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a foote to the lame. 2. Cor. 8. 2. To their power, yea beyond their power, they were willing. And that we doe, we must doe speedily. Prov. 3.28. Say not to thy neigh∣bour, Goe and come againe to morrow, and I will giue thee, if thou now haue it. Levit. 19.17. Thou shalt plainly rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer him to sinne.
Thirdly, concerning such iniuries, as he offereth vnto thee: I. Thou shalt not be angrie against him, vpon a small occasion. Nomb. 12. 3. Moses was a meeke man aboue all that liued vpon the earth. Prov. 9.11. The discretion of a man deferreth his anger, and his glorie is to passe by an offence. II. Thou must be slow to wrath, and neuer angrie, but for a most iust cause. Mark. 3.5. Then he looked round about on them angerly, mourning also for the hardnesse of their hearts. Prov. 14.29. He that is slow to wrath, is of great wisdome: but he that is of an hastie minde exalteth follie. III. Thine anger must be but for a while. Eph. 4. 26. Be an∣grie and sinne not, let not the sunne goe downe vpon thy wrath. IV. Forgiue free∣ly an iniurie, and reuenge it not. Eph. 4. 32. Be ye courteous one to another, and tender hearted, forgiuing one another, euen as God for Christs sake forgaue you.
Fourthly, his wants and infirmities: 1. Auoid occasions whereby they may be stirred and laid open. Gen. 13.8. Then said Abraham to Lot, Let there be no strife I pray thee, betweene thee and me, neither betweene thy heardsmen and mine: for we are brethren. 9. Is not the whole land before thee? depart, I pray thee, from me: If thou wilt take the left hand, I will take the rights or if thou goe to the right hand, I will take the left. Gen. 27.44. And tarie with him a while vntill thy brothers fierce∣nesse be asswaged, 45. And till thy brothers wrath turne away from thee, and he for∣get the things which thou hast done to him. 2. Depart somtimes from thine owne right. Mat. 17.25,26. What thinkest thou Simon? of whō doe the kings of the earth take tribute, or poll money? of their children, or of strangers? Peter said vnto him, Of strangers. Then said Iesus vnto him, Then are the children free. 27. Neuertheles, lest we should offend thē, go to the sea, and cast in an angle, & take the first fish that com∣meth vp, and when thou hast opened his mouth, thou shalt finde a piece of twentie pence: that take and giue it vnto them for me and thee. 3. To appease anger kind∣led: which is done, I. by ouercomming euill with goodnes. Rom. 12.21. Be not ouercome of euill, but ouercome euill with goodnes. II. By following after peace. 1. Pet. 3.11. Decline from euill, and doe good, seeke peace, and follow after it. III. By courteous answers. Prou. 15. 1. A soft answer putteth away wrath: but grieuous words stir vp anger. 1. Sam. 1.14. Eli said vnto her, How long wilt thou be drunken? put away thy drunkennes from thee. 15. Then Hannah answered, and saide, Nay my Lord, but I am a woman troubled in spirit: I haue drunke neither wine nor strong drinke, but haue poured out my soule, before the Lord. Philem. v. 15. It may be that he therefore departed for a season, that thou shouldest receiue him for euer. IV. By ouerpassing some wants and infirmities in mens words and deedes. Prou. 19.11. It is a mans honour to passe by infirmities. V. By couering thē with silence. 1. Pet. 4.8. Aboue all things haue feruent loue amongst you, for loue coue∣reth a multitude of sinnes. Prou. 17.9. He that couereth transgression, seeketh loue: but he that repeateth a matter, separateth the Prince. VI. By taking euery thing (if it be possible) in the best part. 1. Cor. 13. 5. Loue thinketh none euill.
This sheweth the lawfulnes of truces, couenants, & other agreements con∣cerning peace, being made to auoid iniuries, maintaine ancient bounds, pro∣cure