by his friend, who in friendly and familiar sort wished him either to learne more patience in gaming, or else to surcease from game.
What (quoth he to his friend) doest thou thinke I am a stock or stone, that I should have no sense of my losse? Surely I thinke there is no man that knowes how he comes by his money, but will be moved for the losse of it.
But I approve not of his
Maxime: you shall see an old
Gamester beare all crosse chances with an equall and undejected spirit, whereas our young
Gamesters (for passion is most inci∣dent to Novices) upon a crosse throw, pull their haire, teare the Cards, stamp and fret like gumm'd grogram: so farre they are from patience for want of experience. Their younger and unmellowed yeeres never felt the crosses of a
Gamester, and therefore can hardly digest them when they come. This the Philosopher seemes to confirme, saying;
Nothing can be violent, being once habituate. For use or custome as it makes perfectnesse, so it begets a composednesse of minde, to endure with patience whatsoever the extremitie of fortune may in∣flict. But now in my discourse of
Passion, which makes men so much forget themselves, as they will, rather than want a fit subject to revenge their ill fortunes on, minister occasion of offence to their dearest friends; there is one thing which I would have our young
Gen∣tlemen to take heed of, and that is, in their heat and height of passion to forsweare gaming at all, or with such an one, because they had never fortune to be savers at his hands; yet, as men carelesse of what they sweare, without respect to what they formerly protested, pre∣sently fall,
••o game againe with the selfe-same company which they had so lately abjured. A dolefull and wo∣full example wee had of this within these few yeeres of
one, whose more eminent parts interested him greatly in his Countries hope; yet having dipt his hand in bloud, was according to justice and equitie adjudged