the rather, because the very neglect thereof, hath caused sundrie persons, to remaine vn∣comforted for many yeares.
IV. Fourthly, the partie distressed, must ne∣uer heare tell of any fearefull accidents, or of any that haue bin in like, or worse case then himselfe is. For vpon the very report, the distressed conscience will fasten the accident vpon it selfe, and thereby commonly will be drawne to deeper griefe or despaire. The mind affli∣cted is prone to imagine searefull things, and sometime, the very bare naming of the De∣uill, will strike terrour and feare into it.
V. Fiftly, the partie that is to comfort, must beare with all the wants of the distres∣sed; as with their frowardnes, peeuishnes, rashnes, and with their distempered and dis∣ordered affections and actions: yea he must put vpon him (as it were) their persons, bee∣ing affected with their miserie, and touched with compassion of their sorrowes, as if they were his owne, grieuing when he seeth them to grieue, weeping when they doe weepe and lament.
VI. Sixtly, he that is the comforter, must not be discouraged, though after long la∣bour and paines taking, there follow small comfort and ease, to the partie distressed. For men wil often bewray their stiffenes in temptation, and vsually it is long be∣fore comfort can be receiued; and why? surely because God hath the greatest stroke