhominacion, as fightinge, war∣rynge, whorehuntynge, wedlok breakinge, mas∣king mōmyng, to much drynking, excesse inea∣tinge, & all vnclennesse do we excuse with these wordes. It is y^• maner & comen course so to do now in the world. Opilius Ma•…•…rinius the em∣perour * 1.92 of Rome, vsed to punishe aduouterers with fyre For thē whō he found in aduoutrye, caused he to be bownd and to be burnte together quycke. This doth Iulius Copitolinus wryte of him. And amonge the Romaynes was ther a * 1.93 comen law (called lex Iulia), whiche wolde, that execuciō shuld be done vpō aduoutrers, with the swerd the same law stod in strēgth in s. Hieroms tyme, who wryteth, that a certayne yongeman and a maried wyfe, were iudged and put to exe∣cucion with the swearde because of aduoutry. And the same law (called lex Iulia, de stup 〈◊〉〈◊〉 adult, dyd the Christen Emperours receaue, & of Iustinyan it is appoynted, lib, iiii. Tit. xo•…•…i. de publicis iudiciis.

This allegacion concernyng the punishment

of aduoutry I am sure wyll many menne mar∣uayle * 1.94 at, and esteme it sore & vntollerable. But yf they wolde considre the matter ryght, settyng affeccion and euell custome asyde, and wold pō∣der well what aduoutry were, and what follo∣wethe it, they shoulde not wonder so sore at •…•…he punyshment. Aduoutry is a destrucciō and hye * 1.95 dishonour of the ordinaunce of God, a wycked∣nesse growen out of the dyuell and ydlenesse of the fleshe, a shamefull vnfaythfulnes, a wylfull truce breaking and periury. And that this is so, maye euery man considre by the Chapters go∣ynge afore. Wedlocke is the ordinaunce of god, * 1.96 in the which both y^e parties ought so to be knyt the one vnto the other, that they be not deuided, Paule sayth also, that aduoutry is a worcke of the flesh. Notwythstandyng, manifest it is that maried parsonnes at theyr entraūce do make a perpetuall couenaunt, and there callynge vpon God, & takyng hym to recorde before y^e whole cō gregacion, they promyse trouth and sayth wyth * 1.97 mouth & hand the one to the other: &c. Nowe yf it be but a smale trespasse to dissemble, to breake to destroye & to tread vnder foote all this to for sweare trouth geuē before god & the church & no thynge to regarde honoste and fayth, thē must I nedes cōfesse, that the punyshment of aduoutry was to rygorous in the olde tyme. But yf it be

a •…•…ust thing, ernestly to punishe vnfaythfull per •…•…ury, the despysing and contemnyng of god and all honestie, then is also the punishment of ad∣noutrye right equall and not to sore.

Item, Yf the losse of a good thinge shoulde be valued after the estimacion of the owner, then (as touching this life, ther is no greater dāma∣ge, then a man to lose his owne body. Now is it certaine, that both the parties maried, are but one body, and that (as Paul saieth) the husband hath no power of his owne body, but the wife, nether hath the wife power of hir awne body, but the husband. Wherfore who so committeth aduoutry, the same taketh awaye, stealeth and robbethe the other of hys awne body, euen hys pryncypall and best good. Or what honest per∣sonne had not rather fynd a thefe stealynge his treasure & rather to suffre the losse of y^e goodes thē to fynd an aduouterer by his maried spou∣se, and to reape dishonoure in her.

Both these vyces therfore theft and aduou∣trye, * 1.98 doth Salomon in the si•…•…te of the Prouer∣bes laye vpon the balaunce the one agaynste the other, and sheweth how that aduoutrye is the sorer and more tedyous, sayenge: A thefe is not vtterly despysed, that whan he is hongrye, stea∣leth to fede himselfe, for whan he is taken, he must restore seuen tymes asmuche, or els all his

substaūce. But he that is so farre out of reason as to breake wedloke with another mans wife, both eyther destroye him selfe, or els getteth him selfe strypes and shame, which shame maye ne∣uer be wyped out. For the wrath of gelousye and of the husband (yf he haue tyme to reuenge) wyll not be intreated: he wyll not be persuaded with prayer, yee though thou geuest him rewardes he wyll not receaue them. This comparison doth euery man vnderstond. For though a mās good be stolen, yet yf it be restored him agayne with∣out hurt, he wilbe intreated, for as much as it was done (happelye (thorow pouerte. But yf a mā take his wife in aduoutry, he will not be pa cified. For it is a very beestly and wicked thing.

More ouer, yf a man take a thefe with the de mayner yet hath he no power to auenge him sel fe & to slaye y^e thefe: But yf a man fynde an ad uoutrer at the dede doyng, he maye be auenged. And though he do wound, slea or kyll the ad∣uoutrer & the aduoutresse: yet shal he not be pu∣nished for the death of them. Out of all whiche wordes euery mā may planely vnderstōd what vyce is most greuous before god & before all in∣different iudges. Before these wordes also, saieth Salomon: Maye a man take fyre in his bosome, and his clothes not be brent? Or cā one go vpon whotecoles, and his fete not be hurte▪

euen so, who so euer goeth into hys neyghbours wyfe, and toucheth her, can not remayne vndefi led. Wherby he declareth furthermore the daun∣ger and greatnesse of this vice, threatenyng thē that thyncke (lyke fooles) to kepe theyr aduoutry * 1.99 secrete, and that they shal neuer be taken and pu nysshed.

It seruethe to our purpose, that thorowe ad∣uoutry, * 1.100 great enheritaunces are altered, and the ryght heyres disher•…•…ted For oft tymes it fortu∣neth, that an aduoutresse hath children by an ad uoutrer, & then must the sayd chyldren enherite all the substaunce of theyr pretenced father, as lawfull chyldren, which yet are vnlawfull, wher by the father leseth his honour, hys kynred, hys body & goodes. His wyfe, which is hys owne bo∣dy, hath the aduouterer defyled, & the vnlawfull childrē take y^e goodes awaye. If this be not great wrong and wyckednes, then wote not I what a mā maye affirme to be vicious inough: therfore * 1.101 though aduoutry be horrible both in men & wo∣men, yet in womē it is moost hurtfull & detesta∣ble. For besydes that the aduoutresse alter•…•…th the inheritaūce (as I sayd before) and with false pro mises & shamefull disceate, withdraweth & stea∣leth it from the ryght heyres, she ladeth fyrst her honest poore husbande wyth great shame, great trauayle, laboure, sorowe and payne, in that he

•…•…is fayne to bryng vp those aduouterous chyldrē which are not his awne.

Moreouer, she dishonoureth her father, her mother & kynred: Her chyldren (euen those that are lawefull must be ashamed of her, & be doub∣ted of in the worlde, whether they be lawefully begotten or no. Th•…•…rfore whan they speake of theyr mother, or heare her named, they are abas∣shed and ashamed. Aduoutresses also make theyr husbandes to be despised and of no reputacion, although they be vertuous & honest men. They are the occasion, that folkes come ofte togyther, whyche are nye of kynred. These & suche lyke in * 1.102 numerable cōfusions, shame, hurte, dishonoure & fylthynesse, folowe out of abhominable aduou∣try. I passe ouer nowe the murthers, poysonyn∣ges, 〈◊〉〈◊〉, māslaughters, battayls, & warres, that haue ensewed after aduoutrye, & destroyed both countreyes & people. This dyd the aunciēt & noble men of olde, pondre and considre, & ther∣fore ryghteously & of iust occasions appoynted they the punyshment of deathe for aduouterers.

Yet wyll we heare howe aduouterers excuse * 1.103 theyr owne vice, & pondre howe reasonably they go to worke. They saye: Though God haue for bydden aduoutry vnder the payne of deathe, yet is the same punyshment not executed, perfour∣med or practised. For in no place appearethe it,

that aduoutrers were put to death. For Dauid was an aduoutrer, & yet receaued he no punysh∣ment therfore, yea the Lord Christ hymselfe dyd abrogate & dissolue y^• punyshment of aduoutry, for asmuche as he commaunded not the woman (taken in aduoutry) to be put to deathe, but b•…•…d her go her waye. For whan no man had condē∣ned her, he also let her go. Ioan. viii.

To that I aunswere: God in hys lawe hath once expressed, howe he estemeth aduoutry, and how he wyl haue it punyshed. Nowe yf mē haue not done Gods cōmaundement & accordinge to the same, then is it neuer the better: yet endureth the lawe of God vnmoueable and sure. Neuer∣thelesse * 1.104 they of the olde tyme dyd punysh aduou∣try wyth the payne of death, as it is sufficiently proued afore oute of the stories. The obiection therfore that aduouterers make, is but vayne. Nowe thoughe all sentēces & iudgemētes y^e haue bene executed and practised because of aduoutry stonde not in holye scripture, it is no maruayle. For the Byble is not a register of vnthriftes & of suche, as for theyr wyck•…•…dnes haue bene putte to execu•…•…ion. Or is it not euident ynough vnto you, howe it was lyke to haue gone wythe Su∣sanna? * 1.105 Dauid committed aduoutrye once in his lyfe, which drewe hym also and brought him into great murther, so that he caused not onely

his faythfull seruaunt Uria, but other noble mē lykewyse to be slayne. Beholde what occasion aduoutry gyueth? What cometh of it? Trueth it is, he was not stonned to deathe. But what chaunsed vnto hym? Euen as he had dishonou∣red another mannes chylde, so sawe he shame v∣pon hys owne chyldren whyle he lyued & that with great wretchednesse. For Amnon deflou∣red Thamar hys owne naturall syster. And they both were Dauids chyldren. Yea Absolom dyd miserably slaye Amnon his brother, for cō∣mittyng that wyckednesse wyth his syster Tha mar. Not longe after, dyd the same Absalō driue his owne naturall father Dauid out of his Re¦alme, & shamefully laye with his fathers wifes. Wherevpon there followethe an horrible great slaughter, in the whyche Absalom was slayne, wyth many thousandes moo of the comon peo∣ple Nowe lette euery man ponder w•…•…ll by hym∣selfe, whether it be not a lesse thyng, once to med¦dle, and so to haue execuciō & dye: then to abyde the death of so many, and that so longe, wythe suche misery and sorowe. Therfore was Da∣uid sorer punyshed, than if he had bene but once stoned vn to deathe. And lette euery man learne hereby, that no mā can escape the hand of God, althoughe the worlde laye no hande vpon hym, God punysheth neuerthelesse, yea & that muche

sorer, whan he doth not here, but differreth it in∣to another worlde.

Wher as they make Christ y^e Lorde a mayn∣t•…•…yned of aduouterers, it is playne and euident * 1.106 shame. Christ neuer gauelibertye vnto synne. For he sayth: I am not come to breake the lawe but to fulfyl it. Paule also sayth: To the righte ous is ther no law giuen, but vnto the vnrighte ous and disobedient, to whoremongers, to per∣iure•…•… personnes, to lyers and blasphemers. And to the Galathians he saythe: Walke ye in the spirite, so are ye not vnder the lawe. Therfore for asmuche as aduouterers do walke in y^e flesh and not in the spirite, they are vnder the law, ne ther hath the Lorde taken the lawe and punyshe ment from them.

Moreouer, as touching the story. Ioh. viii. we must considre that the Lord sayd vnto the wife: woman, hath no man cōdemned the: And whan she had sayd, no man, he answered: Nether do I condemne the. For wyth this answere layed he before her the sentence of the Iudges. And for as muche as he was not come now to gyue sen∣tence as a Iudge, but to saue, he wolde not con∣demne her, and so medled nether wyth the lawe nor the acte. The Lord was come nowe to haue mercy vpon synners, and to call them to repen∣taunce. Therfore sayd he also vnto this womā:

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Go thy waye, and synne no more. And wythe * 1.107 these wordes doth the Lorde warne all suche as are tangled wyth aduoutry, to cease from hens∣forth and to amende. God happely maye haue mercy vpon them, & take from them the shame, dishonour, payne and punyshment, whiche they haue greatly deserued. For God hath no delyte in the destruccion of a poore synner, but wyl ra∣ther that they cōuerte & lyue. But yfye wyl not turne, yf ye wyll nedes be styffenecked and styll set forth youre shamelles foreheades, then verely doth God watche ouer youer wyckednes, & saith Hieremy. v. In the desyre of vnclenly lust, they are becomel yke olde stallādes: euery one neyeth at his neyghboures wyfe: Shulde not I punysh this? Wherfore ye aduouterers, looke for none other, but God wyll plage you for shamelesse actes of wickednes & whoredome. For abhomi∣nacion, vice, periury, and shameful matters are they, that ye go about wythall.

¶ The. xii. Chapter.

•…•…ow one that entēdeth to mary, shulde chose a mete, honest, and vertuous mate.

ANd hytherto haue I declared whence wed locke cōmethe, who dyd institute it, what it is, how it ought orderly to be contrac∣ted, what be the occasions end and vertue ther∣of. Item howe holy, profitable and good it is.

Agayne, howe horrible, noysome and shamefull whoredome and aduoutry is. But forasmuche as in the occasions of wedlocke it is mencioned how y^• wedlocke was ordined of God, to the in∣tent that maryed folkes shulde spend theyr lyfe in y^• mutuall participaciō of al such thinges as God sendeth, y^• they may bryng forth chyldrē, or they maye auoyd whordome, or for the eschew•…•…∣ynge of perellous, solenes, that the one maye be a conforte and helpe to the other accordyng to y^• wyll of GOD: And for asmuche also as in the meane season there lyethe great importaunce, & wayght vpon it, what manner of companion & mate thou chosest, how thou mayest lyue wythe hym, and (yf God gyue the chyldren) howe thou mayest bryng them vp. Therfore in thys parte of •…•…y boke followyng, I wyl treate how a mete honest and vertuous spouse ought to be chosen. Afterwarde, howe they ought on both the sydes to lyue well and ryght togyther, to hepe and in∣creace the mutuall loue and trouth of mariage, and fynally howe they muste well & vertuously bryng vp theyr chyldren.

For who so coupleth hymselfe wyth braul•…•…g * 1.108 folkes, & cōmeth to disquietnes, maye not com∣playne therof. Why lefce he not such cōtencious persons wythout his house? Who so nowe wyll haue a peaceable mariage, must not chose him a

restlesse mate. He that wyll plante any thynge, * 1.109 doth fyrst considre the nature of the ground, in the whiche he entendeth to plante. Muche more shuldest thou haue respecte to the condicions of thy spouse, oute of whome thou desyrest to plant chyldren, the frute of honeste and welfare. And lyke as plantynge and carefulnesse hathe great power in al growyng thinges: so hath it greater vertue and strength, yea and better frute in the diligent bryngynge vp of chyldren. Where as mariages and chyldrē do sometyme prosper euel the greatest cause therof, is the faulte in chosyng the partie, and in the chyldrens bryngynge vp. Nowe where as we fayle in this behalf, it com∣meth either of our owne fonde affeccion whiche we folow, and are seduced therby, or els cōmeth it of ignoraūce, as whan folkes wotte not wher vnto they ought to haue respecte, or howe to do in the cause. And seyng that in these poyntes stō deth the makyng and marrynge of wedlocke, I wyll fyrst note in fewe wordes the moost neces∣sary thyng that maye be spokē hereof: And fyrst wyll I speake of the chosyng of a spouse.

The chosynge, is a receauyng or acceptynge * 1.110 of suche thynges as we thynke are mete for our ende and purpose. Therfore euery election hath a finall respecte, that it is directed vnto. For as much now as our talkynge here, is of the elecciō

of a spouse, we must reduce to our remembrāce, the ende of wedlocke, that is to saye, the causes, why and wherfore it is contracted. Nowe haue * 1.111 we heard afore, that the causes why it was orde ned▪ and wherfore it is to be receaued of y^e two parsonnes, are these, euen to the intent that they shall cōtinually dwell togyther, and spende theyr lyfe in the mutuall participaciō of all such thyn ges as God sendeth, that they maye bryng forth chyldren, or that they maye auoyde whoredome, (for the eschewyng of per•…•…llous solitarines) that the one maye be a conforte a•…•…d healpe to y^e other accordyng to the wyll of God.

Therfore thou that wylte chose, muste haue respecte vnto these aforesayde poyntes, as to the finall ende & marke, set before the, & must proue wheth•…•…r the parsonne, whome thou thynkest to •…•…oyne vnto thy selfe, haue these poyntes, whyche thou hast heard now recyted. And the same shalt thou well proue, if thou note diligently the ryt∣ches that are in man, of the whych I wyll nowe speake.

Thre manner of rytch•…•… •…•…re therin man, the * 1.112 rytches of the mynde, of the body, and of tempo∣rall substaunce. The best & moost precious are the ritches of the mynde, as they without which the other two are more hurteful then profitable. The rytches of the mynde are, the feare of God,

faythe, gods glory, gods seruyce, vnderstandyng * 1.113 or knowlege, prudēce, trueth, sobernes, righteous nes, liberalite, chastite, humblenesse, honesty and nourtoure, synglenesse and diligence: and suche lyke vertues. These lye not styll, neyther hyde them selues, wher so euer they be, but breake out diuerse wayes, so that they maye well be spyed, but specially in talkynge. For our Lorde Christ dyd say: Out of the abundance of the harte spea keth the mouth. They of the olde tyme sayd, that a mannes talkyng is the myrrour & messanger * 1.114 of the mynd, in the whiche it maye be sene with∣out, in what case the man is wythin. Therfore who so wyll knowe and haue experience howe a * 1.115 mans mynde standethe, let hym diligently note his communicacion, whether it be ioyned w^t the feare of God, manerly, true, earnest honest, sted fast, and reasonable, or whether it be churlyshe & vngodly, nyce, vayneglorious, fayned, ful of wor des vnstedfast, vnhonest, vnreasonable and ioy∣ned wyth lyghtenesse. And of these fruytes than shalt thou know the tree and roote of the harte. And thoughe ypocrisy vse much disceate in tal∣kyng, yet canne no ypocrite go alwaye so crafte∣ly, but he shall sometyme stomble and bewray hym selfe.

But for the more suertye, it is good for the •…•…ot only to marke his communicacion, but also

other gestures & maners, howe the mā nowe be∣hauethe hymselfe, howe he hathe done hytherto, * 1.116 what name and fame he hath had, and yet hath, what opinion otherwyse, and honest men haue of hym, howe he behaueth hymselfe in stondyng and goyng, & in all the partes of his body, what rayment he vseth, whether it be vayne, whorysh, * 1.117 wanton, lyghte, or mannerly and accordynge to his estate, reputacion and power, that is to saye, honest rayment. For rayment doth ofte giue cer tayne and sure testimony of pryde, lyghtenesse, wantonnesse, inconstancy, vnshamefastnesse, boastyng and of fylthynesse or vnclennesse, and other vices or vertues that are in mā. So maye * 1.118 much be spyedalso, by the company and pastyme that he vseth. For a man is for the moost parte condicioned euen lyke vnto them that he kepeth company wythe all. We se that among beastes wylde and tame, lyke wyll to lyke. The educa∣tion * 1.119 also gyuethe great testimonye, namely by whome, & how euery one is brought vp, whether it were among vertuous parsons or euell, whe∣ther the partie hathe continued in the nurtoure of the vertuous, & shewed hymselfe obedient, or whether he hath broke out of his disciplyne, and followed hys owne wylfulnesse. For it is but a smale matter for the to haue dwelte among ver∣tuous men, but rather herein lyeth the wayght,

howe farre & howe much thou hast folowed thē, & bene obedient vnto them. Iudas was amonge the Apostles, brought vp of the Lord Christ, but for all that was he neuer the better. For he lefte not his wicked pran•…•…es, nether was he obediēt.

Thorowe the occasion of all these thynges, & other lyke appartaynyng to the same, oughte euery one to discerne the parsonne, whome he * 1.120 hathe chosen to take to marriage, and to se that she be endewed with the sayd rytches of y^• mynd and that to his purpose she be ryghte, peaceable, honest, mete and conuenient for hym to lyue w^t all in wedlocke, as it besemethe, and as GOD hath iustituted. For lyke as in the mynde there are suche vertues as we haue spoken of, so are * 1.121 there in it also noysome wycked vices and des∣traccions, as vngodlynes, despysyng of Goddes worde, mysbelefe, ydolatry, Ma•…•…etrye, igno∣raunce, churlyshnes, lyeng, falsehood, ypocrisy, vnryghteousnesse, backebytyng, mistemperaūce, dronkennesse, couetousnesse, vnchastite, vnsha∣mefastnesse, mysnurtoure, rashnesse, furyouse wantonnesse, pryde, presumpcion, vayneglorye, •…•…hydyng, brawlyng, and vnhandsomnesse. Who so nowe chosethe hym a mate that is tangled w^t suche noysome vices, seakethe not a spouse for a ryght peaceable and good honest lyfe, but a•…•… hell a paynfulnes, a destrucciō of all expedient•…•… ver∣tuous

lyuyng. Specially there is lytle good to be looked for, where as is vngodlynesse and des∣pysyng of Goddes worde.

For lyke as the feare of God draweth y^e who * 1.122 le garland of •…•…ertues wyth it, so bryngethe vn∣godlynesse all vice and abhominacion, •…•…ea and shutteth vp the waye to amendement. For who so wyll not heare Gods worde, refuseth all good enfourmacion, and therfore is there no amend∣ment to be hoped for in hym. And where as is no shamefastnes, there dare the shamelesse per∣sonne * 1.123 do euery thyng that lykethe hym. Where lyeng, b•…•…astyng and lyghtnesse is, there can no certaynete be had, there stondethe all in doubte, * 1.124 what so euer is spoken and done. Where pryde is, there is also rashnes, wylfulnes, presumpciō, contempt, disdayne, murmuryng, and obstinate rebelliō: And where as suche be, there is nothing but brawlynge, chydynge, and neuer one g•…•…od houre. Wherfore he that wyll not lacke y^e ryght poyntes of marryage, and of a cōmodious lyfe, let hym haue respe•…•…te •…•…o the ryches of the mynd, and chose hym suche a parsonne, as is endewed of God wyth such rytches, and not with a noy∣some or frowarde mynde. * 1.125

After the rytches of the mynde, do the ritches of the bodye followe ne•…•…te, as is a bewtyfull or well fauoured body, health, a conuenient age &c.

A bewtiful body is such one, as is of right four∣me and shape, mete and of strength to beare chil dren, and to kepe an house, euen such a personne as thou canste fynde in thyne herte to loue, and to be content wythe all, &c. Of the bewty of the body (where there is els no good qualite besyde) * 1.126 sayth Salomon, Prouer. xxxi. As for fauoure it is deceatfull and transitory, and bewtye is a vayne thynge, but a woman that feareth god, is to be commended. And Prouerb. xi. A fayre wo∣man without discrete maners, is lyke a ryng of golde in a swynes snowte. Therfore are they all starke fooles, that in chosyng them wyues, looke only to theyr bewty, and regard not the rytches of the mynde. Afterwarde doth the same bewty turne them to disquietnes, to payne and trou∣ble.

Health also must be considred in the eleccion, lest thou with all that thou hast, perysh, and lest * 1.127 thy whole house be poysoned and hurte. Neuer∣theles I speake here of sore contagious syckenes∣ses, not of such dayly infirmitees and small di∣seases, that all menne are subdued vnto. But I spake of madnesse, frenesy, the fallyng syckenes, lamenes, leprosy, Frenche pockes, or suche lyke, whiche euery manne should greatly abhorre.

Notwythstondyng where maryed folkes, which * 1.128 now are togyther, be visited wyth suche diseases

then must suffre the one wyth the other as they that are in one body. As for the due and conueni ent age▪ we spake of it in the syxt Chapter.

To haue the goodes of temporall substaunce * 1.129 is to be borne of noble parentes, or to come of a worshypful stocke, to haue rytches, great offices gaynes, or occupienges, and such lyke. The hiest nobilite and moost worthy commēdacion, is to be noble in vertues, in good workes, manners and condicions. Who so dothe come also of no∣ble parentes, is the more to be reputed. But to * 1.130 be a gentle borne, and to vse hymselfe v•…•…gently is euen as muche as to shame hymselfe and his. There haue ben found many, whiche came of a lowe byrth, but they garnysshed theyr kynredde so wyth vertues and noble actes, that they and theyr stocke attayned to great prosperite. Ther are many this daye that come of famous hou∣ses & noble parentes, but they leane to muche to theyr byrthe, yea they are wylfull mynded, and thynke, that (because of theyr nobilite) they may do what they lyst, and that theyr doinges becom methe them well, and yet are they so noble (that, is, they so excell) in all vyce and abhominacion that they brynge them selues to dishonour, and to cōtempt and hatred of all men.

Let euery man therfore looke ernestly to this matter, lest any manne intendynge to haue the

golde, and catchyng the whotte cooles, do burne hy•…•…selfe wythout recure. For temporall goodes sake, the matter miscarieth and is in daunger. * 1.131 There is sometyme great rytches, but wyth ly∣tle honeste is it gathered togyther. And wythe the same rytches, wyll not be al waye prosperite, peace and rest. Many trust to theyr goodes, and nothyng wyll they learne, therfore also can they do nothyng but lyue deyntely, and wyth pryde, excesse and dishonesty, to wayst it awaye, that hathe bene long gathered togyther. Nowe whan * 1.132 there is all waye taken from the heape, and no thyng layd therto, it waysteth away in processe of tyme, howe great so euer it hathe bene. Then foloweth pouerte, yea an intollerable and vnpa¦•…•…ient pouerte. For they that nowe lasshe oute all togyther, haue had no necessite hytherto, but were in all wealth, therfore after suche a Sonne shyne, there commeth euer an intollerable heate, and thense forth begyn they to warme them sel∣ues at the bare leaues.

Who so nowe in his eleccion lookethe to the multitude of goodes, and not howe they were wonne, & whence they come, he hath accustoma∣bly suche a smoky hat set vpon his head, that all * 1.133 the water of Ryne can not wash away the soo•…•… therof. Good wythout God & honeste, is a dead¦ly poyson, & the bodely dyuell hymselfe. Goodes

and rytches is in y^• hand of an vndiscrete & igno raunt man, is as a sharpe knyfe in the hande of a chylde, that doth no good therwyth, but woun deth and destroyethe it selfe. Wherfore let euery mā in the elecciō, haue more respecte to discreciō & knowledge, thā to rytches. Moreouer an hand that is occupyed, & wynneth & getteth his lyuing godly and honestly, doth farre excell any rytches * 1.134 that are wonne. A rytche man which hath great goodes in hys hand, & yet hath learned nothyng wythall (and nothyng can learne) whan he once loseth hys substaunce and goodes, he can wynne no more, but commeth immediately to the staffe & wallet, As for suche one as hathe applyed hym * 1.135 selfe to learnyng, he is fytte to some office, he can and is able to occupy and laboure: and thoughe he once or twyse loseth that he hath, yet canne he wynne more agayne.

And though no mā wyth hys eleccion shulde * 1.136 haue speciall respecte vnto temporall substaunce yet ought no man to behaue hymselfe vncircum spectly, nether lyghtly to regarde honest prouisiō For lyke as out of great rytches there followeth pryde, euen so of pouertie there folowethe muche euell. Therfore is it not vnryghte, that thou 〈◊〉〈◊〉 thyne eleccion considre how thou mayst honest∣ly wynne thy breade, and wherof thou mayest lyue wyth thy spouse, and what thy spouses sub∣staunce

and occupyeng is, & howe the same may be an healpe to thy conuenient lyuynge. If thou nowe wylte not regarde the more excellent and better thynges, but haue onely respecte vnto the goodes, than marryest thou not the parson, but the goodes? Wherof if there be not so muche as thou wouldest fayne haue, or if it waste awaye, then farewell all the loue. For that loue whiche * 1.137 commethe thorowe rytches, beauty, or other lyke smale occasions, is euen as a fyre that is made of stra•…•… or tow: it groweth soone and is great, but streyghtewaye it vanysshethe. Euen so is that loue shortely extincte, which spryngeth not of durable occasions. If a fyre be made of whole stronge wood, it gyuethe a good naturall heate, lykewyse if thou in the eleccion of a spouse, haste respecte vnto y^e true, godly & honest poyntes, thē is the loue of so muche the longer continuaunce.

And to be shorte, let euery one wyth his elecci∣on, * 1.138 haue fyrst respecte vnto those poyntes, for y^e whiche wedlocke was ordeyned of God. Then whether the partie (whom thou arte mynded to chose) be reasonably endewed wythe all, or no. And to the intent that the same may well be per * 1.139 ceaued, let euery mā haue faythfull respecte here to the rytches of the mynde, whether the parson be godly, wyse, discrete, true, faythfull, honest, so ber, and louyng. Item whether she be whole and

sounde, and not laden wyth sore diseases, defor∣med, sluttysh. fylthy, euell fauoured, & what her estate is, what power and possibilite she is of, how, where, & with whom she hath ben brought vp, whervpon she lyueth, & what she occupyethe. how frutefull, handsome, houswyfely, laborious and quycke she is. If besyde these, thou fyndest other great rytches (bewty and suche gyftes) and comest godly & honestly by them, thou haste the more to thancke God for.

But specially and afore all other thynges, we must faythfully wyth feruentnesse and stedfast belefe (without ceasynge) make intercession and prayer vnto God, to whome all hartes are open and knowne, that he wyll not suffer vs to go a∣mysse, but as a father, healpe and guyde vs to a ryght mariage, in the whiche we maye lyue ho∣nestly and prosperously, euē as we ought to his honoure. For it is God onely that prouidethe the mariage, that hath the hartes in hys hande, and that gyuethe the wyll, as it is sayde in the Chapters afore. But lyke as in other poyntes & matters the ordinaūce of God doth not destroye lawfull instrumētes: Euen so here in this cause the institucion of God denyeth not the ordinate election, but in them that feare GOD they go both togyther.

Of this ordinaūce of God and ordinate elec∣cion,

we haue a very fayre example, Gene. xxiiii. * 1.140 where Abraham sent his seruaunt in hys messa ge, to get his sonne Isaac a wife in Mesopota∣mia. The same seruaunt begynneth his matter with prayer, & sayeth: O lord god of my master Abrahā, send me good spede this day, and shewe mercy vnto my master Abraham. Lo, I stonde here by y^• well of water (for he t•…•…yed there with his seruauntes and camels without the cyty by a welles syde, and the daughters of the menne of thys cytie wil come out and drawe water. Now the damsell to whome I saye, stoupe downe thy pitcher and lette me drincke, yf she saye, dryncke, and I wyl geue thy camels dryncke, therby wyll I know, that she is the same, whome thou haste ordeyned for thy seruaunt Isaac.

Beholde, in thys prayer doth Abrahams ser∣uaunt knowlege the ordinaunce of god, and that god onely prouydeth the mariage, and yet neuer theles he falleth to prayer, and vseth that meane. For it foloweth in the story, And it came to •…•…as that yer he hadde left speakynge, Rebecca came forth, & caryed a pitcher vpon her shulder, & she * 1.141 was a verye fayre damesell & vnblemisshed vir∣gyn, & came downe to the well to drawe water. Then ranne the seruaunt vnto her, and asked hir drynke, & she sayde: Drincke syr. And wyth that toke she downe her pitcher, and gaue hym

drincke. And whan he had droncken, she sayde: I wyll drawe water for thy camelles also, that they maye dryn•…•…e. And so she made haste, and poured water out of her pitcher into the trough and gaue the camels drynke: But the mā mar∣uayled at her, and marked her well, and hyld his tonge et cete. No doute, he hadde respecte to the * 1.142 ryches of the mynde and of the body, and percea ued that she was gentle, seruiseable, lowly, geuē to laboure, quycke in her busynesse, louynge to∣warde straūgers, that she was not my •…•…taughte or nycely brought vp, ner a hye mynded or deyn tye veast, but honeste and handsome. How she was condycyoned, coulde he not knowe better, then by such token. She was yet an vntouched virgin, and therfore also wel nourtoured and no nyce thynge.

Whan she commeth to the well she makethe no stoppe: ner bringeth a sorte of yong fellowes with her, nether standeth she gasyng and won∣dryng vpon the straunge man, but quyckely and straight goeth she her way, and tendeth her own busynesse. But assone as the olde honeste man (Abrahams seruaunt) speke vnto her, she shewe∣eth herselfe very curtuous and gentle. Full re∣uerently calleth she hym, syr master or lord and serueth him quickely, asketh no questions at him and makethe no moo wordes. These are righte

vertues, highely to be commended in a virgin. Morouer this damsell is praysed for her bew∣tye and fayrenesse of hir body, whiche was euen asmuch the more excellent, as she exceaded in ver tuous condicions.

Thou wilt saye, yee but where are the other gyftes of god and ryches of the mynd, as the fea re of GOD, true beleife, et cete? I answere.

The sayde vertues were not in her wythoute the fear of God and fayth. Abraham also had ta ken an ooth afore, of the same his seruaunte, af∣ter this maner. Thou shalt sweare by the lord of heauen & earth, that vnto my sonne thou shalt take no wyfe of the doughters of the Cananites among whom I dwel, but shalte go to my coun tre and kynrid, and thence bring him a wyfe.

The Cananites were corrupte and loste in * 1.143 theyr faythe and manners gyuen to Idolatrye and abhomynacyon, yet were they mighty and rytche. But they in Mesopotamia (whēce Abra ham was) feared God and were vertuous, not withstandyng they were not of lyke power and ritches. Neuertheles Abraham folowed after the feare of God, & therin leauethe he vs an en∣sample, that we all shulde be the gladder to haue God, then Mammō. And thus haste thou also, that in this mariage, there was great experien ceof fayth.

Whan the seruasit now had with sylēce con∣sydred the excellent giftes in the damesell he as∣keth her furthermore: whose doughter art thou? She aunswereth. I am the doughter of Bathuel and Nahor is graundfather. Then Abrahams seruaunt toke out a ryng of gold & other Iewels * 1.144 and gaue her them. For no vncomlye thynge is it to geue honeste presentes to honeste dame∣sels in the waye of honeste, and so to moue theyr myndes vnto the honour and loue of mariage. Els (or in other wise, & of suspecious personnes, ought honest damsels to take none. For it is no vntrueprouerbe: She that taketh the pedlers ware, must be fayne to haue the pedler himselfe also at the last. &c.

Moreouer, the seruaunt thought he wolde pro ue, how frendly, mercifull, harbarous, & faithful the damesell was, and sayd: Haue ye rowme in thy fathers house to lodge in? And she sayd vnto hym: We haue plenty of lytter and prouender, & rowme ynoughe to lodge in, yet because she wold not take much vpon her, she ranne in, and tolde her brother Laban the matter.

Who immediatelye made readye the stable, goeth forth to the well & bringeth the seruaunte into the house, and setteth meat before him But the seruaunt sayde: I will not eate, tyll I haue first done my earand. And so beganne, and tolde

how that hys master Abraham had one onelye * 1.145 sonne: how riche he was, and how he had sente him to Mesopotamia to get hys sonne a wyfe.

Then tolde he howe he made hys prayer vnto god, & came to the well, and how theyr doughter Rebecca came to the well also, how she behaued her selfe and what she dyd, by the vohych he vn∣derstode, that god had prouyd•…•…d theyr doughter for his masters sonne: So that now his request was, that they wold geue hym a fynall aunswe∣re, whether they could be cont•…•…t to mary theyr daughter to his masters sonne, or no. Where vpon the damsells father and brother aunswe∣red. Thys commeth euen of the Lorde, therfore wyll we not saye agaynst it▪ &c.

And thus out of the story we learne, that whā we haue made oure faythfull prayer vnto God, appoynted oure election ordynatelye, and vsed the other meanes, we must do oure errand vnto the parentes or tutours of the partye, and how and after what maner we ought to do it. The damesel also is enquyred what her wyll is, she consenteth, and ther wyth is the mariage conclu ded. Thus much I haue spokē cōcerning the chosynge of conuenient and mete spouse, and of the earand appertaynyng to the same.

Yet in thys thynge also must I warne euerye * 1.146 reasonable and honeste persone, to beware, that

in contractyng of maryage, they dyssemble not, ner set forth any lye, but rather vse trueth, & tell how euery thyng standeth. For they that lye and dyssemble, do afterward cause much displea∣sure amonge them that are disceaued. Let euery one remembre, how loth he wolde be to be discea∣ued hymselfe, and that it is comenly sayde: In mariage ought no man to be begyled.

Euery man lykewyse must esteme the parson to whom he is handfasted, none otherwyse, then * 1.147 for his owne spouse, though as yet it be not done in the church ner in the streate. For thus is it wrytten. Deut. xxii. yf a mayde be handfasted to an husband, and then a man fynde her, and lye wyth her, they shall both he caried out of the cytye, and stoned vnto death.

The. xiii. Chapter.

Of the weddyng.

ANd to the intēt that all incōueniēces for to come which myght afterward growe, eyther touchyng the goodes or the promy ses) maye cyrcumspectlye be preuented, therfore after y^• handfastynge & makyng of the contracte y^• church goyng & weddyng shuld not be differred to long, lest the wickedde sowe hys vngracyous sede in the meane season. Likewyse the weddinge

(& cohabitacion of y^e parties) ought to be begōne with God, & wyth the earnest prayer of y^t whole church or cōgregaciō. But into this dysh hath y^e dyuell put his foote, & myngled it wythe many wycked vses and custumes. For in some places ther is suche a maner, wel worthy to be rebuked that at the handefastyng, there is made a great feast & sup•…•…rfluous bācket, & euē the same nyght are the two hādfasted personnes brought & layed togyther, yea certen wekes afore they go to the chyrch. Which is nothyng els but a wycked lust, and a playne euidēce, y^t thou lytle regardest the blyssyng, euen as dyd Esau, & that in wedlocke thou sekest nothyng but caruall desyre.

Christ commaundethe vs, that fyrst before * 1.148 all thynges and in all thynges, we shal seake the kyngdome of God. And for asmuche as he hym selfe dyd openly couple the fyrste mariage togy∣ther, and blyssed both the parties, therfore the cō gregacion thorowe the ensample and spirite of God, hath ordeyned, that the parties shall open∣ly and before all thynges, come to the Chyrche, and there declare and confirme theyr marriage in the face of the chyrche, and of Gods minister receaue the blessyng, and committe them selues to the comon prayers of the congregacion, and enioye the same. This godly ordinaunce ought euery reasonable Christen man to prefer aboue

his owne fonde affeccion, and not fyrst to seake the bancket & the bed in his mariage, but Gods kyngdome, and then fyrst to be wedded & dwel to gyther in the name of God.

For in the sayde ordinaunce we must not on∣ly * 1.149 consither, and note the acte and example of God, but also those profitable and christen poyn tes followyng.

Fyrst, with this ordinaunce is it openly decla * 1.150 red in the syght of all the worlde, that it is God which knytteth the knot of mariage. For that the minister of the churche doth, that doeh he in the name & accordyng to the ensample of God.

Secondly with this ordinaunce is testimony gyuen, that wedlocke is honorable and pleasaūte * 1.151 vnto God, an holy worcke of the lyghte, and no foule worcke of darckenes. For the parties dare syghtly come into the open Churche (euen in the lyght) where Gods worckes onely are practised. As for the worckes of whoredome and dishone∣stye, that hyde them selfes in the darkenesse. It is sene also by the goyng to the churche, who ke∣pith house wyth God and honeste in wedlock•…•…, and who wyth the dyuell and shame in whore∣dome: Not only this, but also what they be, that among Christen people are to be suffered togy∣ther as honest personnes: and who, as harl•…•…ttes and vnthriftes, are to be expelled & dryuen from

asunder.

Thyrdly, in this ordinaūce is euery one war * 1.152 ned, faythfully to kepe his promyse, made and gi uen to his spouse, before God & the whole chyrch For if a man haue cause to be ashamed, whan he promiseth ought in y^e presence of honest peo∣ple, & kepeth it not: Much more ought aduoute∣rers to be ashamed, that breke theyr promyse, made before God and the congregacion.

Fourthly, God wyll gyue his blyssyng to thē that cōtracte wedlocke in the feare of hym, and * 1.153 that confirme it accordynge to his ordinaunce. Whych thyng the faythfull may assuredly loke for at hys hande Gene. i.

Fyftely, There is Goddes word declared and * 1.154 taught, how holy a thyng wedlocke is, how mar ryed folkes ought to behaue thē selues. &c. There euery man that is marryed already, is putte in mynde of his promyse, and they that sometyme lyue well in maryage, are called to repentaunce: lyke as they also that lead an honest lyfe, are cō∣fermed in all goodnes.

Syxtely. There is made a generall prayer of the whole congregacion in the name of Christ, * 1.155 for those newe maryed folkes, and for the whole state of matrimony. Now hath the Lorde promi sed, that where two or thre are gathered togy∣ther in hys name, he wyl be in the myddes amōg

thē: therfore is it wel to be hoped, that he wyll be much rather in such a whole congregaciōs, and heare theyr prayer: All these occasion cōsidred, let not the faythfull despyse Gods ordinaunce, but behaue them selues so, that diligē•…•…ly & afore all thynges, they seke the kyngdom of god, & take that in hand, which is honest profitable & good.

But the dyuell hath crept in her also, & t•…•…ogh * 1.156 he can not make the ordinaunce of goyng to the church to be vtterly omitted & despysed, yet is he thus mighty, & cā bring it to passe, that y^• or•…•…i∣naūce is nothyng regarded, but blemyshed with all manner of lyghtnes: In so muche that early in the mornyng the weddyng people begynne to •…•…xcead in superfluous eatyng & drinkyng, wher of they spytte vntyll the halfe sermon be done. And when they come to the preachynge, they are halfe droncke, some all togyther: therfore regard they neyther the p•…•…chyng nor prayer, but stond there onely because of the custome. Such folkes also do come to y^e church w^t all manner of pōpe & pride, & gorgiousnes of raymēt & Iewels. They come w^t a great noyse of Harpes, Lutes, kyttes, basens and drommes, wherwyth they trouble y^• whole church, & hyndre them in matters pertay∣nynge to GOD. They come into the Lordes house as it were īto an house of mar•…•…haūdyse to laye forth theyr wares & offer to sell them selues

vnto vyce and wickednesse. And euen as they come to the churche, so go they from the churche agayne, lyght, nyce, in shameful pompe and vai∣ne wantonesse. What thinkeste thou, faythefull man, that suche church goyng opteynethe before god? Uerely more indignacion and displeasure, then fauoure and grace.

Wherfore let all vertuous and honest people * 1.157 take here monicyon, to leaue such•…•… abuse, yee such synfull and vycyous church goynge, there as it is yet practysed: And let them take theyr ho nest kynsfolkes & neyghboures w^t thē, & in good season soberly discretely lowlye, as in the syghte of god, without pompe, manerly, and in comely honest rayment, without pryde, wythout drom∣myng & pypynge, let them go in to the house of the lorde, and there heare the lordes worde, make theyr faithful prayer vnto God with feruente∣nesse and stedfast beleyfe, receaue the blessynge, and then manerly and wyth sylence to go home agayne.

After the goyng to the church, is there no lesse inconuenience vsed amonge manye multitudes * 1.158 then in the church goynge. For whan they come home from the church, then begynneth e•…•…sse of eatyng and dryncking. As for the poore, they are out of remembraunce. And as much is waisted in one daye, as were sufficient for the two newe

maried folkes halfe a yeare to lyue vpon. The dayes of Noe, mencyoned in the Gospell, and the parable of the ritch man and Lazarus, haue there rowme ynoughe. Let euery man loke, that with such excesse: he praye not also with the rych man in the pitte of hel. * 1.159

After the bancket and feast, there begynnethe a vayne, madde, and vnmanerlye fashiō. For the bryde must be brought into an open dauncynge place. Then is there suche a rennynge, leapynge and flyngyng amonge them, then is there suche a liftynge vp and discouerynge of the damselles clothes and of other womennes apparell, that a man might thynke, all these dauncers had caste all shame behynd them, and were become starke madde and oute of theyre wyttes, and that they were sworne to thē deuels daunce. Then muste the poore bryde kepe foote with al dauncers, and refuse none, how scabbed, foule, dronckē, rudeand shameles so euer he be. Thē must she oft tymes heare and se much wyckednesse, & many an vn∣comely word. And that noyse and rōblyng endu reth euen tyll supper. * 1.160

As for supper, loke how much shameles & drō ken the euenynge is more then the mornynge (so much the more vyce, excesse, and mysnourtoure is vsed at the supper. After supper must they be∣gynne to pype and daunce agayne of the new.

And though the yonge personnes, beynge wery of the babiynge noyse and inconuenience, come once towarde theyr rest, yet canne they haue no quietnes. For a man shall fynde vnmannerly & * 1.161 restles people, that wyll fyrst go to theyr chābre dore, and there syng vicious and noughty Bal∣lades, that the dyuell maye haue his whole try∣umphe nowe to the vttermoost.

But here let euery Christē man cōsidre, what an vnmanerly & frowarde custome this is, and how vnmete a thyng it is that suche vnclennes shoulde be practysed amonge Christen peopel, whiche ought to be holy. Maryage shuld be an inhib•…•…ion & manifest condemnacion of all inor dinate luft, of all excesse, of all wātō & vnshame fast lyuynge. And yet is the same chaist estate begonne wyth suche vayne wantonnes & lyght∣nesse, wyth superfluite and royote, to the great hurte of the bodyes, soules, and goodes of the yonge folkes. Or is there ony manneso greatly destitute of vnderstondyng, that he perceauethe not this? Why doth no man then refourme it? Or wyl we wyth vyolence prouoke and defy al myghty GOD? Nowe go to, though the myre fall vpon your heades, we can not do with all. Thou wylte saye: What? hathe God then for∣bydden honest folkes to make mery togyther or * 1.162 to daunce honestly in all good manner: I aun∣swere.

Wh•…•…t so euer God doth not inhibite and * 1.163 condemne to be synne, maye not be called synne by ony man. As for myrth wyth honeste, it is a grace and gyfte of God, and hereof commeth it, that they of olde dyd saye: Honest myrthe shulde none forbydde. Wherfore thought a Christen mā vse conuenient myrth wyth nourtour, tem∣peraunce and thankefulnes, he synneth not. For God hath not inhibited mā to be mery wyth ho neste, and in due season. This is manifest. Hie∣remy. xxxi. And Salomon saythe, Ecclesiastes. lii. There is a tyme to wepe, & a tyme to laugh, a tyme to mourne, and a tyme to daūce: a tyme to embrace, and a tyme to refrayne from embr•…•… cynge. In conuenient tyme therfore and place, maye faythfull Christen men haue ordinately all maner of myrth in instrumentes wyth hone stye, at mariages or other ioyfull tymes, whan God gyueth peace, prosperite and fayre wether. The abuse, the royot and excesse (agaynste the whiche onely we her•…•… speake) marrethe all, and bryngethe inconuenience in theyse and all other thynges. And so after great vntemperate, and vnmeasurable myrth, ther•…•… foloweth commonly exceadyng great and perpetuall sorowe. Wher∣fore lette all faythfull Christen men take here a monicion at theyr weddynges to put awaye all vntēperaunce, and wyth nurtour and honoure

to begyn that honourable state, so shall God in∣creace his grace in them, and graūt thē to lyue in long & honest myrthe: Or els if they fall into trouble, he shall not leaue them w^tout conforte.

¶ The. xiiii. Chapter.

Of the fyrst cohabitacion or dwellyng togy∣ther, and loue of marryed folkes.

AFter that we nowe hyther to haue brefely spoken of the elecciō of a comely spouse, & of y^• earand in the cause of maryed folkes. church goyng also, and of the declaryng and con firmaciō of the parties in wedlocke: I must de∣clare, howe they bothe maye lyue well and ryght togyther, and faythefully kepe and increace the loue and dewty of mariage.

And here y^e fyrst dwellyng togyther is moost * 1.164 daungerous of all For where folkes neuer came togyther afore, & the one is not yet accustomed wythe the other, and where sometyme also they are of contrary condicions and natures among thē selues. There or euer they can dwell vnder one rofe, and afore theo ne learneth to know the other: much contencion happeneth many tymes and if the same be not preuented at the begyn∣nyng, there spryngeth worsse thynges therof.

For the dyue•…•…the enemy of all vnite crepeth in here also, and laboureth fast, that he maye lyke∣wyse haue hys porcion, and that he maye make

the marryed folkes not to agre well the one with the tother. Agaynst whome, they that are nowe marryed, must diligently watch and fyght, and gyue the Dyuell no place, but remember well, what maye followe vnto them by suche to early discorde. And the same maye they learne by thys ensample followyng: if two boordes at the fyrst be not well cowpled and ioyned the one to the * 1.165 other, they neuer are fastened right afterwarde. But if the fyrst couplyng & ioyning togyther be good, than can there afterward no violēce driue the boordes asunder, yea the whole boorde dothe sooner breake, thē the glewyng of thē togyther.

They therfore that are marryed, must apply theyr speciall diligēce, that theyr fyrst cohabitaci * 1.166 on & dwellyng togyther be louyng & frendely, & not separated thorow ony spytefull contencion, for so shal the whole estate of your mariage pro∣sper the better, and haue the more tran•…•…ilite & rest, as longe as ye lyue. And though there hap∣pen to aryse any clowde of discorde, yet let them beware, that at the least there be not to muche displeasure, disdayne and inconuenience. For yf at the begynnynge of mariage there chaunse suche rudenes and vncomely discorde, then wyll it alwaye be breakyng oute, euen as it is wythe great woundes and broken legges, whyche sel∣dome are so thorowely healedde, but sometyme

hey haue payne at the chaunge of the wether. Euē so yf married folkes behaue thē selues thus vnhonestly the one toward the other at the fyrst & if discorde be once begonne betwene them, the olde cancker wyll breake agayne, thoughe it be scaled afterwarde. Then come suche vnsemelye wordes as these be. Thus dyddest thou serue me also afore. It were my parte to learne to gyue ly∣tle credence vnto the. &c. And after this manner doth that to early discorde make the whole lyfe. & the whole state of mariage, bytter and sower.

Let euery one consither this aforehande, and * 1.167 refrayne, forbeare and suffer: And if all be not after his mynd, let him remember the wordes of S. Paule. One beare anothers burthen, and so shall ye fulfyll the lawe of Christ Let one suffer wyth another. In the meane season let eche one learne to be acquaynted with the nature & condi cions of the tother, and to apply hym selfe accor dyng to the same, in asmuch as they must nedes dwell togyther, one enioye another, and the one dye & lyue with the other. Remēber youre selues well on both the sydes, that if ether of you wyll be so styffe mynded, & stand so in his owne con∣ceate, * 1.168 ye shall neuer haue good nor good dayes to gyther. What auaylethe you then youre owne noysome condicions? Whā thou perceauest thy selfe to haue ought in the (whiche dothe displease

thy husbāde, the best is that thou amende it. Yf any thyng thē do displease the, speake thy myn∣de, & that discretely vnto thy husbande, to the in tēte that he may leaue it, yf sensualite go to wor ke, it marreth all. Wyth the first can we not op teyne, alwaye, & of euery man, what so euer we wolde fayne haue. Contracy wyse: Chastening hath yet hyr owne dew tyme & place. The tyme also and your dwellyng together shall minister much occasiō, so that in processe of tyme manye thinges shall be more tollerable vnto the that at the fyrste y^u thoughtest rough, & couldest not suf fre. But afore all thynges, y^e prayer of fayth vn to god, shall make moost peace & rest. God only hath oure hartes in his hande, be can bowe thē & alter thē as he wyl: Leaue not thou now thy cal lynge. What soeuer we desyre of God in a true beleue, yf it be not agaynst his glorye and oure saluacion, he will geue it vs. But thys prayer maye not ceasse, as Christ teacheth. Luke, xviii.

As for such as in theyr owne inordinate lus∣tes not regarding thys our instrucciō and war nynge go on styll, and as soone as in theyr first * 1.169 dwelling together they fynd ought in theyr spou se that is agaynst them, do braule and crye. No∣man, but euen the deuell himselfe sente the (vnto me, etc. Those men do, euen, lyke as yf one had bought a vyneyarde, and shulde go into it

afore y^e tyme, to proue the grapes, which yf they * 1.170 were yet hard and sower, that is vnseasonable and not rype) he shulde therfore plucke vp the vynes, and destroye the whole yarde. For lyke as here the tyme muste be consydred, so muste the one forbeare the other in theyr fyrst commīg together. And though the grapes be rype, yet is not the iewse immedeately wyne at the begyn∣ning, but first, is it must, then sweter, at the last wyne: yee the yeare and age maketh it in manye places, the longer the better and the more plea∣saunt. He that will not now tary the tyme, but cast out the wyne, because it is not wyne by and by, but is must first, and then sweter wyne that man must nedes lacke wyne at his nede: Euen so yf thou wylt suffre no infirmyte ner blemishe thou must take none to be thy spouse. For almē are tempted and euery one hath his own speciall blemysh and fault, ouer and besydes the weake∣nesse and imperfection that we haue of our first father Adam. Wherfore let not euery man spea∣ke and do here what so euer commethe into hys brayne, but remembre that we all are men, and that accordynge to the olde Prouerbe. In space commeth grace.

And to the intent that euery man in this en∣fourmacion and in the state of mariage, maye behaue hymselfe the more handesomlye and the

better, I wyll nowe brefelye declare, what ma∣ryed folkes (because of gods commaundemente) do owe one to another, namely ordinate ob•…•…dy∣ence, & coniugall loue mutuall, whiche is of all loues, the greatest For who so euer doth earnest ly pondre these thynges, and consydreth thē well shall not onely behaue himselfe ordinately and louyngely at theyr first dwellynge together, but thorow out the whole state of mariage (as lōg as he lyueth he shall spend his tyme well in vnite quyetnesse, and in all good maner. Touchynge this obediēce and loue matrimoniali, I wyll all ledge the verye worde of God, to the intente that this instruccion may generally take the more ef fect, and that euery man (not folowynge here the same, may know, that he synneth openly a∣gaynste god and agaynst hys holy ordynaunce.

Paul, Ephe. v. sayeth thus: ye wyues, sub∣mytt * 1.171 your selues vnto your husbandes, as vnto the lorde. For the husband is the wyues heade, like as Christ also is the head of the congregati∣on, & sauyour of hys body. Now as the congre∣gacion or church is in subiection vnto Christe so let the wiues also be in subiection to theyr hus bandes in all thynges. First doth Paule speake of the obediēce, that maried wemē owe to theyr husbandes. Let the wemē sayth he be in subiecti∣on, that is to say, seruiseable & obediēt vnto their

husbandes. And addeth therto, that they must esteme this obedience none otherwyse, then yf it where shewed vnto god himselfe. Wherout it fo loweth, that the sayde obedience extendethe not vnto wickednesse & euell, but vnto that whiche is good, honest, and comely. In asmuche as god deliteth onely in goodnesse, and forbyddeth euell euery where. It foloweth also, that the disobe∣diēce, whiche wiues shew vnto their husbandes displeaseth god no lesse, thē whan he is resisted hymselfe.

Secondly, Paul doth lykewyse adde the occa * 1.172 sion, whye wemen oughte to be subieccion to theyr husbandes. Euen because the husbonde is the wifes heade. Whych, sayenge he toke oute of the thyrde chapter of Gene, where it is wrytten thus: And the lorde sayde vnto y^e womā. Thou shalt depend and wait vpon thy husbādes beck, him shalt thou feare, and he shall haue aucthori te ouer the. Thus wryteth Paule himself. i. Ti moth. ii. I suffre not a womā to teach or preach or to haue dominion ouer her husband. For A∣dam was first made and thē Eua. And Adam was not disceaued but the woman was discea∣ued, and brought in the transgressyon. For as∣much then as the mastershippe and takynge of auctorite vpon her could not well be dryuen out of the woman, therfore god to punyshe the sin∣ne,

humbled her, made her fearfull and subdued her. Such punyshment and ordinaunce of God ought they to regarde, and wyth a good wyll (ac cordyng to the commaundement of the Lorde, to obey theyr husbandes, leest they fall into Gods wrathe and into further punyshment.

But to the intent that the husband shall not * 1.173 turne hys aucthorite vnto tyrany, therfore doth Paule declare, after what maner and howe the husbande is the wyues heade. The husbande (saythe he) is the wyfes head, euen as Christ is the head of hys congregacion. Nowe is Christ so the heade of the congregacion, that he shewethe vnto it the same thyng, whiche the head sheweth vnto the bodye. The head seeth and hearethe for the whole body, ruleth and gydethe the body and geueth it strength of lyfe. Euen so doth Christ defende, teache & preserue his congregacion. To be shorte, he is the sauioure, conforte, eye, harte, wisdome and gyde therof. Therfore muste the husbandes be heades vnto the wyues in lyke ma ner, to shewe them lyke kyndenes, and after the same fashyon to guyde them and rule them with discresion for theyr preseruacion, and not wyth force and wylfulnesse to entreate them.

Thyrdly, Paul setteth an ensample to the wi ues howe they must be obedient & behaue thē sel ues vnto theyr husbandes, & saythe: Lyke as the

chyrche is in subiecciō to Christ, so let the womē * 1.174 be in subiecciō to theyr husbondes in all thinges But howe is the chyrche in subiecciō to y^e Lord? She hath respecte only vnto hym, & dependethe vpon his worde. As for straunge & fond husban¦des, she harkeneth not vnto them, but kepeth her selfe pure and cleane (and that continually) vnto hym in all faythfulnes: Loke what Christ com¦man̄deth her, y^e receueth she into her harte, & doth it: Contrary to Christ and wythout his wyll & worde, dothe she nothyng. For in euery thyng y^t she goethe aboute, she seakethe and requireth for Christes worde, she loueth Christ only & aboue al thynges, she is glad and wyllyng to suffer for Christes sake, she doeth all for the loue of hym. Christ only is her conforte, ioye and altogither. Upon Christ is her thought day & nyght, she lō gethe onely after Christ, for Christes sake also (if it maye serue to his glory) is she hartely well content to dye, yea she gyueth ouer herselfe whol¦ly therto for Christes loue, knowyng assuredly, that her soule, her houour, body, lyfe and all that she hathe, is Christes owne. Thus also must euery honest wyfe submit her selfe, to serue her husband wythe all her power, and gyue herselfe ouer frely and wyllyngly, neuer to forsake hym tyll the houre of death: to hold her content wyth her husbande, to loue hym onely, to harken vnto

hym, & in all thynges to order her selfe after hys commaundement. &c.

Nowe followeth it in Paule lykewyse, what * 1.175 the husbandes owe to theyr wyues, & how they ought to loue them. Ye husbandes, sayth he, loue your wyues, as Christ loued the congregacion, and gaue hymselfe for it, to sanctify i•…•…, and hath clensed it. &c. The husbandes dewetye is to loue hys wyfe. Nowe is loue gētle and frendly, she is not disdaynefull, she seketh not her owne profyt she is not proude, she is not pufte vp, she is not hastely prouoked vnto wrathe, she takethe not a thyng soone to the worste, she is not lothsome & tedious, but feruente & seruiseable, and therfore (as we sayde afore) the husbande is the wyues head, that is, her defender, teacher and conforte. Yet nedeth it no farther declaraciō, for as muche as Saynt Paule hymselfe sheweth the maner & fashyon of the loue, that is, howe they oughte to loue theyr wyues, and sayth: Ye men loue youre * 1.176 wyues, as Christ loueth the cōgregacion. Howe dyd Christ loue the congregacion. It is wryt∣ten: No mā hath greater loue, than he y^• ieopar∣deth his lyfe for his frend. Such loue hath christ shewed to his congregacion. For it followeth in Paul: Christ gaue hymselfe for it. For what in tent: Euen to sanctify it and to clense it.

This is thē the measure of the mutuall loue

matrimoniall, that eche party haue nothyng to * 1.177 deare, whiche he can not be content to gyue and bestow vpon his maryed spouse, in as much as it is required of hym, that if n•…•…de be, he shall also not spare his owne lyfe for hys spouses sake.

And lyke as Christ thoughte no scorne of hys churche, despised her not, neyther forsoke her be∣cause of her vncleannes and synnes. So shoulde no Christen marryed man spurne at hys wyfe, nor sette lyght by her because that sometyme she fayleth or is tempted & goeth wronge: but euen as Christ norysheth and teacheth his church, so ought the husband also louyngly to enfourme 〈◊〉〈◊〉 instructe hys wyfe.

But marke & consyther this well: O ye Chri∣sten * 1.178 maryed folkes, that Iesus Christ the sonne of God, and the holy Christen chyrche, and the holy body of them bothe, are set forth for an en∣sample or myrcoure to the state of wedlocke and co•…•…gall loue. A more excellent, a more holy, a more goodly and purer ensample coulde not be shewed. Thus truely must it nedes folow, that loue matrimoniall is highly accepted vnto God as an ordinate, holy, and godly loue: Contrary wyse it must followe, that vnquietnesse, hatred and frowardnes in mariage displeased GOD exceadyngly. For an hyghe loue is it that God requireth of marryed folkes, therfore synne they

not but do well and ryght, whan they, because of Gods commaundement, beare great frendshyp and loue, the one to the other.

It followeth moreouer in Paul: So oughte * 1.179 y^• husbandes to loue theyr wiues, as theyr owne bodyes. He that louethe his wyfe, louethe hym∣self. For no mā hath at any tyme hated his own fleshe, but doth norysh and cheryshe it For this cause shall a man leaue father and mother, and kepe hym to his wyfe, and they two shall be one fleshe. Therfore ought euery man to loue hys owne wyfe as hymselfe. All theyse are the holy Apostles wordes, which haue this consideraciō: Wedlocke maketh of two personnes one: For they two, sayth the Lord, are one flesh. Therfore must the husband loue his wyfe no notherwyse then his owne body. And as it is a very vnna∣turall thyng for a man to hate hys owne flesh & bloud, euē so is it to be estemed vnnaturall, that one spouse shulde hate the other. All we cheryshe our owne bodyes and norysh them. Reason is it then that we cheryshe oure wyues, and do them good, for they are our owne bodyes. And as ther is great vnite and mutuall loue amōg y^• partes of a mans body, so ought there to be also betwe∣ne them that are maried togyther. Euery mēbre healpeth a nother, they are sory & mery togither, there in not one that checke the and obbraydethe

another, euery one hath his place & office in the body, and doth his dewty wythout grudgynge: Euen so lykewyse must it be betwene man and wyfe. Thus much haue I shortly spoken out of Paule, towthynge that loue which is due to be had in wedlocke.

The. xv. Capter.

¶ How the loue, faythfulnes, & dewty of ma∣ryed folkes, maye be kepte and increased.

HErein now ought not a maried mā to be satisfyed, that he knowethe what matri∣montall loue is, & how he shuld loue hys spouse, but he must apply hymselfe to loue her in dede, as y^• Lord hath cōmaunded hym & not that only, but also endeuour hymselfe euer more and more, to kepe & increace the same loue. For ma∣ny there be that begynne well to loue, but they endure not, & some ordre them selues after suche fasshiō in theyr lyuing, that they deserue rather to be hated, than loued. Therfore wyll I nowe speake a lytle hereof, how the loue, faythfulnesse & dewty of maryed folk•…•… maye be kept & increa ced. Fyrst, for asmuche as true loue matrimo∣niall * 1.180 cōmeth of God, & is gyuen of God vnto man, there are two speciall means (namely god des worde and the prayer of fayth) that do kepe 〈◊〉〈◊〉 increace it. For if maryed folkes harkē ernest ly vnto the worde of God, & read it, they learne

dayly at it, such chynges, as augment comugall loue. And yf they praye vnto God withe a true fayth, that he wyll put awaye all suche thinges as maye mynysh the loue betwene them, 〈◊〉〈◊〉 helpe them vnto it that maye increace the same, doubt lesse God shall heare them. Only let them giue them selues to cōtynuall prayer, and to the hea∣ryng and readyng of Goddes worde.

Secondely. For asmuche as wedlocke m•…•…keth * 1.181 of two persons one, for they two are one flesh, saythe the Lorde, therfore muste they be of one harte, wyll and mynde, and none to caste ano∣ther in the tethe with hys faulte, orto pryde him of hys gyfte. Yf thy wife be not al togyther cir∣cumspecte and handsome, and God hath ende∣wed the wyth wysdom and actiuite, than boast not thy selfe agaynste thy wyfe, but remember howe God hathe prouided the for her in mary∣age, to the intent that thou shouldest supple her imperfection, and that ye both doynge your best togyther, myghte be one perfecte bodye. If the wyfe be rytche, and the husbande poore, then let not the wyfe boast her rytches agaynste the hus∣bande, * 1.182 but considre, that thorowe mariage, her goodes are become her husbandes also. For ma∣riage is a mutuall felowshyp & partakyng of al thynges. The bodye lyke wyse is more of value than the goodes. Seynge, then that thy body is

thy husbandes, muche more are thy goodes his. And thus must euery one of you iudge in others giftes, y^t what so euer the one spouse hathe more excellent then the other, the same, thorowe mari age, is his spouses aswell as his owne.

Thyrdly, it doth greatly increase loue, whan * 1.183 the one faythefully seruethe the other, whan in thynges concernyng mariage the one hideth no secretes nor priuities from the other, whā of all that euer they optayne or get, they haue but one comon purse togither, the one lockyng vppe no∣thyng from the other, whan the one is faythfull to the other in eatynge, drynckynge and all ne∣cessite, whan the one harkenneth to the other, & whan the one thyncketh no scorne of the other, & whan in matters concernynge the rule of the house, the one wyll be councelled and aduised by the tother. But muche discorde commeth of it, whan the one hateth and wyll not suffer them, whome the tother loueth and can not forsake, as namely a mans frend, father, mother, syster, bro ther, and such other lyke.

Fourthely, let the one learne euer to be obse∣quious * 1.184 & seruiseable to y^e other in al other thīges And this shall come to passe, yf y^e one note what thyng the other can awaye wyth all, and what pleaseth him. And so from henceforth to meddle with the one and eschew the other. Some wiues

are so frowarde, that whan theyr husbandes are mery, they are sadde: And contrary wyse, there be diuers men, that fyrst desyre to meddle wythe that thyng, whiche they perceaue y^• theyr wyues * 1.185 can not awaye wythal. Some nether canne nor wyl heare theyr infirmities more nor lesse. Som tyme whan the wyfe is sad and disquietted, then wyll the husbande haue to muche sporte and pa∣styme of her. And sometyme if the husbande be displeased, than the wyfe wyth spytefull wordes and wanton fashyons prouokethe hym to more anger. Some hadde rather haue theyr backe full of strypes, than to holde theyr tonges and forbe∣are a lytle. But where the vnderstondyng of ob∣sequye and obedience is, then lette euery one re∣member that the other hath the nature of man∣kynde in hym, and is tempted, lette the one lende to the other somewhat in temptacion, forbeare wythe hym, & gyue hym the place gentylly for a tyme. And thoughe thy spouse in hys displeasure do happen for to speake an vnkynde or vnientyl worde, yet thynke that it was not he, but wrath that spake it.

Fyfthly. There is no manner of thyng, that * 1.186 more strongly kepethe and increasethe loue ma∣trimoniall, then doth curtesy, kyndenesse, playn∣nesse and gentylnesse in wordes, manners and dedes. But there be diuers marryed parsonnes,

among whome is not foūd a good worde, but al way brawlyng, chidyng & discorde. And yet fyll they all the world wyth complayntes, what a mi serable lyfe they haue togyther. And they them selues neuerthelesse are gylty of theyr owne mis chefe. Let them leue theyr churlyshe fashons, and be frendely and louyng one to another, and then shall they come to rest. And if happely they can not excell in that behalfe, yet lette them shewe a good mynde and louynge wyll in theyr wordes and dedes, & so shall an honest vertuous spouse be contented therwythe. For euident it is, that many a man wolde fayne be endewed wyth hu∣manite and gentlenes. And yet by the means of imperfeccion, not for any frowardnes, he canne not. One man also is of an heuyer nature than another.

Syrtely, it lykewyse heapeth and encreasethe * 1.187 loue matrimoniall, whan the parties swell not one agaynst another, and whan eyther openeth to the other theyr grefe in due tyme, and wythe discresion. For the longer a displeasure or euell wyll reygnethe in secrete, the worsse wyll be the discord. The dyuell also sometyme maketh theyr hartes so hard & styffe, that at the last they both become croked vessels. Therfore (I saye) woulde I haue the due tyme obserued, bycause that there is some season in the which yf greues were she∣wed,

it shuld make greater debate, as yf thou shuldest tell it thy husbande, when he is oute of pacience, or moued. And specially who so spea∣keth to a drōken man, talketh wyth hym that is not at home. Therfore Abigail perceauyng Na∣ball her husbond to be dronken, wolde not speake her mynde vnto hym vntyl the mornyng. i. Reg xxv. Thus ought euery one to wayte his conue nient and due tyme.

Wyth discrecion, I saye, must it be done also for some shewe theyr grefes so vnmannerly, so spytefully, and so vncurteously, that they make nowe a greater discencion, than was afore. And yf the one, of a good faythfull meanyng, begyn to speake of the tother, the same shall not onely take indignacion at hym wythout pacient hea∣ryng oute of his tale, but also begynne to make spytefull rehersals agayne of the newe. Remem∣ber your selues well both of you, for if ye so con∣tinue in dissencion, brawlyng and chydyng the one wyth the other, truly ye can not haue Gods fauoure. For who so wyll be forgyuen of God, must and ought fyrst to be at one with his negh boure, and also to forgyue hym hys trespasse & faulte. Accordynge to the wordes of the Lorde. Math. v. vi. xviii. So sayth Paule. Ephe. iiii. Thoughe ye be angrye, yet synne not Lette not the Sonne go downe vpon yourewrathe, ney∣ther

gyue place vnto the backehyter. &c. Lette all bytternes, fearsnes & wrath, roaryng and cursed speakyng be put awaye from you. Be curteous one to another, and mercyfull, forgyuynge one another, euen as God for Christes sake hath for gyuen you.

Seuently chyldren begotten in wedlocke, are a very sure bonde of matrimoniall loue. And * 1.188 therfore the Latinistes call them Pignora. Now is pignus as muche to saye, as a pledge, or gage or pawne. And the chyldren begotten in lawfull * 1.189 marriage, are as a pledge and suerty of the loue that can not be parted asunder. For howe canst thou at ony tyme be deuided from the marryed spouse, by whome thou haste chyldren: yf thou wylt saye. Take thou one, & I wyll take another yet hath ech of you in that one chylde, somthing which pertayneth to yourselfe. For certayne it is, that the chylde cometh of you both. God also bryngeth it so to passe, that somtyme the childrē looke lyke the father, sometyme lyke the mother, sometyme they haue the condicious and simili∣tude of you both: And this God ordeyneth that the loue maye be the greater in marryage. Nowe * 1.190 when thou wyfe doste loue those youre chyldren as thou shuldest, bryngest them well vp, arte di∣ligent in lookyng to them, and canst take payne wyth them, then louest thou thy selfe in thy chyl∣dren,

and geueste hym also an occasion to loue the better then he dyd, so that wyth the payne & trauayle that thou hast aboute the chyldren, he is pacyfyed: Lyke as it is in dede the dewetye of euery maried man, not to be vnpaciente wythe his children, or churlish to his wyfe, which hath laboure and payne ynough all readye wyth the chyldren, al though her husband were of a gentle nature, and not doggishe.

And those wyfes, whych beynge made frute∣full * 1.191 of god, do bring forth manye chyldren, and haue all theyr dayes much greate payne, trauay le laboure and disquietnesse wythe them, maye not thynke (as some do) that they he more vnhay pye and infortunate, then those are that haue no chyldren at al. They shulde rather consydre, that to be frutefull, is in gods true eternal wor de, commended as a bl•…•…ssynge of god, and that all such wyse and noble men as feared god haue euer estemed it for a singulare prosperyte, ho∣noure and welth. Item that all holye & famous wemen of the olde testament, dyd mourne, com∣playne, and were ashamed of theyr vnfrutefull∣nesse. Upō a tyme there came a famous womā to Rome, to the noble Corne•…•…ia Grachi, & she∣wed her hir treasure, as namelye hir precious Iewels, rynges and cheynes of golde, precyous * 1.192 stones, and ornamentes, and requyred Corne∣lia

that she shoulde shewe her hyr Iewelles also. Then that noble Cornelia brought forthe hyr chyldren, shewed her them, and sayde, lo, thys is my worthy and precious treasure, that all my mynde standeth vnto, yee the treasure that one ly reioyceth me, and is to me dearer then all the Iewels vpon earth.

This dyd an Heithenish womā, What shul dest thou thē do, thou christē wife, whiche ough test by ryght to know, that god vseth y^• to greate honoure, whā he causeth the to beare chyldren, which afterward may serue him and the who∣le countre, and maye come to be honeste folkes, & a perpetuall commendacion to the? The holy scripture also saieth euidently, that a wife is in the worke of God and seruethe hym, whan she bringeth forth chyldren, and gydeth them well. Therfore what so euer she there in dothe and suffreth, she must gladlye do it and suffre it for gods sake, & put her trust in god, that he whiche puttethe her to the payn and laboure, can also shew her both comforte and helpe, yee she may not doubte, but be certayned at goddes hand, y^e * 1.193 what soeuer she faythfully and obedientlye suf∣fereth and doth with the childrē in mariage it is no lesse good worke in the sight of god, then all mes geuyng, prayer, or mortifieng of the bodye. For that is hir crosse which the lord hath layed

vpon her to beare. Paul sayeth also. i. Timoth ii. The woman brought transgression into the worlde, but she shall recouer her honoure agay∣ne by bearyng of chrildren, yf she contynue in y^e fayth, in godly loue, in the sanctifieng, and in nourtoure. This shulde Christē wiues remem bre in all their crosse, and to be glad, wyllynge, & of a good courage therin. And who hath she∣wed the O woman) all the grefes, anguysshes 〈◊〉〈◊〉 troubles, all the paynes and miseries, that tho∣se wyfes haue which bring forth no chyldrē? It maye chaunce, that they haue more myserye and payne in another sort, then thou hast w^t thy children. And that happely they haue here rest & good dayes, and yet fynne therin wythe pryde, deyntynesse, voluptuousnes, wantonnesse, ydel nesse, nycenesse, & such infirmities, so that here vpon earth they get lytle honoure and worshyp therof, & must haue eternal payne in the world to come. This I say agaynst froward & wicked wifes, and not agaynst those that would be glad to take any payne & laboure so that they might haue chyldren and to lyue mekely, vertuouslye and honestlye.

The wemen also, whiche are maried vnto such men as haue had children by their former * 1.194 wyues, must be ernestly exhorted, to shew them selues vnto those motherles chyldren, no steppe•…•…

mothers frēdshyppe, but a ryght motherly faith ful kyndnesse. Haue cōpassiō (oh Christēwomā) vpō those yong innocēt orphās, whyche knowe not ner haue any cōforte ner helpe vpon earthe, saue only the. Consydre, that god the lorde hathe ordeyned the (in steade of theyre owne mother) to be vnto thē a right true mother, & requyre the the to loue thē, & to do them good. Wo vnto the yf thou do the poore motherles chyldren harme. Remēbre, that they are thyne owne husbandes naturall flessh & bloude, & that it is an vnnatu∣rall * 1.195 thing to hate them whych on thy husbands behalf pertayne partlye to thyne owne bodye, & are thyne owne: thynke vpō the worde of truth. With what measure ye meate, wythe the same shal it be measured to you agayne. What a gre∣at grefe wold it be to thine hert, yf thou knewest now that thine owne childrē whō thou bareste ī thy body, shulde (after thy death) haue a step mo ther, whiche wold be rough and churlyshe vnto thē? Doutles those chyldrens mothers that deed is had in hir deth no lesse care for hir childrē.

Therfore as thou woldest haue thine owne children intreated (yf thou shouldeste now dy) so deale thou also with thē that were hers & thy hus bandes tegether. Or els loke verelye to haue of god the same measure that thou hast gyuen. Be sure also, that god will not heare the, whā thou

prayest thy Pater noster, for as muche as thou wylte not heare the poore Orphans that cry vn to the. O dere mother. This I saye, because expe rience lea•…•…eth, that by the reason of steppe chyl dren the loue matrimoniall is not onely •…•…iny∣shed, but euen vtterly excluded. Neyther gendreth it vnite, whan a man intendynge to commend his fyrst wyfe, doth it ether out of mesure, or els fyrst of all whan he fyndeth faulte in hys newe wyfe. For such prayse doth she cō•…•…ter to be made to her dishonoure a•…•…d shame. Namely that her husbande in commendyng hys fyrst wyfe, dothe it to her reproche. I speake not this to the int•…•…nt that a maryed man shulde speake euell of hys ho nest wyfe whiche is departed, but that euery mā which is nowe maryed agayne, maye commend hys former wyfe in due season and wythe mea∣sure, yea & in suche a sorte, that hys present newe wy fe haue none occasion to thyncke, that it is done to her disprayse.

Eyghtly. The loue matrimonial is excellētly * 1.196 well kepte and increaced thorowe nurtoure, clen lynesse, trouthe and faythe, yf they be stedfastly obserued togyther. Let the husband content hym only wyth hys wyfe, and so order hymselfe with wordes, manners and gestures, that the wyfe maye perceaue, that he holdethe hym onely vnto her. Let the wyfe kepe no lesse trouthe and fayth

beyng honest and not shameles toward her hus∣band. Agayne, let her gyue hym due beneuolēce, and be not contrary vnto hym, nor brawle with hym. For suche frowardnesse gyueth ofte great occasion, and ministreth improiment to matri∣mony. Wh•…•…rfore lette euery one here remember the wordes of S. Paule. For the auoydynge of whordome, let euery man haue his wyfe. There hath not the wyfe power of her owne body, but the husbande. Agayne, the husband hath not po∣wer of hys owne bodye, but the wyfe. &c. as we sayd afore in the tenth Chapter.

Let euery woman also beware of misgouer∣nauuce * 1.197 & sluttyshnesse in raymēt, yea in euery thyng, that wythe vnclennesse she make not her selfe hated of her husbande. Lykewyse must they bothe beware of euery thyng that prouokethe to aduoutry, or ministreth any vnfaythfull suspi cion. As it is to be droncken, to haue wanton or priuy communicaciō, to vse euell company and lyke pastyme to haue fellowshyp wyth lyght per * 1.198 sonnes, to resorte vnto suspicious places, to stōd wyth suspicious folkes, to were wantonne ray∣ment to be euer at lyght games, to renne to eue∣ry daunce, to playe in euery strete, to tary ly∣tle at home, to be lesse content at home then any where, to murmour, chyde, and to sygh at home. et cetera.

An honest wyfe ought not behynde her hus∣bandes backe to haunt ony euell company, to be * 1.199 bācketted, nether to go ony where wythout her husbādes knowledge & leaue. Much lesse ought she to take vpon her ony farre iourney. And if her husband be gone forth, or be not at home, let her holde her selfe as a wydowe and lyue quiet∣ly, & bryng no man into the house in the meane season, nether ronne oute: nor byd gestes, to the intēt that ther grow no euel name nor fame vn to her therthorow. Nether shulde the one to the other, boast or shewe of suspicious gyftes & pre∣sentes. Nether the husbande to commende other wiues afore hys owne or aboue his owne. Ne∣ther is it the wyues parte to excead in praysyng another womans husbande, lest the one suspecte the other. Thy wyfe must take the for fayrest, & * 1.200 thy husbād must holde the for y^e best fauoured.

And for asmuche as gelousy is a speciall euell * 1.201 disease, and a great noysome plage in wedlocke, therfore maryed persons must put it awaye, or at the leest, and asmuche as in thē lyeth tame it and suppresse it: And namely beware thou wyfe that thou impute not aduoutry vnto thyne hus∣band, because he sometyme hath spokē with ano ther woman, or looked at her. Agayne, thou hus∣bande must not be so sore tempted, as to mysin∣treate, to blame or to smyte thy innocent wyfe,

nether to laye vnto her suche thynges as she ne∣uer thought vpon. Lykewyse thou husband may est not deny thy wyfe to make conuentent and honest chere wyth honest folkes. For though all * 1.202 olde wyse and prudent men would haue womē & horses kepte in good nourtour & gouernaūce, yet maye there be to mu•…•…he done herein, as well as in other thynges. There is an old Prouerbe also. The bowe wyll breake, if it be to sore bent. Item, No thyng maye continue that is not bor∣ne vp. Therfore an honest marryed mā shulde forbyd his wyfe no conuenient honest myrthe, but gyue her leaue, to the intent that she maye afterward be the more wyllyng wyth the chyl∣dren, and in other trauayle & paynes takynge•…•…

It besemeth no discrete honest husbād, to com * 1.203 mend his wyfe to much before other men. Col∣latinus Tarquinius lost his noble wyfe Lucre tia, thorow his inordinate praysyug of her. Yet much lesse becommeth it the to be shamelesse in disclosynge the priuities of mariage, as many fylthy personnes vse to do. Lykewyse besimethe it no man to prouoke hys wyfe in bryngyng in naughty personnes, or in kepyng thē styll there in his house, nether to cause his wife to be spokē of. Yf Menelaus had kepte Paris without, he had saued Helena his wyfe. Neuerthelesse euery honest wyfe muste faythfully and at all tymes

kepe her honeste, thoughe her wycked husbande gyue her many prouocacions. Remembre all waye the sentence of Salomon. Whā a womā * 1.204 leaseth her honeste, than hathe she lost her chefe treasure, nether hathe she any more, but is con∣tempned & despysed, as the myre of the stretes.

Hereto seruethe it also, that the wyfe maye * 1.205 not make her selfe to familiare, to frendly, or to pryuy wyth her seruaūtes or housholde folkes, leest they shoulde be bolde to talke, to ieaste, or without reuerence to behaue them selues withe her, as one seruynge mayde woulde do wythe another. Thou wylte saye: I canne not be so •…•…oysterous nor shewe my selfe so terrible. Nowe go to, if thou wylte not be feared in the house as a dame, yet hold the so vnto them, that they may stande in awe of the, that they be not to rashe and to bolde of the, but shewe the reuerence, be∣yng shamefast and well manered towarde the, as to the mother in the house. For thou ough∣test * 1.206 with no man to be so familiare, so frendely, and so homely as wyth thy husband. Lykewyse also must menne behaue themselues vnto theyr maydens in the house, and commyt all the rule and punyshmēt of them vnto theyr wyues, and not to meddle wythe the seruauntes agaynste them, excerte the wyfe wolde deale vnreasona∣bly and wylfully wyth theyr poore seruauntes.

Cōtrary wyse, the wyfe must not take vpō her the rule or punyshment of the men seruauntes. For hereof commeth great vnite: Lyke as whā the husband medleth to muche with the women seruauntes, and the wyfe wyth the menseruaū∣tes, there ryseth great suspicion and discencion amonge marryed folkes.

¶ The xvi. Chapter.

Of conuentent carefulnes, and iust kepyng of the house lyke Christen folke.

IF thy wyfe be vertuous and trusty, let her be also carefull in kepynge and prouydynge for thy house. For such study & ordinate care gendreth great loue & encreaseth thy substaunce For such study and care is not forbydden. For the godly Patriarch Iacob thought it necessary for hym & his wyfe to be studious for theyr hou sholde. Paule affyrmynge it, If a man prouide not for hys owne housholde, he denyeth the fayth * 1.207 and is worse than an Infidel. Wherfore all that Christ speaketh agaynst carefulnes, he speaketh it agenst all inordinate mistrustyng & to muche couetous care and sorow, that desperately & insa * 1.208 ciably tormēteth & vexeth the mynde. Ordinate care expelleth idle slouthfulnes and monysheth vs of our duty & iust vocacion. Which care on∣ly loketh vnto God, the author & gyuer of all, to him she prayeth to prosper & blisse al y^t she goeth

about. Whych prayer of fayth hath her forme & * 1.209 circūstances tēdyng to Gods glory. Two thin ges I aske of the, o Lorde. remoue fro me vanite and lyes, gyue me n•…•…ther pouerte, nor rytches, onely graūt me a necessary lyuyng, lest I beyng to full, deny the sayeng, Who is the Lorde. And lest I constrayned thorowe pouerte fall to thefte and forsweare the name of my God.

This ordinate care and study must be takē, that ye maye haue to socoure the nedye and to * 1.210 set forthe youre chyldren, and that youre selues want not, and so by your idle ignauy, ye be one∣rouse and a burden to other good menne. La∣bour to haue wherwithe to lyue in age, yf God call you to it. Who so hath stolen, sayth Paule, let hym nowe stele no more, but labour with his * 1.211 handes some good occupacion y^t they maye haue to healpe the nedy. And as for them that inor∣dinately care and study to be rytch, and to haue more than is necessary, they fall into the temp∣tacions and snares of the dyuell, and into ma∣ny lustes (as saythe Paule) which drowne men into perdicion and damnacion, sodēly fall these rytch welthy bullockes from theyr goodes & god∣des, * 1.212 euen theyr euell gotten, worsekepte, & worst of all bestowed mammons.

What so euer is to be done wythout y^e house that belongeth to the man, & the womā to study

for thynges wythein to be done, and to se saued * 1.213 or spent conueniently what so euer he bryngeth in. As the byrde flyeth to and fro to brynge to y^e nest, so becommeth it the man to applye his out ward busynes. And as the dāme kepeth the nest •…•…atcheth the egges, and bryng forth the frute, so let them bothe learne to do of the vnreasonable fowles or beastes created of God naturally to obserue theyr sondry properties.

The man in his gaynyng & occupieng must be iust & faythful, feruēt, diligent & earnest, ma∣kyng all thyng substancially surely, & wythout ony deceyt. For faythfulnes euer abydeth whan vnfaythfulnes & craftines destroye themselues: as ye se in the faythefull dealynge of Iacob and in the couetouse disceate of Laban. The worde * 1.214 & promyse of an occupyer must be as ferme and fast as the rocke of stone, fayth and trueth con∣serueth many mens occupyeng whā vniust de lyng bryng hym out of credyt.

Let not a man meddle with vnhonest occupa∣cions not necessary for a common weal, but as Paul commaūdeth, wyth such as are good and profitable for the citie or countrey wythout de∣ceyte, and euery man to medle wyth, and in hys •…•…ne callyng, nether sekyng other mens lucre, nor enuieng other mens profyt, but walke ordi∣nately and quietly labouryng wyth theyr owne

handes, auoydynge vsurye, but doynge to other as thou woldest be done vnto thyne owne selfe. And yf thou (for all thy true and iust dealynge) yet prosperoussest not subiect to many euel cha•…•… ces, wherof the world is ful, yet be thou content with Goddes wyll, for the pouerte of the ryght∣ous, sayth Salomon, is better then the infinite treasures of the vngodly. And a pece of bread or a messe of potage with quietnes, is better then a fatte oxe with brawlyng. Many menne haue great goodes wyth muche vnquietnes and lytle hon•…•…e, for he hath sette his soule to pledge, for∣saken God & taken the dyuell to helpe h•…•…m to lye & to deceaue that he myght be rytch to leaue his good to an vnknowen hayer. Dauid saythe, fol∣lowe not hym that doth euell because thou seest * 1.215 hym prosper in his wyckednes: for he shall sone be cut downe lyke grasse, & lyke the floure faad awaye. But put thou thy trust in the lorde & do ryght, dwell in y^e Lorde & get thy lyuynge wyth trueth and iust dealynge. And freat not nor be agreued wyth hym that prospereth in his owne waye, and leadeth a wycked lyfe. &c. Unto thys holye Psalme let euery Christen man attende. The wyues worckynge place is wythein her * 1.216 house, there to ouerse and to sette all thynge in good ordre, and to beware that nothyng be lo•…•…t, seldome to go forth, but when vrgent causes call

her forth. And therfore Phidias that ingenous * 1.217 worckemanne entendynge to describe an honest faythefull housewyfe, dydde sette her ymage vn∣der the shel of a snayle, signifieng that she shulde euermore kepe her owne house. Necessaryly it is * 1.218 that she knowe these common sentences & learne them by harte. Thou muste not regarde what thynge thou woldest fayne haue, but what thou canst not lacke. Stretche out thyne arme no far ther than thy sleaue wyll reatche. What so euer thou ne•…•…est not, is to deare of a farthyng. Who so spareth not the penny, shall neuer come by the pownde. Sparynge is a rytche purse. A thynge is sooner spared then gotten. Spare as thoughe thou neuer shuldest dye, & yet as mortall, spende measurably. To spare, as thou mayste haue to spende in honeste for Gods sake, and in necessi∣te, is well done. Thy sparing is but vayne, whē thou arte come to the bottome. Begynne eue∣ry thynge in oue season. What so euer thou mayst do to nyght, dyffer it not tyll to morow. * 1.219 That whiche thou cannest do conueniently thy selfe, committe it not to another. If thou wylte prospere, than looke to euery thyng thyne owne selfe. Lette it not be lost, that maye do any good in tyme to come. Spende no more than thou wottest how to get it: whan thyne expenses and receytes be alyke, a lytle losse maye ouerthrow

the. Spare for thy age. Take paynes in thyne yougth. Bye such thynges as thou nedest not to repent the therof. Uyle pedlary bryngethe beg∣gery. Araye thy selfe honestly. Holde thy chyldrē in awe, and they shall haue the in reuerence.

Muche spendynge and many gyftes, make bare cellars and empty chystes. Euellfellowshyp & vayne pastyme maryeth pouerte and begetteth a sonne called derision, lyuethe gorgiously and costely in excesse, and leauethe the a fare well, whose name is this. In thyn age go a beggyng: Such and many mo godly and wyse sentences are found in Salomons Prouerbes, and in the Precher, and in Iesus Syracke, which an honest housewyfe must take hede vnto.

¶ The. xvii. Chapter.

¶ Howe maryed personnes shall behaue thē selues not only in workes of mercy, but also in the crosse and aduersite, and wythe theyr seruauntes.

IF Christen maried folkes thorow theyr iust laboures and Goddes blyssyng obtayne rit∣ches aboue necessite. then let them remembre Paules exhortacion, sayeng: Commaunde the * 1.220 rytch men of thys worlde that they be not hygh mynded nor trust in transitory rytches, but in the lyuynge God, whyche giueth vs all thynges abundantly to enioye them. Charge them to

do good & to be rytche in good worckes, to gyue wyth good wyl, to distribute, layeng vp tresure for them selues agaynste the tyme to come that they maye laye hand of eternall lyfe. For when * 1.221 the Lorde shall come to iudge the quicke & dead, he shall saye to the mercifull. Come hyther, ye blessed of my Father and take the kyngedome prepared for you from the begynnynge of the worlde. For whan I was hongrye ye fedde me, I was thyrsty and ye gaue me dryncke &c.

Gyue almes therfore of thyn nowne substā∣•…•…e and turne not thy face awaye from the poore Shewe mercye after thy power. If thou haste much, giue plenteously. If thou haste lytle gyue therof after thy power. For a good treasure shalt thou lay vp in store for thy selfe agaynst y^• day of trouble, yea that small substāce wherof a poore man giueth almose pleseth the Lord much better then when welthye men gyue theyr lytle of theyr great rytches. Example in s. Luke: Re∣mēber * 1.222 the comon Prouerbe. That thou sparest from gyuyng for Gods sake, shall the dyuell ca∣ry another waye. So saythe Salomon. Some man gyueth out his goodes and is the rytcher, but the nyggarde hauyng ynough wyll departe from no thynge: And yet is he euer in pouerte. He that is lyberall in gyuynge shall euer haue plenty. God increaseth loue and fauoureth ma

ryed folke bycause they shewe mercy & charite to the nedy.

And yf God maketh the ritch man poore, he doth well: For he seeth that if he shuld haue rit∣ches * 1.223 he would be to proud and forget God and himselfe to, with pouerte therfore and adflicciō wyll he nourtour his chyldren so to teach them his wayes, lest in abundaunce and wealth they runne after theyr owne wayes and lustes. For * 1.224 tribulacion and aduersite are the fyer and salte that purge & preserue vs from stynkynge & not destroye vs, but they teache vs to put our trust in God and not in oure selues nor in no crea∣tures, they draw vs from transitory thinges to fasten vs sure to God, and because we shoulde not be condemned wyth the worlde, he plucketh * 1.225 vs wyth his Crosse from the worlde. Into the which troublouse state of the crosse, whan ma∣ryed cowples be cast of GOD, then haue they the moost present cōsolacions out of s•…•…riptures to conforte them, and to cause them to reioyce in theyr affliccion, as are the holy Psalmes of Dauid, we haue also the godly ensamples of the deare beloued faythefull seruauntes of God as were Iob, Abraham, Iacob. &c. Item the wordes * 1.226 of Christ. Who so wyll serue me, let him dayely take his crosse vpon hym and folow me. And in Ihon, and Paule is full of conforte in hys epi∣stles

specially. Hebreus x. Whan ony of the * 1.227 maryed personnes be tempted or troubled wyth syckenes or any other fortune, then shulde the to ther, conforte hym or her wythe these conforta∣ble ensamples, Psalmes and sentences of gods * 1.228 spirite of all consolacion, one suffryng wyth the tother, for so shall the affliccion and Crosse be the easylyer borne, and loue mutuall the more encreased. Trewe loue sheweth her selfe moost clearely in trouble and syckenes. And yf the one grudge at the tothers syckenes, he doth agaynst Gods wyll. And if he reioycethe at her, or she at hys affliccion, it is a token of lytle loue excepte hys reioyce be in the Lorde, so to conforme hym to the similitude of hys sonne Christ, that he myght be lyke hym in glory.

Paul cōmaundeth you to do to your seruaū tes, that y^t is iust and equall, louyngly & frendly * 1.229 vsynge them, remembrynge that ye your selues haue a master in heauen, learne of Iob also the same, for your seruauntes are of Goddes crea∣cion as wel as ye, derely beloued and hys chosen children also, yea and your brothren and systers in Christ. Let them therfore for theyr laboures haue theyr conuenient food and wages, be not bytter, harde, nor iniuriouse vnto them in no wyse.

A great offence it is before God to kepe the

labourynge seruauntes wages frō hym. Iames * 1.230 sayth vnto such rytch mē. Beholde the hyer of y^• labourers that haue reaped downe youre feldes which hyer ye haue kept backe by fraude, cryeth and the complaynt of the labourers is entred in to the eares of the Lorde of Sabbaoth.

Ye haue had good dayes vpon erth, and lyued at your pleasure and delyghted your hartes, but it is only agaynst the daye of your slaughter. So Iames sayth that the defraudynge of mens wages wyll be at last a slaughter. Many men vse theyr seruauntes as slaues and beastes, and therfore is theyr ertorted seruyce vnprofitable & vnfaythfull to suche cruell masters, more fayth∣full is the seruice done of loue, than for feare & compulsion.

Agayne the seruauntes must laye a parte all euel condicions, prydevnfaythfulnes, brawlyng * 1.231 and murmurynge, pyckyng and tales tellynge, remembryng Paules exhortacion, sayeng, ye ser uauntes be obedient to your masters with feare and tremblynge in singlenes of youre herte, as vnto Christ, not with eye seruice as mē plesers, but euen as the seruaunt of Christ, that ye may do the wyll of GOD from your hartes wyth•…•… good wyll. Thyncke that ye serue the Lorde and not men.

¶ The. xviii. Chapter.

How chyldren shuld be well and godly brought vp.

GReate ioye & quietnes it bryngethe to the * 1.232 parētes to se theyr childrē godly & vertue ously brought vp. And agayne, besydes y^e sorow y^t euell brought vp chyldrē bring to theyr parentes, yet shall they render a strayght reke∣nyng to God for theyr euell bryngynge vp of them. The women shulde noryshe theyr owne chyldren wyth theyr owne brestes or els yf they maye not for weaknes, yet oughte they to seke honeste and godlye nourses of sober lyuynge that wyth theyr mylke they myght drinkin also vertewe. And the parētes especiallye the mo∣ther must endeuour to speake fyrst to the chyld perfectly playne and •…•…ncte wordes, for as they be fyrst enformed to speake so they wyll contynew. Caius and Tyberius the sonnes of * 1.233 Cornelia Grachy were ornate and eloquent in theyr speche for theyr mother was eloquent of tongue.

And euen from theyr infancy forth let the parentes teach theyr •…•…hyldren no fables nor ly∣es nor no vayne nor lyght communicaciō but that onely which is godly, honest, graue and frutefull let it be planted in theyr new hertes.

They must teach them fyrst certayne godly sentences, though they yet can not vnderstande

them, yet let them commende them to memo∣ry and practyse them in speche tyll they maye here after the better perceaue them, as are these folowyng.

As certaynely as thou seyst the heauens and * 1.234 the earth: so certaynly muste thou knowe, that ther is one īuysyble god, one alone for all suffy∣cient, hauing hys beyng of himselfe, & all crea∣tures ther being of him.

Heauen and earthe and all that was made, is of goddes owne creacyon. God is the mooste hyghe goodnes. Wythout God theris nothing good. God nedeth no creature to be ioynedde wyth hym in hys dedes and cownselles to for∣geue, dampne saue or healpe. It is he alone that vpholdeth all the wor•…•… preserueth it, and gy∣ueth euery thyng the lyfe & beynge, whyche it hath. He is louyng graciouse and mercyful to them that so beleue and trust vpon him.

God is trewe, and iuste, and holye in all hys workes, God loueth vertue, and hateth synne 〈◊〉〈◊〉 vyce. It is good that God commaundeth, and euell that he forbyddeth God punysheth synne & euell. A man must loue God aboue all thynges. He may not murmur agaynst god, but be wyl∣lynge and thankfull in all aduersite to beare it. He must call onely vpon God, and complayne to hym onely in all hys nede. And here muste

the chyldren be taught thus to praye. Oure fa∣ther * 1.235 which arte in heauē. &c. And to expresse the articles of our fayth distinctly & perfectely. And in processe of tyme lerne thē truly to vnderstād them, and the ten Commaundementes also by harte. Then teache them the Prouerbes of Sa∣lomon and the boke of the preachet, and such co∣monsentences as are these: Uertue excelleth all thynges. To lye is the moost shamefullvice of all. Thou shalte hurte no man, but profyt euery man. Speake euell of no man. Backebyte nor curse no man. All men are brethren. And suche lyke godly sentences, lette them be planted into yonge hartes. Aboue all thynges shall the parē∣tes vse godly & honest cōuersaciō in y^• presence of theyr chyldren, teache them more vertue & good∣nes, than theyr wordes. For wordes althoughe they maye do muche, yet shall good ensamples of lyuynge do more to the yougth. Let not your chyldren be conuersaunt wytheuell persons and lyght company, lette them not heare vicious nor wanton communicacion, nor se no synfull sygh tes. The parentes must vse them selues before * 1.236 them as before GOD and all honest people. Cato the wyse Senatour of Rome expelled Ti tus Flaminius out of the counsell, only because that in the syghte of hys yonge doughter he em∣brased his wyfe.

Christen folke shulde remember the fearfull * 1.237 sentence of Christ, sayeng: Who so euer geueth occasion of euell to any of these yonge chyldren that beleue in me, it were better forhym to be drowned wyth a mylstone tyed about his neck▪ Thou must diligētly beware, lest any in thyne house gyue any euell ensample and speke that at naught is in theyr presence. And take hede leest thou receaue any persone into thyne house, that maye ether by worde or dede corrupte thy chyl∣dren or seruauntes. Remember that euell speach maye soone corrupte & destroy that which thou hast bene long in plantyng & buyldynge. Wan∣ton and euell communicacion (sayth Paul) con∣rupteth good manners. And begynne by tymers * 1.238 to plante vertue in thy chyldrennes brestes: for late sowynge bryngethe a late or neuer an apte haruest. Yong braunches wyl be bowed as thou lystest•…•…, but olde trees wyll sooner breake than •…•…ow. And what soeuer good liquour is put first into a newe •…•…arthen potte, it wyll kepe the sent therof euer after, if it therin stand any ceason.

And as for the yeares to set the chylde to the scole, fyrst considre the apte, sharpenes of witte therof, for some are apte at fyue yeares, & some not before syxe or seuen yeares. And what they shall be fyrst taught, it is tolde before.

And here must ye chose out discrete, learned &

godly masters for your chyldren, which shall 〈◊〉〈◊〉 * 1.239 cordyng to theyr capacities •…•…ently & wysely en∣structe them, as is contayned in theyr primers in Englysh and dialoges as are there made for them, whiche whan they can read both prynted and written letters, and can well commyt that y^• they haue l•…•…rned to memory, sayēg it distinct ly & perfectly by hart, t•…•…ē let thē learne to write to cas•…•… a compte, to •…•…yfre, adde, subtray, &c. And let them exercyse theyr penne and theyr tonges * 1.240 in readyng diuerse prynted bokes pertaynynge to the holye scriptures, and come to & heare the trewe prech•…•…rs of Gods word, and in ony wyse let them not heare the papistike preachers, and whan they come home from any good sermone aske thē what they haue borne awaye, & exhort them to marke diligently another tyme and to rehearse it when they come home. Let them saye the gra•…•…es at the tables. Let thē prepare the ta∣ble & serue you therat clenly and manerly. Let thē spend all the tyme in vertuous vses & neuer be ydle, for the tyme of yougth is preciouse and * 1.241 passeth away swyftly. Be ye circumspecte, o pa rentes in fedyng and apparellyng your childrē let thē not be paumpered vp to dilicately withe meates & wines, nor yet arayed to sumptuously & proudly. Daniel was as wel lyking & as pure of cōplexion with a messe of potage euery daye

〈◊〉〈◊〉 a draft of water as were they y^• were fedeuery * 1.242 daye of the kynges table. Excesse of meates & drynckes in yougth and gorgious apparell is y^• dore vnto glotony, dronckennes & lecherye, and the way to pryde & al maner of vyce neuer to be pluckte from thē in age. For the which enormi∣ties & vyces, theyr parentes & vp bryngers shal gyue strayght rekenyng vnto God, let not thy yougth rūne out of thy dores nether by day nor nyght without thy lycence: and take a rekening of theyr behauyoure in thyne absence. Suffre thē not to come into any lyght wantō cōpany.

Se that ye correcte thē dewly & discretely for * 1.243 theyr faultes, so that they stand in great feare & awe of the, and if wordes wyl not reclayme thē than take the rod or weapō of correcciō discrete ly vsed. For the rodde of correccion ministreth wysedome, but the chyld suffred to do what he listeth, is y^• confusiō of his mother. And who so spareth the rod hateth the childe, but he y^• loueth * 1.244 him, nourtereth him in tyme: the childes hert is ful of folyshnes, but the rod of correcciō driueth •…•…t forth. Better it is that chyldrē wepe thē olde men. Se that they pycke not, steale not, nor vse no vnlawfull games, be not to rough nor to ha∣stye weth them, but so order your selues to them that they maye both loue and feare you.

¶ The. xix. Chapter.

Chyldren wher vnto they be apte, lette them learne that science or handye crafte.

COnsyther well wherevnto thy chylde is naturally enclyned. And vnto that occu∣pacion let him be put to: many mē nowe a dayes al be it they se theyr chyldrē apt vnto let ters & good learnyng hauyng substaūce ynough to fynd thē therat, yet wyll they not suffer them to continewe therat, because thē selues cā not fa uour it, or els they se no aduauntage worldly f•…•… low, but great trouble & •…•…secuciō, which world∣ly mē in thus doyng declare thē selues vngodly destroyers both of them selues theyr childrē & of all common weales & congregacions. For what publique weal, towne, cyte or parysh can be wel gouerned, wythout y^• Prince, ruler, preste, or bi * 1.245 shop be lerned in gods lawe, Prophetes and in his gospel? what is the cause of all this dissensiō cruell persecucion, tyranny, euell lawes making vniust actcs, false religion, wycked ordinaunces & vngodly decrees & institucions, but onely the blynd ignoran̄ce of vnlerned rulers? which mea sure all thyng after theyr owne fonde fleshly af∣fectes and reason besydes all scriptures: & wolde haue theyr owne carnal wylles to stonde in the steade, yea rather to be aboue God & hys lawes. In tymes paste, when men sawe so many spiri∣tuall promocions vnto rytch bysshoprykes, be∣nefices,

deanrykes, Abbayes; Pryories, chaun∣celershyps. &c, then they dyd set fast theyr childrē to scole, to make them popysh prestes, ydelly to lyue by other mennes sweates, but nowe they se howe laborouse and perellouse an office it is to preach and to teache Gods worde purely, freely and faythfully. And how vnthankeful an office it is to rule cominalties after iustyce and equi∣te, and what an heuye intollerable laboure it is to minister iustyce and iudgement after Gods worde, lookyng for no aduauntage, but to be a comon seruāt for the comon wealth sustayning suche intollerable burdens, labours and perels, as the offyce dewly ministred askethe, no man is glad to haue his chylde learned vnto such vn∣profitable and laborouse endes. It was once an holy sacrifyce to God for a manne to dedicate his doughter or sonne vnto Frāces, Clare, Be∣net, Thomas, Austen, Mary. &c. ydelly to lyue in all fylthines, whā riches, dignites & worlde∣ly vayne worshyp and priuate profyt followed or rather whē they gredely aspired and folowed it. But nowe whan the comon laboure, godly∣nes, and the publique profit of all comō weales & congregacions depend vpon it, no mā regar∣deth nether good learnyng nor vertue, so far of are they nowe to set theyr chyldren to godly sco les. When yougth was nothynge apte to good

letters, and when there was no good learnyng nor no good teachers, then well was he y^• might sette his chyld to scole. But nowe when yougth was neuer so apteto good learnyng as it is this daye, learnynge, & good letters neuer so plente∣ously floryshyng, restored and redact into such acompendious clere brifnesse, neuer so good, di∣ligent and learned masters, neuer so plenty of so good and playn bokes prynted, neuer so good cheape, the holy Ghost as it were into mennes mouthes mercifully offerynge hys gyftes, and yet wyll there no man open his mouth, his ey∣es to se so cleare lyght, nor his eares to heare so pure, manifest and holesome doctrine, euen the worde of theyr owne saluacion. For oure vn∣thanckefulnes, therfore all these infinite heauē∣ly benefites shall be takē frō vs, & giuē to some other naciō, as to the Turkes & Iewes, whyche shall thanckefullyer then we receaue them. And we shall haue the popysh prestes wyth all papi∣strye haltered and captiued vnder hardenecked Pharao in myer and claye neuer to be delyue∣red out of that yerney seruitude of his intollera ble bondage.

But nowe therfore O ye Christen parentes seyng that your yougth is now by the fauoure * 1.246 of God endewed wyth so good wyttes & encly∣ned vnto good letters, let not the graces & gyf∣tes

of God be offred you in vayne, but exercyse them in good autors both Greke & Latine, and in noble hi•…•…ortes, in Logyke, Rethoryke, and in the tonges, let them read the holy Byble, and commend it to memory, & so shall they in tyme to come be profitable vnto the comon wealthe, whervnto they be borne.

And such as are apte to handy occupacions, let them b•…•… set to thē which be moost profitable & necessary for a cōmon weale, as for payntyng & keruynge wyth suche lyke, they are more •…•…ucy∣ouse than necessary, And consyder that al•…•…ust and true occupacions iustly erercysed and vsed, Goddes blessyng maketh them to prosper, and the truedoers and labourers in theyr callynge hys blyssyng make them rytch Euery man to put his chyld to that master which is moost ex cellent and connyng in that craft, it is no nede to monyshe, nor to exhorte your chyldren to be trewe, of fewe wordes, faythfull in dedes and promises, diligent and seruiseable to euery man obedient to theyr masters, clenly, quycke, hand∣some and wyllyng to do theyr commaundemen tes.

Nowe when thou hast perfectely learned thy * 1.247 crafte, it shall be profitable for the to trauel into straung countryes, to se the workyng and hād lynge therof amonge other nacions, wherby

ether thyselfe mayst lerne both a perfayter prac¦tyse and also more experience, or els they of the maye learne the same into thy nowne profyte. And in so trauaylynge holde thy selfe modeste, styll and sobre, medlynge not beyonde thyn own facultye. Be ientle, frendely, faythfull and cur∣teous to them, conformynge thy selfe vnto theyr honest fashions and godly manners, Beware of euell company & dronkennes, beware of lyght & wanton women, learne no vyce nor euell ma∣ners of them, but only vertue & such occupaciōs as are profitable, bryng home cōnyng & vertue & no syn nor euell maners, of which thou shalte se to much, & to lytle of that good is. Cutte clo∣thes & iagged & al to hagged hosen disfigure and deforme honest persons, & declare lyght mē and wantonnes in thy harte.

But before all these experiences seakynge, se that thou prouidest thy chyldren honest mates (if they desyre it) and let thē rather togither liue at home, and not the one to departe anye longe tyme from the tother for trauaylynge in straūge countreyes, bryng some yonge euell disposed per sons into great inconueniences and noughty li∣uyng, as it was wonte to be sayde of the Rome runners neuer to be good after.

¶ The. xx, Chapter

LEt not your yōg daughters be to proudly * 1.248 & costly appareld, but modestly & honestly for thys gorgyouse apparel is not els but a minstrelsy, pypyng vp a daūce vnto al lechery * 1.249 Remēbre that Peter saithr That the apparel of wemen maye not be vtwarde inbroydred, oute layd hear which is an whorishe fashyon, nor in hangyng on of golde, or puttynge on of costelye gorgious flaryng clothes, &c. The vtward light apparell declareth a corrupt proude and sinfull inward hert. Let shamefastnes chastite, mo∣desty, mekenes few wordes sadnes and sobryete be the yong womans aparell to sette forthe hyr bewtye. For after thys maner, in the olde tyme sayth Peter were holy yonge wemen decked of theyr matrōs, & were obedient to theyr housban∣des, As was Sara vnto Abrahā, callynge hym Lorde, whose doughters ye are as longe as ye do well: Let the examples of Rebecca and Ra∣chell be at youre eyes, whyche godlye and fayer women desyryng and sekynge the loue of theyre husbondes were glad to please them, Learne al∣so * 1.250 of Paul howe to tyer your selues: Bewar•…•… ye wound not your pouerty and proud hert and to precious and sumptuouse apparell, yf ye wyl go forthe in your prowde araye, so neglecte you the doctrine of god and procure youre selues dāp nacion.

But yf ye saye, ye decke your selues to be the more clenely, & so to please youre husbandes, I tell you agayne, that ther is a meane & measure in euery thynge, & accordynge to euerye state & degree theris a comlye apparell, whych comely∣nes and measure no honest husbond nor honest wyfe wylbe glad to trāsgresse & exceade. Such eccesse & pryde maye procure the dyshonestye & harme to thy husbonde.

As for ientle wemen & suche, as are of noble * 1.251 byrthe, whether they maye excede in lyght & wā ton apparell, or in apparell to costly. I wyl first as•…•… them whether they be Christen & faythfull wemen or vnfaythfull? If they be vnbeleuers then let them walke as they liste. And the more gorgyouse tenderlynges they be, the better shall they please theyr head the dyuyll. And seynge th y haue wantō proude sprytes, they muste ne∣des haue lyke garmentes to declare what they b•…•… within in herte and mynde, wyth these we∣men I wyll not wrestle. But yf they be Chry∣sten faythfull wemen, they maye well knowe that the holy Apostles Peter and Paule haue wrytē theyr erhortaciōs for sober apparell, vn∣to them which haue such ryche Iewels, stones, gold & syluer, & not to poore women, that haue them not. Seyng then that the word of God is pryncypally spoken to you that be ientle womē

of noble parentel whych haue these ryches and Iewels to laye thē awaye wyth all youre pōpe and pryde, & wylbe taken for Chrysten folkes, then folowe you the exhortations of the myny∣sters of Iesu Christ. * 1.252

Moreouer ye shulde remember what is the very nobilite, & what maketh gentle men and wemē, that it is not apparell, but m•…•…kenes, gen tle behauyour, discrete conuersacyon, prudence, wysdome, lernynge & vertue. And they that in Chryst Iesu are baptysed, are baptysed into one body of Chryst, where we are all one & no diffe∣rence betwixte noble nor bloude, poore nor ritch Galat. iii. And therfore in thys respecte there is no boast to be made of bloude, but remember y^• •…•…oble quene Hester, whych sayde: Thou kno∣west my state o Lorde, & that I hate the sygne of preemynence & worshyp whych I beare vpon my head, what tyme I must go forth to be sene & that I abhorre it as an vncleane clothe, and that I weare it not whan I am quyet alone by * 1.253 my self. GOD therfore hath geuen you ryches to dystrybute them to the poore, & not to mayn tayne your pryde therwyth. So were Iewelles bestowed euen amonge the Heathē, for at Ro∣me was a lawe called Lex Oppia, wherby all pompe & excesse of rayment was forbodden all honeste wemen, & they were commaunded that

none (how myghty or rytche soeuer they were) shulde not weare aboue an vnce of golde vpon theyr bodies.

Cypriane sayeth that wemen, albe it they * 1.254 be ryche, yet therfore ought they not to vse the more pompe & pryde, but to knowe those onelye to be riche, which are ernest in godlye workes, & helpyng the poore. A shamefull and blasphe∣mous thynge it is, to weare syluer, golde, vel∣uets * 1.255 and sylkes, and to suffer the poore to want clothes & foode. yee she that proudlye decketh her selfe, destroyeth hyr owne soule, & geuethe other folkes occasyon of destruccyon. For she stereth vp euell affeccyons and lustes in them that be∣holde hyr, yee such one is poyson and swearde to thē that se her. Nether may suche gorgyouse fla rynge prowde wemen be iudged godlye nor ho∣nest. * 1.256 And therfore sayde Paul, That euerye woman comming into the church to pray or to heare the worde preached must be honestly coue red, and especially hyr heade, for yf she come in bare headed or shewyng any parte of her heare * 1.257 (as some saye it out, and manye haue borowed heare) she dishonest hyr head whych is hyr hous∣band: let them therfore be decked and koueredde wyth comely veales for the angelles whyche are thē ministers and messāgers of God And what madnes were it to come into the church vnder

a pretence of humblenes to pray to God for gra ce, wher by such proude fashyons thou prouo∣kest hys heuy wrath vpō the? It were better for such people to be thrust into a sacke, with a myl stone hanged aboute theyr neckes (as Christ sai eth) drowned, then thus to offende anye one of the least in the congregacyon.

What shame God threateneth vnto suche prowde personnes, ye maye reade Esa. iii. say∣ynge: That for theyr chaynes of golde the shall haue halters of hempe and fetters and colers of yerne for theyr muske and pomaunders, they shal haue stynke for theyr brodred heare euerye man shall se them balde, and for theyr stoma∣chers of golde they shall weare sack, whyche all wythe a myserable destruccion of Israhell and Iuda by theAssiryans and Babylonites came iustlye to passe in the dayes of these kynges Ioa chas Ioakim and Zedechias, Wherfore let * 1.258 euery honest woman accordyng to hyr state & abilite be comely clenly and honestely apparel∣led auoydynge all sluttishnes and vnclennelye∣nes, and so teche theyre chyldren and refrayne from all excesse and super fluite, that God may be praysed & noman offēded at your apparel, ra ther garnished with vertue & vtward honestye thē w^t pryde whych procureth you euuye, and it wyll in conclusion haue a shamefull fall.

¶ The. xxi. Chapter.

¶ Howe daughters and maydens must be kepte.

NOw to returne to yong daughters how * 1.259 they shuld be enstru•…•…t in prayer & know lege of theyr christē religiō according as it is set forth in dialoges & institutions of y^e chri stians, yet shall they not be to busy in teachyng & reasoning openlye, but there to vse sylence and to learne at home, openly to heare, and at home let them reasone and teache eche other. Neyther wold I nothaue them euer shutte vp, as it were in cage, neuer to speake nor to come forthe, but * 1.260 sometymes to se the good fasshions and honest behauiour of other for to kepe thē euer in mew is ynough eyther to make thē starcke fooles, or •…•…lles to make thē naughtes, whē they shal once come abroad into company. As for this thyng, euery discrete parente shall knowe by the afore∣sayd rules howe to order them, to auoyd all wā tonnes and nycenesse in wordes, gestures and dedes, to eschewe all vnhonest games and passe tymes, to auoyd all vnhonest loues and occasi∣ons of the same, as vnhonest daunsynge, wan∣ton communicacion, company wythe rybaldes and fylthy speakers, teache them to auerte theyr syght and sences from all such inconueniences, let them auoyd ydlenes, be occupied ether doinge

some profitable thyng for your family, or e•…•…es * 1.261 readynge some godly boke, lette them not reade bokes of fables, of fond and lyght loue, but call vpon God to haue pure hartes and chaste, that they might cleue only to theyr spouse Christ vn to hym maryed by fayth, which is the moost pu rest wedlock of vs all, pure virgins, beyng both maried and vnmaried. Euell wordes, saythe Paul, corrupte good manners, vnclennes and couetousnes, let them not once be named amōg * 1.262 you, nor no foolysh rybaldry talkyng, nor light testyng, which are not comely, but be occupied in prayers and thankesgyuynge. Bokes of Ro∣byn hood, Beues of Hampton, Tro•…•…us, & such lyke fables do but kyndle in lyers lyke lyes and wanton loue, which ought not in yougth wyth theyr fyrst spettle to be dronckē in, lest they euer remayne in them. If ye delyght to synge songes ye haue the Psalmes and many godly songes & bokes in Englysh right frutefull & swete. Take the new Testament in your handes, & study it diligently, & learne your profession in baptyme to mortify your flesh, and to be reuyued in the spirite, learne the vse of the Lordes supper, to re member his death, and to gyue hym perpetuall thankes for thy redempciō. Mothers must also teache theyr doughters to worcke, to loue theyr husbandes and chyldren. And lette them laye

their handes to spynne, sewe, weaue. etc, For * 1.263 the noblest wemen, bothe amonge the Heathen Romans and Grekes & Hebrewes had greate commendacyons for theyr houswyfly working wyth theyr handes, as ye maye reade of Salo∣mon, sayenge: He that fyndeth an honest fayth∣full * 1.264 woman, she is more worth then precious perles. The herte of her husband maye safelye trust to her. All the dayes of hyr lyfe wyll she seke hys profit. She occupieth woll and flaxe, and laboureth gladly wyth her handes, She is lyke a marchauntes shippe. et ce. It is expedient that a man handfast not his daughter before he hath good experience of hyr housewyfrye, & go uerning of an house. For it becometh hir better to haue a payer of roughe and harde handes, then tobe fayer & softe glisteryng with rynges * 1.265 or kouered cōtynually wyth smothe gloues. And let the parentes be ware that they bryng them not vp to tenderly wantōly and delicately or to nycely. And at dew tyme let thē be prouyded for so that they maye gouerne theyr owne houses wyth theyr owne husbandes.

Thus moche haue I spoken concernyng ho∣ly wedlock accordyng to the Scriptures of god Desyryng all men, that shall reade thys lytyll treatyse hereby to take an occasyon to hate and deteste all vnclennes, & godly to embrace holye

wedlocke, which is honorable among all person∣nes, and so to lead theyr lyfe here in all godlynes and honeste, that after theyr departure oute of this world, they may reygne for euermore in perpetuall glorye with the Bryde. grome Iesus Christ, to whome be all honoure and prayse worldes w^tout ende.

AMEM.

¶ Gyue the glory to God alone.

Notes

• * 1.1

  The p•…•…ate Gen. ii. Playnelye •…•…ed
• * 1.2

  Wed locke was institu∣ted of God 〈◊〉〈◊〉 •…•…aradyse.
• * 1.3

  The creaci•…•… of the wom•…•…
• * 1.4

  Adā & Eu•…•… were maried togither.
• * 1.5

  Occasion of loue and con sent into ma riage.
• * 1.6

  The knotte & coueuaunt of mariage.
• * 1.7

  Wedlock•…•…
• * 1.8

  Ayo kyng together.
• * 1.9

  What wed lacke is.
• * 1.10

  Onemā an•…•… one woman.
• * 1.11

  Let not man separate y^• God hathe coupled togi ther.
• * 1.12

  Diuor•…•…
• * 1.13

  Statutes & lawes matri montall ma∣de by rulers.
• * 1.14

  Religiō and faythe must be considred
• * 1.15

  What it is to beare a 〈◊〉〈◊〉 yoke
• * 1.16

  An obiection
• * 1.17

  The soluciō
• * 1.18

  Marke wel.
• * 1.19

  Preuy con∣tractes.
• * 1.20

  Note.
• * 1.21

  E•…•…d. xx. Chyldrenne must honour theyr paren∣tes. Isaac.
• * 1.22

  Sampson.
• * 1.23

  Note thys precepte.
• * 1.24

  Chyldrē may make no vo we nor pro∣myse 〈◊〉〈◊〉 the parentes consent.
• * 1.25

  Mēstealers
• * 1.26

  The eiuile lawe.
• * 1.27

  Note.
• * 1.28

  Themisto∣cles
• * 1.29

  Virtus post nu•…•…os.
• * 1.30

  A good ad∣monicion.
• * 1.31

  Mariage be fore the time
• * 1.32

  The consent
• * 1.33

  The wil of mariage com meth of god.
• * 1.34

  Maryages are appoyn∣ted and pre∣pared of god
• * 1.35

  Sata.
• * 1.36

  Rebecca.
• * 1.37

  Note well.
• * 1.38

  The inordi∣nate affecciō of yong fol∣lies.
• * 1.39

  The inordi∣nate affecciō of parentes.
• * 1.40

  Unreasona∣ble parētes ought not to haue they•…•… wylles.
• * 1.41

  Marke wel.
• * 1.42

  To brynge forth childrē
• * 1.43

  Gene. ii.
• * 1.44

  What a tre∣sure it is to •…•…aue frute.
• * 1.45

  The vngod∣ly hate to be frutefull.
• * 1.46

  To auoyde whoredome
• * 1.47

  Note.
• * 1.48

  The worke of martimo ny is no syn.
• * 1.49

  Marke wel.
• * 1.50

  Math. ix.
• * 1.51

  〈◊〉〈◊〉.
• * 1.52

  Uirginite is & holy & ex cellent thing.
• * 1.53

  Deflouryng of virgins.
• * 1.54

  M•…•…asure & shamefast∣nesse.
• * 1.55

  i. Co•…•…. 〈◊〉〈◊〉
• * 1.56

  To auoyd•…•… solitarinesse, to helpe & cō fort one ano ther.
• * 1.57

  The opera∣cion of wed∣locke.
• * 1.58

  Wedlocke is holy and ho∣nourable▪
• * 1.59

  Marke w•…•…
• * 1.60

  Genes•…•… The 〈1 line〉〈1 line〉
• * 1.61

  Math. i. 〈◊〉〈◊〉
• * 1.62

  Luke. i.
• * 1.63

  Ioan. ii▪
• * 1.64

  A great 〈◊◊◊◊〉〈◊◊◊◊〉 ma∣ryed 〈◊〉〈◊〉
• * 1.65

  Whoredome defylethe the members of Christ which is thy owne body.
• * 1.66

  ☞
• * 1.67

  Whroedome robbeth god of his owne.
• * 1.68

  i. Pet. i:
• * 1.69

  Whoredome •…•…he •…•…he 〈◊〉〈◊〉 of god
• * 1.70

  〈◊〉〈◊〉 for∣•…•… •…•…s a •…•…ous sin.
• * 1.71

  Whoredome shut mē oute of heauen.
• * 1.72

  Whoredome spoylethe a mā of his ho neste body 〈◊〉〈◊〉 good.
• * 1.73

  The French pockes, how it •…•…yrst came
• * 1.74

  Whorem•…•…n∣gers haue no rest.
• * 1.75

  Whores are insa•…•…able 〈◊〉〈◊〉 haue neuer inough.
• * 1.76

  The ende of whoredome is beggery.
• * 1.77

  Stewes.
• * 1.78

  Obiection.
• * 1.79

  Marke wel.
• * 1.80

  Mariage (saye they) ma•…•…eth m•…•…∣ny beggers.
• * 1.81

  ☜
• * 1.82

  Whoredome
• * 1.83

  Wanion coū sayle.
• * 1.84

  Ephe. vi
• * 1.85

  Ho we God plaged ad∣•…•…ontry befo∣re y^• law c•…•… wrytten.
• * 1.86

  A goodly ex∣ample.
• * 1.87

  Marke this well: 〈◊〉〈◊〉 once be ashamed ye wyllfull whoremon∣gers.
• * 1.88

  The punysh mente of •…•…d∣uoutry in the law of God.
• * 1.89

  How aduou try was pu∣nished amōg the hethen. Lex Lepre ianorum.
• * 1.90

  Lex Zalen ci. A good ensā ple for noble men.
• * 1.91

  Germani,
• * 1.92

  Lex opil•…•…
• * 1.93

  Lex Iulia,
• * 1.94

  Why aduou trye was so sore punished
• * 1.95

  what aduou try is.
• * 1.96

  Wedlocke.
• * 1.97

  Marke and take hede.
• * 1.98

  Aduoutry 〈◊〉〈◊〉 theft compa red y^• one to∣ward y^• other by Salomō.
• * 1.99

  Whoredome shall come to lyght.
• * 1.100

  Alteracions and aliena•…•…i ons of here∣tages.
• * 1.101

  Aduoutry in womenne is moost to be abhorred.
• * 1.102

  What a sea of euylles en sue outof ad uoutry.,
• * 1.103

  The defence which adul∣terers vse.
• * 1.104

  Death was the punyshe∣ment of ad∣uoutry.
• * 1.105

  The aduou∣try of dauid
• * 1.106

  The aduou∣tresse broght before christ
• * 1.107

  Repentaūce.
• * 1.108

  Ther•…•… lyeth muche way∣ght in y^• elec∣cion of thy •…•…ate.
• * 1.109

  A godly and not a •…•…leensā ple:
• * 1.110

  What the e∣lec•…•…ion is.
• * 1.111

  Why mary•…•… age is cōtrac ted.
• * 1.112

  Thre man•…•… of rytche•…•… 〈◊〉〈◊〉 man.
• * 1.113

  Rytches of the 〈◊〉〈◊〉.
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  Language.
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  The feare of God.
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  Reputacion.
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  Garmentes.
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  Company.
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  The bryn∣gyng by.
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  Note:
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  Frowarde wycked qua lities of the mynde:
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  The des•…•…y∣sing of gods worde. ☜
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  vnshamefast ness. Lyeng.
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  Pryde.
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  The ryche•…•… of the body.
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  Beautye.
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  Healthe.
• * 1.128

  Marke well
• * 1.129

  Rytches of tēporall sub stau•…•…e.
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  Nobilite.
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  Temporall goodes.
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  Beware or •…•…ll be spent.
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  ☞
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  Handy craf tes.
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  Wynnyng 〈◊〉〈◊〉 occupyenge.
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  Honest pro∣uisio nought to be regar∣ded.
• * 1.137

  Whotte loue is •…•…one colde.
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  •…•…he effect of the eleccion.
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  Good lessō•…•… for chosynge 〈◊〉〈◊〉 wyfe.
• * 1.140

  A nota•…•…le en 〈◊〉〈◊〉 of y^• electiō and 〈◊〉〈◊〉 a•…•…d in y^• cause 〈◊〉〈◊〉 ma∣tr•…•….
• * 1.141

  Rebecca.
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  The proper tyes of a mayde that shulde •…•…e cho sen wyte.
• * 1.143

  The goodes of the mynd are more to be regarded thā the go•…•… des of y^• bo∣dy or of the worlde.
• * 1.144

  Gyftes in y^• waye of ma riage are •…•…oth laufull and cōmen∣dable. A prouer•…•…
• * 1.145

  A fourme of the •…•…rande in mariage.
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  Trueth in cōtrac•…•…ynge of mariage.
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  Marke this well.
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  Maried fol∣•…•…es go to the chyrch afore they lye togy ther.
• * 1.149

  The occasi∣ons & cōmo∣dities that commethe of this ordinās.
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  i.
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  ii.
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  iii.
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  iiii.
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  〈◊〉〈◊〉.
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  vi.
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  〈◊◊〉〈◊◊〉 weddynges.
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  How they •…•…ught to go to the chyrch for to be ma •…•…yed.
• * 1.158

  Synne & ex∣cesse cōmyt∣ted at wed∣dynges.
• * 1.159

  O abhomi∣nacion.
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  At an af∣ter supper.
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  A wicked cu stome.
• * 1.162

  Conuenient and honeste myrth.
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  A goodly to enlusion.
• * 1.164

  •…•…aunger in the fyrste •…•…o a habitacion.
• * 1.165

  Marke thys exāple well.
• * 1.166

  Howe mar∣ryed folkes ought to be∣haue thē sel∣ues whanne they fyrste dwell togy∣ther.
• * 1.167

  Howe they must behaue thēselues at theyr fyrst be yng togither
• * 1.168

  A good lessō both for the man and the wyfe.
• * 1.169

  Mark the•…•… g•…•…odly exa ple.
• * 1.170

  What ma∣ried folkes ow•…•… one to another.
• * 1.171

  The dewtye & obedience of wyues.
• * 1.172

  •…•…he husbād is the heade of the wyfe.
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  Howe y^• hus∣bande 〈◊〉〈◊〉 the head.
• * 1.174

  How the wy¦ues muste o¦beye and be∣haue them sel¦ues.
• * 1.175

  The dewtys and loue of husbandes.
• * 1.176

  How menne shoulde loue theyr wyues.
• * 1.177

  ☞
• * 1.178

  •…•…ow holy 〈◊〉〈◊〉 thynge loue matrimoni∣all i•…•….
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  A man 〈◊〉〈◊〉 loue his wife as his owne body.
• * 1.180

  The worde of God and prayer.
• * 1.181

  One harte 〈◊〉〈◊〉 wyll.
• * 1.182

  One castuo•…•… another in y^• teth.
• * 1.183

  •…•…eruice and •…•…wshyp.
• * 1.184

  Obsequiou•…•… 〈◊〉〈◊〉.
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  Thynges 〈◊〉〈◊〉 be eschewed
• * 1.186

  Humilite 〈◊〉〈◊〉 gentylnes.
• * 1.187

  They muste secretly ke•…•…e no euell▪ myn des, but tell theyr grefe.
• * 1.188

  Chyldren 〈◊〉〈◊〉 gottē •…•…n ma riage
• * 1.189

  Pignus.
• * 1.190

  Mark thou wyf•…•….
• * 1.191

  To brynge forth childrē is y^• blessyng of god.
• * 1.192

  Childrē are wemēs be•…•… Iewels.
• * 1.193

  Paynes ta∣kyng about chyldren: is the crosse of the wyues.
• * 1.194

  Step chyl∣dren & ster•…•… mothers.
• * 1.195

  Marke well ye Mothers in lawe.
• * 1.196

  Trouth and faythe must be kepte.
• * 1.197

  Clenlynesse.
• * 1.198

  Note thys well.
• * 1.199

  Conuersaciō
• * 1.200

  Good 〈◊〉〈◊〉
• * 1.201

  Gelousy.
• * 1.202

  Women and horses muste be wel gouer ned.
• * 1.203

  Boasting or pray•…•…ynge.
• * 1.204

  Honeste is 〈◊〉〈◊〉 womās che∣fe treasure.
• * 1.205

  Behhueours wyth seruaū tes.
• * 1.206

  A good lessō for wyues.
• * 1.207

  Gene. xxx.
• * 1.208

  Math. vii.
• * 1.209

  Pro. xx.
• * 1.210

  Ordinate care
• * 1.211

  Ephe. i ii.
• * 1.212

  Luke. xii.
• * 1.213

  Theoutwar de busynesse pertaynethe to the man, y^• enward to y^• woman.
• * 1.214

  Gene. xxxi.
• * 1.215

  Psal. xxxvi.
• * 1.216

  The wyues must worcke wythein the house.
• * 1.217

  Phidias.
• * 1.218

  Comonsentē 〈◊〉〈◊〉 far the ke •…•…ng or thy •…•…ouses.
• * 1.219

  Mathe these sētences wel
• * 1.220

  i. Timo. 〈◊〉〈◊〉
• * 1.221

  Math xxv.
• * 1.222

  Luke. xxi.
• * 1.223

  Afflicciō tech to know god
• * 1.224

  Tribulatiō is fyer and salte.
• * 1.225

  i. Cor. xi.
• * 1.226

  Math. xvi Ioan. xvi.
• * 1.227

  H•…•…. xi. xii. xiii
• * 1.228

  Syckne•…•…
• * 1.229

  How seruaū tes must be in treated. Iob. xxxi.
• * 1.230

  Iac. v.
• * 1.231

  The dewty•…•… of seruaūte•…•…
• * 1.232

  Womē shuld •…•…ourse theyr own chyldrē
• * 1.233

  Caius & Ci berius.
• * 1.234

  Sentence•…•… to be taugh•…•… chyldren in theyr fyrst•…•… yonge age.
• * 1.235

  The Lorde•…•… prayer The articles of the fayth•…•… The ten com ma•…•…demētes The prouer∣bes of Salo mon.
• * 1.236

  Cato.
• * 1.237

  Mat. xviii.
• * 1.238

  Begynne b•…•…∣tymes.
• * 1.239

  The scole master.
• * 1.240

  Godly coun∣cell for the ryghte bryn, gynge vp of yougth.
• * 1.241

  Math. x.
• * 1.242

  Gorgio•…•… ap∣parell & deli∣ciou•…•… fare oughte to be exchewed in chyldren.
• * 1.243

  Correction.
• * 1.244

  pro, xxix. and xiii. xxii. and xxiii.
• * 1.245

  Why meune nowe set not theyr chyldrē to scole.
• * 1.246

  An exhortaci on to the chri •…•…en parēte•…•….
• * 1.247

  Trauay ling among stran gers.
• * 1.248

  yong wem•…•… apparell.
• * 1.249

  i. Pet iii.
• * 1.250

  i. Tim. ii.
• * 1.251

  Whether gē tle, wemenne •…•…ay go so •…•…y •…•…ly appa∣•…•…eled.
• * 1.252

  What 〈◊〉〈◊〉 y^• true nobil•…•… te.
• * 1.253

  Why ritche•…•… be gyuen to menne of no bilite.
• * 1.254

  •…•…yprian.
• * 1.255

  Mark thys well o ye gē •…•…il women
• * 1.256

  i▪ Cor. xi.
• * 1.257

  Marke Mala. ii.
• * 1.258

  xxii. cha. iiii. Lib. Reg. 〈◊〉〈◊〉. •…•…o forth.
• * 1.259

  〈◊〉〈◊〉.
• * 1.260

  Good coun∣sel for mens daughters & maydes.
• * 1.261

  Bokes of 〈◊〉〈◊〉 bles of fon•…•… & lyght lou•…•… women ought not t•…•… reade.
• * 1.262

  Ephe. v.
• * 1.263

  Lerne them to worke.
• * 1.264

  Pr•…•…. xixi.
• * 1.265

  Fay•…•… han∣ded and ten∣der fyngered women are not to be praysed.