Three especiall reasons there are why a man hath the pre∣rogatiue to be a Bridegroome.
1. The gift and consent of the Parents.
2. The loue and choice of the party, that is the Bride∣groome.
3. The willing consent and liking of the Bride.
1. Ioh. 17 6, 9, 11, 23, 25. The Church, is the gift of the Fa∣ther.
2. Ephes. 5.25. Act. 20.28. Hos. 2.19, 20. The loue and choice of Christ, Ephes. 5.26.
3. Cant. 2.16. Ephes. 5.24. The good liking and willing o∣be••ience of the Church.
This then is the prerogatiue that is due onely to Christ.
Vse. This commends vnto vs the great loue of Christ in vouchsafing this honour to the Church, to debase himselfe so farre as to be her Bridegroome. Whereas indeed the best in the Church may say as Iohn, Mat. 3.11. I am not worthy to car∣ry his shooes; and as Abigaile said, when she should be Dauids wife. 1 Sam. 25.41.
When Hester was taken to be Ahashuerosh his wife, though she were a poore captiue, yet was there some cause why the King loued her, viz. because she pleased him, Ester 2.9. but in the Church there is no cause why Christ should cast his loue on her, as appeares, Ezek. 16.6.
2. How carefull ought we to be in pleasing of him, and by loue to answer this his loue, to carry our selues reuerently, to subiect our selues vnto his commandements, to seeke his ho∣nour, not to carry our selues rebelliously, presumptuously, and proudly.
Againe, this is matter not onely of instruction, but of triall also, whether wee are of the Church, or no. This will appeare by our carriage: for if we be proud, contemptuous of our bre∣thren, worldlings, couetous, &c. it shewes, that the Spirit of Christ is not in vs, whereby wee a••e vnited vnto him, and one vnto another; if it were, then would the fruits thereof be in vs, as loue, meekenesse, &c.
3. For Consolation: first, that so Christ will performe the